Flabby bodies

[Dgodus]

Ithought in some older cultures being fat'ish was a sign of wealth or being well off as poor people really couldn't afford to eat like that.

I do work out as sometimes I need it for work but the work I do know is rather lazy so I'd get out of shape if I didn't go to gym then I'd be screwed when I needed it.

 

[pacnwus]

My observation is that people generally have the body that their metabolism gives them. When you see a thin person don't assume that they eat healthy and get regular exercise.

Conversely when you see an overweight person don't assume that they sit on the couch watching TV all day eating nothing but junk food.

That's not really the full story. Everybody should familiarize themselves with the following concept: http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gene–environment_interaction

We do have different genetic dispositions for how we process food. That said, obesity is relatively new, becoming widespread only in the last 40 years. Our genetic makeup hasn't changed much. What has changed is activity level and diet. If the modern North American diet combined with one's genetic makeup makes one fat, well...at least for the time being one only has control over the former, not the latter.

 

[InnocentBoy]

While I agree that the majority of SP's i've seen have been more flabby than i'd like. If they are still in business then men are paying to see them. There have been some young sp's that have so much potential but you just knew the life style they lead would make them fat but how do you say anything without coming accross as an asshole? It's painful enough not to say anything, espsecially when you have good intentions.

 

[pacnwus]

OP, I'm pretty sure there are more fit SPs in Vancouver than here in Portland, as your city is much more glamour and image oriented than mine. As somebody who bikes 12 miles a day, does pushups and pull ups, runs up stairs instead of taking the elevator, I want a fit sexual partner. I've found a few treasures here, but options are limited. To be honest though, I'm not sure that an athletic body type is what most hobbyists demand. For example, on the Portland board, many posters prioritize the willingness to do and skill at BBBJ above and beyond anything related to appearance. If an SP is willing to do CIM, she'll have a lot of fans regardless of how she looks. For me, BBBJ and CIM, while nice, are not priorities. Maybe what you and I care about might be just another niche at this point?

Emmy, I'd love to see you, if only I had reason to return to Victoria I started out traveling to Canada to explore this hobby due to legal issues, but the costs of travel pressured me into finally figuring out the local scene.

 

[MissSunisa]

Ithought in some older cultures being fat'ish was a sign of wealth or being well off as poor people really couldn't afford to eat like that.

I do work out as sometimes I need it for work but the work I do know is rather lazy so I'd get out of shape if I didn't go to gym then I'd be screwed when I needed it.

Yes, being bigger used to be the preference in Western societies, because it was equated with the rich and powerful. Whatever body-type fits the status-quo of this society is what most find ideal. Since food is now cheaper, and lower income/working class people tend to be overweight, the ideals have changed. I'm starting to a notice a correlation between the things men value and their preference for certain types of women. In any event, our tastes are very much conditioned.

There are still many parts of the world where 'chubbiness' is favoured and preferred. However, this society associates superficial beauty with 'thinness,' and thus many trying to attain ideals in society will seek what is promoted.

 

[bcneil]

Some men like larger women, some like smaller. The real problem is so my SPs lie in their advertisements. Both ways.
We get the 100 pound 5 foot Asian ladies, most advertisements claim D or sometimes DD breasts.
Or the 170 pound white lady, who advertises as 36-27-38.

Oh and dont forget, when you measure your height......its normal to do so in your highest of high heels.

 

[Puddlegurl]

Oh and dont forget, when you measure your height......its normal to do so in your highest of high heels.

Totally agree there, if she's a spinner she should be proud and use it, if she's a bbw you should be given that option to know ahead of time!

Are you being sarcastic or do some SP's advertise their height with their heels on? That would make me 6'3 I couldn't imagine many do this..lol.

 

[InnocentBoy]

Excersize is only part of the equation a much bigger problem is diet. I dont mean starving yourself kind of diet either, truth is most people are malnourished. They eat breads and pastries things that dont do squat meet daily vitamin intake, thus they always feel hungry.

I went to school with a guy that looked like John Candy.
He worked out like a lunatic and was very good at almost every sport he was involved in and because of
his size he was the brunt of the fatso jokes on a daily basis.

I saw him a few years ago at a social function and he still looked like a fat guy at 48 but he runs 5 mi a day and mountain bikes with his kids and their friends.

Maybe its crazy genetics or that he never smoked or drank i dont know but he's a shining example that you cant judge a book by its cover and that skinny doesnt always = healthy.

I wish i had half his energy!

 

[InnocentBoy]

Thats when they were eating healthy organic non processed food. Nowadays the poor people are the fat asses living off dollar meal deals at franchises, and the fit and healthy are in better shape.

Ithought in some older cultures being fat'ish was a sign of wealth or being well off as poor people really couldn't afford to eat like that.

I do work out as sometimes I need it for work but the work I do know is rather lazy so I'd get out of shape if I didn't go to gym then I'd be screwed when I needed it.

 

[DavidMR]

My observation is that people generally have the body that their metabolism gives them. When you see a thin person don't assume that they eat healthy and get regular exercise.

Conversely when you see an overweight person don't assume that they sit on the couch watching TV all day eating nothing but junk food.

You're quite right. But, as I am sure you know, "fat" is the last politically acceptable smear line left, so don't expect people to agree.

 

[InnocentBoy]

Damnit Jessica lost her 6 pack before I got a chance to see her.. I've never even felt one.

 

[connor666]

Yes, being bigger used to be the preference in Western societies, because it was equated with the rich and powerful. Whatever body-type fits the status-quo of this society is what most find ideal. Since food is now cheaper, and lower income/working class people tend to be overweight, the ideals have changed. I'm starting to a notice a correlation between the things men value and their preference for certain types of women. In any event, our tastes are very much conditioned.

There are still many parts of the world where 'chubbiness' is favoured and preferred. However, this society associates superficial beauty with 'thinness,' and thus many trying to attain ideals in society will seek what is promoted.

Bingo!

You are so right. My thoughts are, if you are a whore, why are you not skinny?

Either you are supporting a coke habit or go to the fucken gym and get a tight body.

To me, a fat young whore is a lazy whore.

Why the fuck else would I want to pay you $250 to $300 to shove my cock into for an hour?

 

[uncleg]

Well looks like in the future we will not only have Condoms & Lube but also Flower in the Pooner's kit!:doh:

................don't forget your glasses...............

 

[chilli]

associates superficial beauty with 'thinness,'

What's superficial about someone who takes care of themselves?

People who are fat - overeat and generally don't get enough exercise and studies show - die earlier.

There is a healthy/attractive middle ground - And fat or overweight is not it.

 

[Highjack]

What's superficial about someone who takes care of themselves?

People who are fat - overeat and generally don't get enough exercise and studies show - die earlier.

There is a healthy/attractive middle ground - And fat or overweight is not it.

For young people, yes. Actuarial tables are deceiving, as they don't take age into account. They are an average of the entire population. People in their teens and twenties should be far lighter than the medical tables suggest, and it's good for the elderly to be heavier than the population average. The excess weight helps moderate sudden shifts in allotropic demands upon the metabolism in the elderly. Paradoxically, once you're elderly and overweight you can extend your life further by cutting your intake of calories to 1/3 of that suggested for your body mass. Your body isn't using up energy at the rate of a young or even middle aged person, so you can cut down your food intake without losing weight, both extra weight and reduced calories having health benefits for the elderly.

Will I do that when I'm old? Right now I'd say fuck it, but who knows what I'll be thinking in thirty or forty years.

 

[lenny]

Excersize is only part of the equation a much bigger problem is diet. I dont mean starving yourself kind of diet either, truth is most people are malnourished. They eat breads and pastries things that dont do squat meet daily vitamin intake, thus they always feel hungry.

Could taking a multivitamin pill solve that problem, while continuing to eat breads?

BTW i thought breads have some B vitamins.

 

[lenny]

For young people, yes. Actuarial tables are deceiving, as they don't take age into account. They are an average of the entire population. People in their teens and twenties should be far lighter than the medical tables suggest, and it's good for the elderly to be heavier than the population average. The excess weight helps moderate sudden shifts in allotropic demands upon the metabolism in the elderly. Paradoxically, once you're elderly and overweight you can extend your life further by cutting your intake of calories to 1/3 of that suggested for your body mass. Your body isn't using up energy at the rate of a young or even middle aged person, so you can cut down your food intake without losing weight, both extra weight and reduced calories having health benefits for the elderly.

Will I do that when I'm old? Right now I'd say fuck it, but who knows what I'll be thinking in thirty or forty years.

I'm wondering what the source of your info is. I've heard that old people generally have a different metabolism.

By "elderly" do you mean 65 and up?

Are you saying the "elderly" should not have perfectly slim bodies but have excess fat as in things like a "beer belly"?

 

[chilli]

We live in a society where we are actually arguing that being fat and overweight is ok?

While 3/4 of the rest of the world doesn't have enough food to eat.

Where children die of starvation everyday.

We consume too much of the earth's resources - we get fat on food. While others struggle to get through the day.

And then we try to make it ok, because were worried about someones "self-esteem".

I've got a message for all you fatties, stop being so freakin selfish.

 

[DavidMR]

I've got a message for all you fatties, stop being so freakin selfish.

I said earlier that "fat" is that last politically correct smear line left, so thanks for proving my point.

As you know, people who have obesity problems may have troubles with their thyroid or other basic issues that leads them to be overweight compared to others for any given activity/food intake level. Accusing them of bad character (your term was "selfish") just continues the smear approach. That approach is taken because people have a basic need to feel better than someone else, not because any of them think it's justified.

 

[Elmore]

We all have different metabolisms so for some it is harder to lose weight and keep it off. But in all my years, I have only met a handful of overweight people who actually had half way decent diets and exercised now and again. The overwhelming majority ate crap and didn't exercise. The big boned or thyroid excuse in mosty instances is just that...an excuse.