Hi, I had visited an SP, not like a bombshell SP. We did some kissing and there was exchange of Saliva, we did few positions but mostly missionary. Ejaculated once and was feeling guilty so left after like 10 mins of sex.
Did it with a condom.
Do you think I should get tested? Because that day I felt so guilty because Few months ago I was so far away from this sex addiction, I wasn't so weak to sex as I was till that day (happened 2 days ago).
She has flu too. Did some sneezing after I ejaculated.
While on my way back to home and during that day, I felt very uneasy and I had felt little bit pain too in my body, near my dick and near the thighs ( I dont know how to explain).
Should I get tested?
Hi whatisthis
It is great that you used a condom as this will offer great protection against HIV.
We recommend that anyone who is having sex with different partners should come in for routine testing. Given this I would suggest coming to one of our clinics in 2 weeks for a check up. From what you have written it would probably be good to chat with someone.
Here is a link to STI clinics.
http://healthnurse.wordpress.com/faq-about-sexual-health/4-sti-clinic-locations/
People can sneeze for many different reasons which may not be a cold or flu. You won’t get a sexually transmitted infection from someone sneezing but you could get their flu or cold if they had one.
It seems that you are suffering from strong feelings of guilt and remorse. A negative view about sex and strict rules around it are most cultural norms. This can result in people having feelings of guilt and confusion.
We are sexual beings. It is normal for people to desire sex and that this sexual expression can be different for each person. Issues can develop when your feelings about sex come in conflict with your cultural or religious beliefs. I have met many men over the years in this situation and it can be really tough for them. Often they feel guilt, shame and disgust about their “normal” feelings. They can also feel alone as it can be hard or unhelpful to discuss this with traditional support networks like family and friends.
If this is the case I would suggest coming in to one of our clinics and talking with us about it.
A really good local resource is Dr David Mackenzie. Here is a link to his website. He has had a great deal of experience with sexuality and religious/cultural beliefs, the conflict that can develop for people and how to deal with it.
http://www.davidmckenzie.ca/
HN
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