Hi,
Does anyone know where I could get some anti-depressants or any sort of drug that would reduce/kill my sex drive?
Yes, I know, weird question to be asking, but I can't take being horny non stop anymore.
I always feel dirty and disgusting after sex, whether it be with an SP or a non SP, and lately I've just been hooking up with girls that are bad news.
I envy men that have erectile dysfunction.
I've tried going to a bunch of different doctors, but they all refuse to give me the medication.
Thanks!
Hi spikedhair00
You have brought up a great question. I have met many men in your situation and it can make life difficult.
Feeling horny can be an incredibly strong feeling for a man. I think some woman do not appreciate how strong this emotion/feeling can be at some times.
Like any strong feeling/emotion they can make life difficult especially if you feel you must always act upon these feeling.
For example this is similar for people who experience strong feeling of anger and then hit people when they are angry. As we know this usually gets people a quick trip to prison and is not helpful in their life.
I have seen the same thing happen with men who feel horny. This can put them at risk of infections as well as relationship difficulties.
I think like many other strong emotions like anger, sadness etc… it would be helpful to learn how to deal with that emotion in a positive way that you would be happy with.
From a young age we help children deal with strong emotions like anger, sadness, disappointment etc… But because of or sex negative culture we do not teach people how to deal with feeling horny and give unhelpful advise like “it is bad to feel that way”
I can see any doctor’s dilemma since there would be no medical reason to prescribe you medication and if something went wrong with a side effect they would be in trouble. The other problem is that while some medication may kill your sex drive it could also affect other feelings you have that you would be unhappy with.
You also mentioned that you feel “dirty and disgusting” after sex. Everyone has different norms around sex that are mainly determined by cultural norms, family, religion etc… These norms around sex can have a large influence on how we feel about ourselves when we have these normal feelings of being horny or having sex.
From what you have written above I would highly recommend connecting with someone who has specialist training in this area who can help you deal with these strong feelings/emotions in a way that is ok for you.
Sex counselor/ therapist resources
Dr David Mackenzie
http://www.davidmckenzie.ca/home
Dr Bianca Rucker
http://www.biancarucker.com/index.htm
Dr Pega Ren
http://www.smartsextalk.com/index.html
HN
www.healthnurse.wordpress.com
www.stiresource.com
