I’ve noticed a few of you complained about not being able to finger escorts. A lot of my peers don’t allow it for valid reasons. Let me help you out. Most common reasons are: hygiene, sensitivity and comfort
Never and I mean it never:
• Stick a finger in someone without consent
• Stick your fingers in someone if your hands are dirty
• Go from ass to vag
Quick reminders:
• Always wash your hands before
• Keep your nails short and make sure they’re not broken
• Ask for consent
• Ask if it’s ok to add a finger
• Use lube especially for anal play
These can seem very obvious to some and I’m happy if it is but sadly, far too many men don’t know the basics. Vaginas are very sensitive and a small detail like forgetting to wash your hands before you play with it can disrupt its pH. You know what that means? Bacterial vaginosis or yeast infection. Those aren’t pretty or sexy words, I know. That also means that the provider won’t be able to see clients while she’s treating herself. Don’t be rude, wash your hands.
You aren’t a DJ and the clit isn’t a mixing table so there’s no need to rub it in all directions super rapidly. Ask your partner how she likes it, not only is it super sexy but on top of it you’ll know exactly what she likes.
We are not hiding gold in our cervix so there’s no need to go that deep. The g spot isn’t even there.
It’s not a race either so you don’t need to speed up as soon as you slide your fingers in. Start slowly and ask your partner if she’d like you to go faster or better yet, maybe she’ll tell you herself.
TLDR: Providers refuse DIGITS(fingering) because they’re afraid you’ll hurt them or that you’ll disrupt their pH. Don’t shove your fingers rapidly like you’re in some kind of competition. Don’t go from ass to vag.
Need more advice:
How to book an indy
How to introduce yourself like a pro
How to get a reference
Never and I mean it never:
• Stick a finger in someone without consent
• Stick your fingers in someone if your hands are dirty
• Go from ass to vag
Quick reminders:
• Always wash your hands before
• Keep your nails short and make sure they’re not broken
• Ask for consent
• Ask if it’s ok to add a finger
• Use lube especially for anal play
These can seem very obvious to some and I’m happy if it is but sadly, far too many men don’t know the basics. Vaginas are very sensitive and a small detail like forgetting to wash your hands before you play with it can disrupt its pH. You know what that means? Bacterial vaginosis or yeast infection. Those aren’t pretty or sexy words, I know. That also means that the provider won’t be able to see clients while she’s treating herself. Don’t be rude, wash your hands.
You aren’t a DJ and the clit isn’t a mixing table so there’s no need to rub it in all directions super rapidly. Ask your partner how she likes it, not only is it super sexy but on top of it you’ll know exactly what she likes.
We are not hiding gold in our cervix so there’s no need to go that deep. The g spot isn’t even there.
It’s not a race either so you don’t need to speed up as soon as you slide your fingers in. Start slowly and ask your partner if she’d like you to go faster or better yet, maybe she’ll tell you herself.
TLDR: Providers refuse DIGITS(fingering) because they’re afraid you’ll hurt them or that you’ll disrupt their pH. Don’t shove your fingers rapidly like you’re in some kind of competition. Don’t go from ass to vag.
Need more advice:
How to book an indy
How to introduce yourself like a pro
How to get a reference
