References [Informative thread]

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This thread is for information purposes only. You are not obligated to follow the recommandations discussed in this thread. This is not a debate if you wish to debate on the topic kindly start a new thread.

Some providers might ask you for a reference in lieu of screening or deposit.

Very nice, makes your life easier but what is it?
A reference is simply an email from another reputable companion mentioning that you were an enjoyable client.

How can you get one?
Preferably, you would ask the last sex worker you've seen to be your reference. After they have agreed, you would send their name and email to the person you are trying to book with.

Why the last?
It's in your best interest to provide the name of the most recent person you've seen because many people do not accept old references or simply won't provide one past a certain amount of time.

Can you always use the same person as a reference?
Technically yes, but it is a bit gauche. The person you use as a reference needs to answer emails from peers on top of the emails from clients. Many won't accept to be your reference more than two times.
 

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This thread is for information purposes only. You are not obligated to follow the recommandations discussed in this thread. This is not a debate if you wish to debate on the topic kindly start a new thread.

Some providers might ask you for a reference in lieu of screening or deposit.

Very nice, makes your life easier but what is it?
A reference is simply an email from another reputable companion mentioning that you were an enjoyable client.

How can you get one?
Preferably, you would ask the last sex worker you've seen to be your reference. After they have agreed, you would send their name and email to the person you are trying to book with.

Why the last?
It's in your best interest to provide the name of the most recent person you've seen because many people do not accept old references or simply won't provide one past a certain amount of time.

Can you always use the same person as a reference?
Technically yes, but it is a bit gauche. The person you use as a reference needs to answer emails from peers on top of the emails from clients. Many won't accept to be your reference more than two times.
How do you feel about giving them? Is it bothersome to be asked knowing that he would rather spend his money elsewhere? Do you worry the reference will bite you in the ass if the provider claims he stood her up or acted inappropriately?
 

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How do you feel about giving them? Is it bothersome to be asked knowing that he would rather spend his money elsewhere? Do you worry the reference will bite you in the ass if the provider claims he stood her up or acted inappropriately?
I’ve stopped giving references because I felt it was a huge responsibility. A man could be a total sweetheart with me just so that he can use my name, meet someone else and b*** them up.
 
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I would of thought competition?? But I can see time management as the biggest reason why a SW would drop doing references. Reason are you getting paid for it?
 

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I would of thought competition?? But I can see time management as the biggest reason why a SW would drop doing references. Reason are you getting paid for it?
There are indeed some jealous/competitive SPs.

Ive even heard that some SPs not only charge the client for a reference but the SPs inquiring as well. Crazy!
 
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