Finding Sugar Babies on Seeking Arrangement

[Hugh Jass]

did a one month experiment. site sucks. just a bunch of women who think they should be paid to hang out with them without anything sexual. alot of stuck up bitches to navigate through.

You have to tighten up your screening process noting certain keywords--any mention of platonic or developing a relationship first before intimacy, any mention of how they love to shop and want gifts and to travel, or the worst of all-- love to be spoiled or "treat me like the princess I am". It usually will mean you either spend a lot of money for nothing or spend too much money for what you get in return.

The best ones keep their profiles short and simple and if the phrases, loves to please, looking for fun and open minded occur its a very positive thing. A long, too detailed profile description is usually someone to pass on.

There are a lot of nice genuine and reasonable women on the site, you just have to sort through the chaff to get to the wheat...both sides do. Yeah, it takes time and effort but is worth it.

 

[thetruth]

Met up with another girl last night...usually the ones that respond and cut through the BS and code words are the ones that are good to go...
She was a Japanese/Caucasian mix...and was so hot in bed...it was awesome...a little curvy but not fat...well worth it...

 

[BaconNeggs]

I've looked but never joined the site.
Basically until my new years resolution to try social media and joined a site I never have before.
But have lurked in some.
Recognizing one gal as a waitress where often I go to eat, took a chance and casually slipped her a note. It simply said saw you on SA if you ever want to talk. And my number.
She started texting me the very next day.
We have gone out 35 or 40 times now, several were sleep overs.
When I go to eat she makes sure that I am seated in her area also.
So I sort of used the site but unofficially.

 

[curious250]

I have an SA date lined up but haven't done this before. What is the etiquette, give her the money when you go back to your room after your dinner date ?

 

[sdw]

I have an SA date lined up but haven't done this before. What is the etiquette, give her the money when you go back to your room after your dinner date ?

What did you arrange with her?

Some are pretty straight up. If they have NSA (no strings attached) in their profile and their expectation is "negotiable" or "practical" - then you can probably put the envelope on the dresser.

Others, "don't want to feel like a piece of meat", so they would be insulted if you handed them money directly. I exchanged messages with one that listed herself as "moderate" that wanted the month's money deposited by interact before she would see me. Cute picture, I'm not that stupid. She should have asked after the first few dates.

One thing, you don't have to start messaging any of the women. They message you if they are interested at all. All you have to do is answer their messages. Since I'm old and my pictures are public and recent - it eliminates the women that can't handle sex with an old man.

Usually, she will have told you how she wants to be paid.

 

[High Roller]

I have an SA date lined up but haven't done this before. What is the etiquette, give her the money when you go back to your room after your dinner date ?

I've done this before, and I was lucky to have a 10 who gave me a very, very good experience. But there are also a lot of scammers who will take your cash and dash. You MUST feel her out, so to speak, and be sure she will not cheat you.

 

[sdw]

I've done this before, and I was lucky to have a 10 who gave me a very, very good experience. But there are also a lot of scammers who will take your cash and dash. You MUST feel her out, so to speak, and be sure she will not cheat you.

Today was a prime example of how SA works for a pooner. 20 - 30 new female members aged from too young to old enough. I don't click favorite for women younger than 23 and I remove the favorite if she hasn't messaged me in 48 hours.

The young lady I saw today messaged me less than 10 minutes after I clicked favorite, negotiated conditions in the next half hour and was in the hotel room with me 4 hours after she became a member of SA. Same expense as an SP that is similarly attractive, but instead of 1 hour, she stayed for just over 5 hours. She'd like to earn her rent again next month. She says she removes her membership every month after she has her rent money. After I've seen her again tomorrow evening she will have her rent money.

There were probably 10 local females that joined today that were willing to do a similar transaction.

If you message the woman, you find yourself having to defend the fact of your age. If she messages you, she already has seen your picture and knows how old you are. The dynamics of the conversation are different.

 

[High Roller]

I've been toying with something.

An arrangement happens where a girl is available for the guy, and he gives her a living allowance. So my fantasy project is to have at least two hot chicks on call 24/7. What do you think?

 

[sdw]

I've been toying with something.

An arrangement happens where a girl is available for the guy, and he gives her a living allowance. So my fantasy project is to have at least two hot chicks on call 24/7. What do you think?

Expensive. I haven't had much success with paying a monthly allowance with the exception of a Polish woman many years ago. Some members will remember the singer who wanted help and was looking for Sugar Daddies here. Very pretty lady. I know I didn't get any regular sugar and I doubt that any other takers of her offer got any regular sugar. There was always an excuse for not being available unless you had her allowance in hand.

I've been much happier with insisting on a NSA relationship with payment per meeting.

 

[High Roller]

Expensive. I haven't had much success with paying a monthly allowance with the exception of a Polish woman many years ago. Some members will remember the singer who wanted help and was looking for Sugar Daddies here. Very pretty lady. I know I didn't get any regular sugar and I doubt that any other takers of her offer got any regular sugar. There was always an excuse for not being available unless you had her allowance in hand.

I've been much happier with insisting on a NSA relationship with payment per meeting.

Agreed that it's expensive, but it can also be quite an experience. I've had one sugar baby and one who gave me a semi-exclusive relationship, but I've been thinking of doing something like that for a few years, just for the thrill. Of course, that will mean working extra hours, but the good things in life aren't cheap.

 

[deathreborn]

i get alot of women favoriting me that live overseas. it's a pain in the ass as they clog up that list. how do you delete these profiles of the favorited you list. looked and couldn't find anything.

 

[sdw]

i get alot of women favoriting me that live overseas. it's a pain in the ass as they clog up that list. how do you delete these profiles of the favorited you list. looked and couldn't find anything.

Get any "Local" women to "Favorite" you. Click Search, click Favorited Me, slide the slider right out to 1600KM, you will get a list of the women withing 1600KM of you and how many KM they are from you. It doesn't work if she won't "Favorite" you. It also doesn't work if she's using anything to disguise her location. I've discovered that there are an amazing amount of "Sugar Babies" that aren't where they say they are. I only see Sugar Babies that are within 100KM of me.

The Interests button shows who has "Favorited" you and also who has Viewed you, no indication of distance from you.

 

[sdw]

i get alot of women favoriting me that live overseas. it's a pain in the ass as they clog up that list. how do you delete these profiles of the favorited you list. looked and couldn't find anything.

I forgot to mention that you can block them. Go to their page, click the cog wheel on the left side, click block**** That's all, they are gone and won't know you blocked them unless they try to message you.

I used to talk to the overseas ladies if they had an interesting profile and were gorgeous. I don't anymore. Chances are pretty good that they are a scammer like the lady who informed me that I had to send her money for the airplane ticked she had already booked. Yep, I'm going to cable someone in Tinbuktu U$1000 and expect that she's actually going to get on a plane.

 

[sdw]

If you join as a Standard member, do you get notified when a lady messages you, but can't access said message until you upgrade to Premium?

That's right. It costs $107 a month (U$79.95) to be able to read messages and send messages. I don't know what the tariff is for women. College members with a .edu email address are free.

 

[Hugh Jass]

That's right. It costs $107 a month (U$79.95) to be able to read messages and send messages. I don't know what the tariff is for women. College members with a .edu email address are free.

I think its entirely free for women. Women Ive seen were surprised when I told them I had to pay to message.

 

[yvrvisitor]

i had some cute asian girls asking for $800 per meet

 

[burcs]

i had some cute asian girls asking for $800 per meet

lol that Ayu chick is everywhere huh

 

[hankmoody]

Yes it takes alot of time.
I've had 2 "models" message me from overseas, wanting me to put them through "school". Yet they have no interest of coming to Canada and meeting.
Some of the favourite's that come from overseas, take a look at your "viewed me" page. Most don't even look at your profile.
Make sure to image search pics too.
There are some nice ladies on there but i chuckle everytime i check my messages. I clearly state on my page i'm looking for stimulating conversation as well, someone to stimulate my mind and body, someone to click with. Yet the majority of my messages are "hi" or "hey". Once in a while you come across a scholar who somehow manages to dig deep and come up with "how r u."
I guess they are just to used to the guys doing the work, and that's the best they can do?
I also describe myself and what i'm looking for in detail, saying if you think we'd be a good match, send me a message. I get way more "favourites" then messages.
Not to mention the ones who are conceited enough to think they are worth over 10 grand a month. Most of those don't even want to meet. Just drop that in my account and i'll send you a text once in a while telling you how lucky you are. lol
Does anyone actually fall for that?

 

[deathreborn]

I think its entirely free for women. Women Ive seen were surprised when I told them I had to pay to message.

the month i joined they had a sale. it was $59.99US. not renewing until there's another sale.

 

[sdw]

i had some cute asian girls asking for $800 per meet

I don't know if the cute asian girls that messaged me are cute. No face shown, dark picture so that body is not really visible. $800 for an hour, both cute asians were the same price. The asians, russians and ukranians seem to be the quickest to message as soon as you join. It took a few days for local women to start messaging me.