The subject came up as "How Many of you Guys Negotiate" in another thread. I thought about it and started this thread about about fees, honesty and trust rather than negotiation.
I pay the lady's posted fee, unless it is not posted for what I want. Most girls don't have a posted fee for some services and ask that we make an offer. For an example, an extended session, a social or a weekend will vary significantly with each lady. We should make these agreements before the session. The fee becomes the fee. Any changes after the fee has been agreed on are dishonest.
The fee is the fee, once it is has been agreed on. Either party should not suddenly make adjustments to the agreed on fee "Before, at the Beginning or During the session." This is dishonest.
For the aforementioned reasons, many of us prefer to see Indies, where we can talk directly with the lady, assure mutual compatibility and iron out any issues before the session. Most of all, not be subject to upselling for extras, a surprise change in time, service and/or in fees.
Our word is the only thing we have to give in exchange for trust.
Lots of sunshine at ya.
I pay the lady's posted fee, unless it is not posted for what I want. Most girls don't have a posted fee for some services and ask that we make an offer. For an example, an extended session, a social or a weekend will vary significantly with each lady. We should make these agreements before the session. The fee becomes the fee. Any changes after the fee has been agreed on are dishonest.
The fee is the fee, once it is has been agreed on. Either party should not suddenly make adjustments to the agreed on fee "Before, at the Beginning or During the session." This is dishonest.
For the aforementioned reasons, many of us prefer to see Indies, where we can talk directly with the lady, assure mutual compatibility and iron out any issues before the session. Most of all, not be subject to upselling for extras, a surprise change in time, service and/or in fees.
Our word is the only thing we have to give in exchange for trust.
Lots of sunshine at ya.