That's the best way possible you put it to words.Funny you should say that. One of the last providers I sae we got chatting. I asked her why she rebranded and ahe casually mentioned her SO doesn't approve of her choice. It did not affect my session, although in the moment I thought it would. Its her decision. Now if he came in swinging that would be one thing, but that was not the case and I had a great time.
Sp's don't get to judge a client if he has a wedding ring tan or what he does when he's got Wifey and/or kiddies at home. What matters is what is going down in the allotted time. People pay for time and want a fantasy in that timeframe. Everything else is just noise.
Very well said jam!!! :clap2::clap2:Funny you should say that. One of the last providers I sae we got chatting. I asked her why she rebranded and ahe casually mentioned her SO doesn't approve of her choice. It did not affect my session, although in the moment I thought it would. Its her decision. Now if he came in swinging that would be one thing, but that was not the case and I had a great time.
Sp's don't get to judge a client if he has a wedding ring tan or what he does when he's got Wifey and/or kiddies at home. What matters is what is going down in the allotted time. People pay for time and want a fantasy in that timeframe. Everything else is just noise.
I think people are kidding themselves when they say they pay for time. It's paying for sex everybody knows that.Funny you should say that. One of the last providers I sae we got chatting. I asked her why she rebranded and ahe casually mentioned her SO doesn't approve of her choice. It did not affect my session, although in the moment I thought it would. Its her decision. Now if he came in swinging that would be one thing, but that was not the case and I had a great time.
Sp's don't get to judge a client if he has a wedding ring tan or what he does when he's got Wifey and/or kiddies at home. What matters is what is going down in the allotted time. People pay for time and want a fantasy in that timeframe. Everything else is just noise.
That's a great way to put it Jam!Sp's don't get to judge a client if he has a wedding ring tan or what he does when he's got Wifey and/or kiddies at home. What matters is what is going down in the allotted time. People pay for time and want a fantasy in that timeframe. Everything else is just noise.
Put it this way. It will be hard to find those who are turned on by her having an SO. Some might: those with coockold-related fantasies (as if she's cheating on her SO), or those who are afraid the SP would want a relationship with the client if she didn't have an SO.she is super convinced that her business will slow down if her regulars knew that she had a boyfriend/husband. I would very much like to disagree with her but I'm not very certain
On the face of it, it's a bit of an irrational expectation. You already know she's having sex with other people. What's one more? And if there's a deep, personal emotional connection with that person who's not you, well if the client is jealous of that, he's looking for the wrong thing from her.Put it this way. It will be hard to find those who are turned on by her having an SO. Some might: those with coockold-related fantasies (as if she's cheating on her SO), or those who are afraid the SP would want a relationship with the client if she didn't have an SO.
A much bigger portion of the clients would be turned off. That's a fact, whether it's rational thinking on their part or not. There is a whole "want to be first for the day" crowd. Feeling special is a common need, and that fantasy is harder to keep if the SO is in the picture. On the balance, it seems smart for SPs not to bring it up if she does not know how the client reacts.
Even with open relationships, it is hardly smart to make your partner listen how you praise your other partners. Same concept.
It is mostly irrational. People are often irrational, that does not mean they are bad clients. You probably saw these kind of questions: "which SPs see one client a day at most", "when does she start so I can be first for the day", etc. And there is an even less educated crowd outside of PERB.On the face of it, it's a bit of an irrational expectation. You already know she's having sex with other people. What's one more? And if there's a deep, personal emotional connection with that person who's not you, well if the client is jealous of that, he's looking for the wrong thing from her.
Man that hits reaaal close to home lol.Even with open relationships, it is hardly smart to make your partner listen how you praise your other partners. Same concept.
I agreed 100% for a moment, then changed my mind. I'd allow the SP the right to decide whether it's work.“Hanging out” outside working hours isn’t work. Anything done without the meter running isn’t work. That’s when you being to veer into slippery slope territory. So yeah it’s probably a good idea the client be aware she has an SO.
