Escorting without the sex?

Holly Taylor

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Thanks for your input everyone, but this is a really old thread. I don't know why it was raised again.

My friend has since decided she is not interested in pursuing this idea.
 

Dickson

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Actually there is a good market, from older gentleman. They may be married or live in a certain social class, (church going, have a status etc.) or may be shy, but probably the majority of man actually by upbringing or sense of shame cannot bring themselves to hire an escort. It does not mean they do not enjoy a females company, if packaged right. The best candidate is faithful but lonely. In fact the primary market will be out of town married businessman. Probably be of a minimum age of 40. Fifty is even better as they will be respectful and have ability to keep hands to themselves unless invited.
They cannot get enough of attention by a pretty young woman. Go to any bar in a 5 star hotel, and flirt with a businessman. Its easy, no sex required, pay attention to them and they will invite her to dinner, drinks, to see the sights, etc. they will lavish and feel guilty unless they compensate her. Of course she is not an escort so cannot act as such and take money for companionship or she becomes an escort. She is torn (or so it seems to him) . She finds him a gentleman, and loves his wisdom and would love to spend more time with him, but she cannot take day off from her job, (or variation) if she calls in sick she will be docked pay. He will be insisting to pay, to compensate her for her loss.

Sounds like a romance novel but if there is a legitimate excuse for him to be with her, he will gladly be with her and gladly pay for her time. Forget about massage or touching, just exude class and be vulnerable. He will never take advantage. It will be like old fashioned courting and flirting.
As to amount, well the amount sought needs to less then FS, as it is compensation for lost wages, or acting as a guide (legitimate) not payment for companionship or sex. (immoral just ask any wife).
Yup that describes my experience except about the married part. If I was married I would bring my wife. I would still hire her to take us around. I did this last year. I had a SP who played the part of my wife and we hired an escort to show her NYC and another time we did LA Long Beach with a day tour of Catalina Island. The I did one with a SP from Germany in Prague.

So it is very common.
 

PlayfulAlex

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So it is very common.
No offence but, very common for you, does not make it very common in Vancouver...not 'unheard of or rare', I'm sure, but 'less common' is probably more accurate.

Thanks for your input everyone, but this is a really old thread. I don't know why it was raised again.

My friend has since decided she is not interested in pursuing this idea.
Haha, it was obviously a much-enjoyed thread! And I suggest that your friend probably made the right decision!
 

bcneil

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Oh one other thing with my size I have a number of ladies on PERB that cannot provide full service but are willing to go for dinner or go out with me on a social date but cannot provide full service to me. I think most of them would at a reduced rate but I did not confirm that. So it does happen in Vancouver already.
Wow almost a thread where you didnt mention your penis size...............almost....
 

Dickson

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Wow almost a thread where you didnt mention your penis size...............almost....
Sorry bcneil but my point is that SP provide that service it is not uncommon. But PlayfulAlex is right it might be common for me does not mean it is common for others. Some SP will not provide full service for me. I am not as lucky as you bcneil.

Who said anything about penis size. I am 6'2" and some SP are under 5' who do not feel comfortable with a big guy.
 

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Wow almost a thread where you didnt mention your penis size...............almost....

:pound: :pound: :pound:

Without failure Dickson brings up his dick wherever he goes on Perb :D Maybe its time he starts paying for advertising :p

Funny in the civilian world it's the 5'0 girls that try to get the tallest guy they can.
I am 6'2" and see a 5' SP in public too. No worries for either of us.
 

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I think in Calgary or Toronto there might be a larger market for non-sexual escorting, to various corporate social gatherings. In Vancouver, where there are no head offices to speak of, I think the number of well-to-do men looking for a good looking young woman to accompany them to some gathering or other is going to be few and far between.
Actually, there are at least 2 ladies in Vancouver I know of who do offer "social time" as an option - Lolita Monroe and Sweet Milf Candy. (I have never seen either one, but I did find out from their websites).

Wondering if anyone may know of other independent ladies who offer the non-F/S social companionship as an option?

Non-sexual escorting is certainly not a bad idea, as sometimes one may desire an exciting date with a lady but not any sexual activity afterwards.
 

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I've been offering non FS and social time rates since quite early on in my career... There's definitely a market and I enjoy the variety of experiences ;)

xoxo Fiona Lux
 

BORKO

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I dunno, I keep thinking wouldn't it be better to hang out with friends than pay for social time?
 

BORKO

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Some men are lonely for a women for company, my clients have disabilities stroke, MS, paraplegics and quads. They need TLC too and some can not get erect no matter what they use or try.
Everyone needs intimacy and women or male companionship outside of friendship.
Not everyone has friends around (traveling businessmen) they can hang out with, and not everyone has female friends they can share intimate activities with.

I suppose some people would rather pay for an uncomplicated friendship too, than have to be a friend 24/7 to someone they might only want to spend time with a few times a year.
Well, if that's the case then hopefully these social time only clients are there to use it as a stepping stone for real friendships because I hope they can find someone in their real everyday lives to share real intimate moments with and be there when they need them. Because real friends are the bestest thing ever.
 

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I've been offering social accompaniment since I came on the scene. With or without a sensual hour or two.

I have to agree with Borko that, if you can find a suitable companion in your close circle, then of course, that does sound preferable.

But, if not, I think it's super exciting to enjoy the company of a lovely woman, without the stress and performance anxiety that can accompany most dating adventures. Dinners, special occasions, a jazz night out...it's a fantastic way to make reasonably sure that your night goes the way you want it to.

How many horror stories do we have to read about guys going on dates from PoF that turn into nightmares! I know of one guy who left his date standing on her street corner, she had so lied about her appearance. He sent her into the house for something and took off! Mean, you say? Fake pics and profiles full of lies!

Book a sure thing with a nice companion, and your evening will be assured! You'll probably get some hugs and a kiss goodnight, to top it all off! If you felt that you two clicked, you can always turn it up a notch on the next outing, and add a sensual hour or two! Makes perfect sense to me!
 

alcxd

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I have recently taken an SP & / or SP's (duo) out shopping to a lingerie / toy store, my treat. It is a great time watching the girls pick out outfits to try on, & modeling them for you.
One thing for sure SP's are generally not shy, curtain slides open to show you & potentially rest of store what they have on. :nod:

But of course this gets the blood going so there is always a few hours of quality time after :)
 

Dickson

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I have recently taken an SP & / or SP's (duo) out shopping to a lingerie / toy store, my treat. It is a great time watching the girls pick out outfits to try on, & modeling them for you.
One thing for sure SP's are generally not shy, curtain slides open to show you & potentially rest of store what they have on. :nod:

But of course this gets the blood going so there is always a few hours of quality time after :)
Ok sounds good who did ypu take out I like that idea. Names please. I have taken SP shopping on a number of occassions and I get a kick out of watching model outfits for me. Oin the past it was Rio, Jenna, Cindy, Ashley, Annika, Leeanne, April, Victoria, just to name a few that come to mind.
 

alcxd

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SP's I've taken out shopping, movies, etc
Started with Dom years ago in van, can't remember her name
A Ms Steel in van, Tesla in Vic now retired, Diylnn, Cameron diablo & friend
All the dates where great & look forward to doing it more.
Although Vic is not that small, have dodged the bullet a few times by running into people I know.
Ill have to go shopping when I'm in van hopefully in march
For any perbs that have thought about it, it's a great time.
I've been "on the clock" to "off the clock" with me buying what they picked out.
Although even "on the clock" you end up getting something they tried on ;)
 

normisanas

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Take a girl out "on the clock" and pay her for it?

She better be within the top 1% of most beautiful women out there if she is to be paid and there is no chance of anything sexual.
 

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I would be up for a date with a girl that was only providing company for a few hours, rather than sex, but the price point would need to be considerably less. The rate would have to be just a few bills above the hourly wage I pay my top employee instead of the average that SP's are asking per hour. I doubt very much though that there are girls out there that would be interested.
 

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I would be up for a date with a girl that was only providing company for a few hours, rather than sex, but the price point would need to be considerably less. The rate would have to be just a few bills above the hourly wage I pay my top employee instead of the average that SP's are asking per hour. I doubt very much though that there are girls out there that would be interested.
Well, since we don't know what that number is, it's hard to judge. In my 'other life', I've earned upwards of $200 per hour for short contracts. Initially, my add-on social rate was $75 per hour, and has been maintained at $100 per hour when there is no sensual time on the agenda at all.

Compared to what gentlemen spend on PoF dates that go sour, I think it's a fair request. Lovely company, reviews to read, a reputation to uphold, guaranteed decorum in a public setting, I can't imagine offering as much for less.
 

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Totally understandable, the $75 per hour sounds fair and something I personally would consider with the right lady, but the $100 per hour I would not, considering there would be additional expenses like dinner and the assortment of other entertainment options.
 
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