Escort was good but gave me an off feeling - the 'driver' scoped my house

[UsernamePerb]

So this was only my second encounter with an escort and my first with what I think is a pimp (although I never saw him).

The girl was fine but some things made me start to think after the ordeal was done. It was good, she was very nice and everyhing.
But she never really said bye, when she entered she looked around my house a lot, I didnt realize it, but she threatened me in a way by saying "my driver would be upset".. I nievely believed her driver was just a friend and offered to get her an uber lol.
But we worked it out all without me realizing she threatened me. It wasn't until she left that I realized.

Anyways this all got me paranoid and I checked my cameras, the driver drove past my street a bunch during our time, but the worst thing is he went to the back of my house fence *before* he dropped her off. He avoided my cameras except the top of his head.. It took me two or three looks to notice and scared the shit out of me when I did.

Anyways, is scoping out the house before dropping a girl off normal behavior? He didnt trespass, just looked thru my fence slits. Theres nothing to see which just makes it weird. Whats bothering me is he was able to avoid the cameras (almost entirely.. guess he doesnt know his own height (6'5 fence)).

She also used my Wifi which I didnt think about at the time, but she said she needed to recover a bunch of facebook/emails/snapchats.. and she had recently lost 3 phones with accounts on them. Makes me wonder if shes used my Wifi on a stolen phone and/or recovering stolen accounts or something.
But mostly im worried if this guy is gunna do a home invasion or something. I live alone and she knows this.

 

[MKepler]

Change your Wi-fi password immediately, I hope you didn't let her see the back of the modem.

This isn't normal at all, 100% dangerous, girls don't usually have a guy driving them and if they do, the guy isn't checking out your house and avoiding cameras or caring what she gets paid. Neither do they ask to use my wifi (giving your password could let someone hack into it and disable/track you or your things).

If not at night, it's possible they might break in while you're at work or away. They'll probably check if your vehicle is in the driveway or other signs.

 

[UsernamePerb]

Changed my wifi password yes, and no back of the modem. I'm in IT but didnt think much of it, like giving a guest the password.. but of course its more like giving a stranger the password. Only 1 device connected to it, and ended when she left. The device has a name which could be her real first name.

I just rewatched my security cameras and surprisingly I can make out some of the words even tbough they are far away.
She mentions "dont forget to text me the license plate". But this is after a guy has looked at my driveway. Btw luckily no cars were parked. That actually makes the story make sense, he wasnt peeking thru my fence, he just walks along it - avoiding the camera but I guess he wanted my license plate.

 

[MB Mod]

You should post her name so other members can be aware of her. And no this isn’t normal behaviour.

 

[TheBellaRoseXo]

😳 Agree with the Mod. That’s terrifying.

I will personally never use someone else’s wifi and have renamed all my devices to be an alias in case someone of horrible character tries to find out more info about me. I recommend never letting ladies use your wifi.

 

[gengent07]

Further recommend lots of caution with outcalls at your home especially first time.
You could be a psyco and she could be bad news.

Generally stick with reputable SP or agency.

 

[LusciousLouis]

So this was only my second encounter with an escort and my first with what I think is a pimp (although I never saw him).
I didnt realize it, but she threatened me in a way by saying "my driver would be upset"

In what context did she say this? That he would be upset about what?

 

[westwoody]

Never have a stranger at your house!!

 

[Jethro Bodine]

So this was only my second encounter with an escort and my first with what I think is a pimp (although I never saw him).

The girl was fine but some things made me start to think after the ordeal was done. It was good, she was very nice and everyhing.
But she never really said bye, when she entered she looked around my house a lot, I didnt realize it, but she threatened me in a way by saying "my driver would be upset".. I nievely believed her driver was just a friend and offered to get her an uber lol.
But we worked it out all without me realizing she threatened me. It wasn't until she left that I realized.

Anyways this all got me paranoid and I checked my cameras, the driver drove past my street a bunch during our time, but the worst thing is he went to the back of my house fence *before* he dropped her off. He avoided my cameras except the top of his head.. It took me two or three looks to notice and scared the shit out of me when I did.

Anyways, is scoping out the house before dropping a girl off normal behavior? He didnt trespass, just looked thru my fence slits. Theres nothing to see which just makes it weird. Whats bothering me is he was able to avoid the cameras (almost entirely.. guess he doesnt know his own height (6'5 fence)).

She also used my Wifi which I didnt think about at the time, but she said she needed to recover a bunch of facebook/emails/snapchats.. and she had recently lost 3 phones with accounts on them. Makes me wonder if shes used my Wifi on a stolen phone and/or recovering stolen accounts or something.
But mostly im worried if this guy is gunna do a home invasion or something. I live alone and she knows this.

Sorry if this sounds rude but please take this as constructive criticism and concern for your safety but who the hell invites a total stranger into their home like this in this day and age. I'm happy nothing bad happened but if you think about it, this little rendezvous could have gone sideways in about 10 different directions, none of then good for you.
Like WW always says, you never have a stranger at your house. If she doesn't have an incall and you're still eager to see her then lay out an extra $150 and get a hotel room.
I don't even have people buying stuff off Facebook Marketplace to my home, let alone some random SP I found on the Internet.
Cheers
J

 

[westwoody]

This warning should be in a big red banner stickied to the top of the Winnipeg/MB area.

These stories keep happening and it happened to me decades ago. My consequences were much worse. There are probably lots who are too embarrassed to admit it as well.

 

[Bigbuddyb]

Idk why her security/driver wouldn't do a check to make sure she's safe. That seems understandable to me.

The whole hosting a escort you dont know in your house is the weird part of this story. The only time an escort is coming to my house is if she's my wife or girlfriend. Go do an incall with someone well reviewed and reputable instead, its much cheaper and safer for everyone!

 

[LusciousLouis]

I've seen some reviewers say that they take girls to Aquarius if they don't have an incall. I may start doing this. I've had a half dozen girls at my house, but I always pick them up and drive them and never had a problem or have I been worried.

What's the cost to rent a room at AQ?

 

[Forum mod]

Why on earth does anyone bring a random sex worker into their home? It's honestly mystifying to me. I feel for the OP, but this is a self inflicted situation.

Use the big head. Incalls are much safer, and walk away the second you feel uncomfortable.

Outcall should only ever be considered for known/trusted ladies. This is a common theme I have posted about for years.

 

[usernametaken]

I review normally has the link to the person's ad. And will also have the person's name with the last four digits of their phone number. I realize this is a new member however.....My Spidey senses are tingling.
This sounds more like a police report. Then a review.

 

[UsernamePerb]

I review normally has the link to the person's ad. And will also have the person's name with the last four digits of their phone number. I realize this is a new member however.....My Spidey senses are tingling.
This sounds more like a police report. Then a review.

You're half right, I wanted to post a question asking if it's normal behaviour first, I wasn't sure where to post it.
I didn't post her name since I was worried it was normal, but yeah I didn't get any sleep last night.

She has a bunch of different names, 'Destiny', 'Maria', I think her real name might be 'Emilee' but who knows.
Not only can you view her different posts at the bottom of the page here, there's a technical way to view emails and other details of the poster, and I can say for certain she has more accounts with even more posts;


These are also her, but not the one I replied to, you can see 'other posts' from this poster, who is a different account but same person as the above;

 

[UsernamePerb]

In what context did she say this? That he would be upset about what?

So I was purposely vague, basically I was $20 short if she wanted cash, I did mention it in the beginning of the session. She wanted cash and suggested taking drugs as the $20 (we were doing drugs I offered and discussed beforehand). But in the end I asked if she would want to do another hour and take etransfer instead. She said she had to go but would be back in 25 mins if I wanted another session. So I figured, why take the $20 in drugs if she'll be back for more. Anyways it wasn't an awkward conversation or anything, and I didn't realize her mentioning the driver would be upset was a threat until afterwards lol. I thought she wanted to pay the driver, who was her friend so I said "ohh okay, yeah we'll give him a line." I even offered to pay for an uber so her driver wasn't upset waiting lmao.

 

[usernametaken]

Thanks for clearing that up.
1.For future, I believe you are not allowed to post any links to websites that do not advertise on here. Such as oh my.
2. This review board is so we don't make absolutely dumb decisions. Next time you want to see someone please do your research and review the many reviews on this board. You will see that oh my is not a place that you want to meet girls and bring them back to your house.
3. Common sense, (I know we don't all have it) says it's never a good thing to bring someone to your house. But if you have to, again do the research and use one of the many reputable girls on here who offer outcalls. If it were me I would even go as far as to only offer this to someone who is a member here.
Again sorry to hear about your situation. Looks like in the end nothing happened but who knows what could have happened. Or even what they were planning on doing. Hopefully they weren't checking out your place to see if there are any valuables worth breaking into in the future.

 

[UsernamePerb]

So I was purposely vague, basically I was $20 short if she wanted cash, I did mention it in the beginning of the session. She wanted cash and suggested taking drugs as the $20 (we were doing drugs I offered and discussed beforehand). But in the end I asked if she would want to do another hour and take etransfer instead. She said she had to go but would be back in 25 mins if I wanted another session. So I figured, why take the $20 in drugs if she'll be back for more. Anyways it wasn't an awkward conversation or anything, and I didn't realize her mentioning the driver would be upset was a threat until afterwards lol. I thought she wanted to pay the driver, who was her friend so I said "ohh okay, yeah we'll give him a line." I even offered to pay for an uber so her driver wasn't upset waiting lmao.

To add on to this, I wanted more time since the time with her was really good. She seemed nice too.

She didn't come back and we didn't do another session, I also knew right away based on body language and tone that she wasn't coming back - she did this after our agree'd upon time was up though - so it's strange she had an excuse to leave, but I can't be upset since it was after the time was up.

 

[usernametaken]

To add on to this, I wanted more time since the time with her was really good. She seemed nice too.

She didn't come back and we didn't do another session, I also knew right away based on body language and tone that she wasn't coming back - she did this after our agree'd upon time was up though - so it's strange she had an excuse to leave, but I can't be upset since it was after the time was up.

Again my spidey senses are tingling

 

[UsernamePerb]

Thanks for the help, patience and advice btw guys. Maybe I could repost this more clearly, correctly and as a warning to others. I think I found her posts on Leolist, I can look again. I did research after feeling uneasy