Dying a Male Virgin, do you think it's sad, bad, or not a big deal?

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I know a few guys in their early 40's who are virgins, not by choice but mainly to shyness and having no game whatsoever. They also have horrible jobs so it's not looking good for their futures.

Do you think dying a virgin is a horrible thing? Never having experienced sex? Or is it completely overrated? I know never being in a relationship and experiencing love is worse but this question is strictly about sex, not love.
 
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In his 40's...that is pathetic...shit job or not...tons of lonely women out there...take your pick really...
 
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I think that situation would suck completely. Most guys have urges and internet porn is a poor substitute. Though, by the time you are 40 you are a big boy and you have to take some responsibility for your life. Sitting around hoping Miss Right (or Miss Right Now) drops into your lap is not likely to work.
 
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Maybe Hunka will post how it feels to die a virgin when he's lying on his death bed....................:D:nod:
 
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Regret sex? Maybe, maybe not.

Not having kids might be a bigger regret. Not having a relationship with someone on an intimate enough level to have sex might be a bigger regret. The act itself? Probably not. I think on your deathbed it might be one of those trivial things like should I have bought the V8 instead of the V6 or maybe I should have eaten more cheesecake.
 
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To each their own. One of the guys in my entourage just isnt into dating or women really. He is not at all gay or into guys.
He still loves porn. He dated a few girls in our college years, but no sex.
So we talked him into an sp for his 35th.

We chipped in. They picked this $400 girl....I didnt have any say.
He had a horrible start....too nervous for a strong erection....but he really liked his bj.

But then, thats it, never did anything else till we were all in Amsterdam a couple years later.
He got fs 5 times. Now again, nothing since. He has money, but very cheap.
 
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I know this question is for guys, but I must say, I can't imagine being a virgin at that age! I love sex, and I think it's an important part of life and of someone's well-being. It certainly shouldn't consume anyone's life, and it isn't the most important thing. But I really couldn't imagine what I'd be like if I were to have stayed a virgin my whole life....maybe I would've taken all the time and energy I put into sex and became a rocket scientist! :p Yeah right! lol. Well, whatever turns your crank, and if these people are happy then why the hell not? If they aren't, well it's never too late to change your life around :)
 
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BrokeBastard said:
Do you think dying a virgin is a horrible thing? Never having experienced sex? Or is it completely overrated?
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Horrible is being interrogated by Jack Bauer of "24" fame. Or what you see in "horror" movies.

Sex with another person can be wonderful, amazing and incredible, but if you've never experienced it, ignorance may be bliss, since you don't know what you are missing, including risks for HIV etc. And once you've experienced it, it may become a drug like crack, tobacco, or heroin, that you crave all the time.

Also masturbating can be just as enjoyable, if not more so. Just use your imagination, with online porn. You can feel yourself up, massage your balls like getting BLS, dfk yourself, stuff a plug up your ass like your getting anal, etc. As soon as you cum you will probably lose all desires to be near a woman.

BTW I've haven't been inside a woman for the past 45 days, IOW a virgin during that period.

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I know never being in a relationship and experiencing love is worse but this question is strictly about sex, not love.
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I've been in infatuation, but "love", what is that? Overrated hollywood fantasy shallow mush are a few words that cum to mind. Do i cry sometimes when i watch stuff like the Vampire Diaries, Notebook, the Twilight trilogy, etc? Yes, but what does that prove? That Hollywood is talented at manipulating my emotions? I was in love, once, perhaps real self sacrificing love, with God, who is love, but that was years ago, and for some reason He decided to turn me to the dark side ;
 
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if you want need it, i guess it would be horrible.

but if it is something you have no desire for whats the big deal.

i also know a guy in like his sixties. would say he is a virgin, but he is quite the loner, almost a hermit,

another person i know never had a date. never been with a women as far as any one could tell.
when he passed we cleaned out his condo, we found a whole bunch of womens undies that he i guess wore.
people get off in different ways, or don't,
 
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Been there!@!

I had the same thoughts when I was a virgin at 50 and part was be cause of shyness and a loner and not having the money, or no where i could spend the money for what i wanted .. But I solved the problem .. and made a few others lol

If they do something about it Then they will have a totally different out look on life Because being a virgin can be a handy cap in even looking for a relationship ... Of course only seeing escorts can be a handicap to a relationship also ...
 
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i agree being a virgin is a handicap in a sense,

i have never really been a virgin i guess, in the sense we are talking about, but
during long periods of my life, i was not having sex.
just personal issues baggage from my child hood, stuff, not really wanting the physical contact or itmacy, then in my marriage, the sex slowly waned away then stopped,,

life takes on a different perspective when your having sex. your just one of the guys
even girls. you give them a big knowing smile, that says how much fun life can be, and they kind of just hang around you more, as apposed to this sort of leacherous sort of grin that makes them want to run and hide.

yeah life is alot better when your having sex.

but it can bring its own complications.
 
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There is nothing morally reprehensible for them to seek out an escort in this situation since if they had tried to get game and did not succeed, social morality which presumes that game is available do not apply. Even most hard nosed vegetarians will not hold it against you if you were to eat meat where vegetarian diet was not an option in a given area. I say for them it would be perfectly alright to even pay someone to impregnate and make a child for them.
 
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Any Catholic Priests on here want to share their thoughts???. ;)
 
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Here's where a little bit of the old school in me comes out... I think it's worse dying without having been in love, being loved and to have made love. Sex is available anywhere, anytime and almost with anyone.

Peace.
 
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Well i never found it to be available any time any where .. .. If you don't drink , then no party's , don't do drugs , ten no party's , don't work in a office or with other large groups of people , then no party's ,, Don't do sports .. then no party's .. and no bars ... it kind of cuts down on opportunities ..

And then on top of that if you are shy , curious , and respect women , and don't look at them as only some one to use as as sex object .. again your not going to be just looking for sex ..

I personally feel in love ? maybe it was only lust .. a few times .. and did my best to pursue the girl .. The best i managed was to be a friend and got invited to the wedding ...lol .

Even now My best friends are escorts and ex escorts .. I am more comfortable with them because there is an openness's that i don't find in the pretentiousness of the rest of the world .. it is not about being a whore .. it about being real ..about what you think and do ... If you love sex say it .. if you don't say it also .. it is all good ...
 
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