Duration of sex with SP

[donovan12345]

Same here in that as I got older, the orgasms were few and far between. Nice part is I can stay hard but the bad part is my body is too old to keep it in action!:eyebrows:

This is why I like to book longer sessions so that I can enjoy the company of the SP and take my time. If it happens it's fine. If not, it's no big deal. I make sure I communicate with the SP that it is not a concern for me either way although a good orgasm is always nice.

 

[chillibilly]

It takes me forever to release and as I get older it seems to be getting worse. Either that or sometimes I can cum 4 times or more in a hour. I just won't go soft and the next one is better then the last making me want to continue.

The build up is amazing and I love it! It can be hard sometimes to find the right girls. Some girls however love it. Girls that can only last 10 mins are the ones I never ever see again. Those that can do a 3 hour marathon I end up seeing for years. There is one girl I have been seeing for almost 10 years now.

I'm pretty sure all you marathoners with your multi orgasmic events, 1-3 hour sessions and dicks that don't go limp are assholes!! I'm just sayin'!:thumb:

 

[lenny]

I'm pretty sure all you marathoners with your multi orgasmic events, 1-3 hour sessions and dicks that don't go limp are assholes!! I'm just sayin'!:thumb:

I'm also a cunt, whore, man-bitch, and slut, just to name a few.

Although, for the record, there are times when i fail to achieve that too.

 

[storm rider]

Try not posting for 40 minutes.

Good burn

SR

 

[newatit]

Foreplay is so often a big part of all this. Many gals think they just have to look at a guy, or grab his dewy and he is off, and that is true so much particularly when you are younger. Kissing for some reason is not popular with some gals, understandably but some of us really need it. When you find a gal who is really only into FS without the foreplay, it boils down to how successful her manipulation of the little guy is. My new year's resolution is not to go another year without tit and tongue, have been hanging with some one who is too light on it. Need to either change her out or find a supplement.

 

[AA_Train]

For me it depends on the day. Some days i go off quick others I can go for a long time before cumming. Once in my personal life, it took me 90 minutes to cum and i was rock hard the whole time. Much like the OP, I too have a problem with condoms (it seems to kill the mood). One of the advantages of a CBJ is to get it one when you are hard to get it on and continue to stimulate it so you are ultra hard for intercourse.

 

[JamieA]

I recently visited a SP that I won't name and after 40 minutes of sex, handjob and blowjob she told me that I must be a chronic masturbator because I can't get off. I was erect the entire time so it's not erectile dysfunction.
I was upset at that remark and I hadn't masturbated and it was actually sex with another SP 11 days prior to seeing her.
For me it's nerves, condom usage that I hate and rarely used with past girlfriends/wife, stress from job and a bit of fear with catching a STI.

Any one else have this same problem?

I haven't had an SP say "...you must be a masturbator...", but I've had the occasional SP say "You have to cum soon" which I find a complete turn off especially when it isn't even near the end of the session. However, some gals really don't like having straight sex for 40 to 50 minutes.

I have had many instances when I cannot get off during intercourse and for the most part it is the condom. The combination of that, some positions and actual participation level of my partner makes all the difference. I try to judge if there is still smooth natural lube and if not a great finish with an oily handjob or bbbj will never delay the inevitable eruption. I always restrain from masturbation for a few days before any booked session.

G.A.

For me, if the condom is not an ultra-thin or ultra-sensitive condom, I may find that there is very little sensation during straight sex, making it difficult to climax. I usually have ultra-thin condoms for the session, if the SP only wants to use her own (in my experience this is 25% of the time) and she doesn't use ultra-thin or ultra-sensitive, I won't see her again.

Positions do make a difference, even depending on the gal, sometimes a gal seems tighter and wetter in a particular position...good to try at least a couple of different positions to see...

Its not a big deal if it takes forever to release. Its not always about cumming its about the build up. I find tease and denial sessions are super hot and the focus is being in the moment and building arousal until you have no other choice but HIT THE CEILING!

Dont be hard on yourself there is absolutely nothing wrong with you! Actually its going to make your next session so much hotter becasue you can share this tid bit of info before your session and the escort will be thrilled to help you complete your mission.

Have a great day
Jessica James

Great comments from Jessica James here. Tease and denial can be great and it's wonderful when you find and SP that is into it compared to an SP that hopes that you cum right away. One of my worst SP experiences was when I came within the first 10 minutes of a one hour session, the SP was not an msog gal, even though she wasn't going to go a second time with me, she wouldn't even let me touch myself for the next 50 minutes, we just chit-chat - I never saw her again and I don't think she's in the business any more, I don't even recall her working names, but she used to work at either The Touch or Madame Cleos, I saw her as a Fox and it was one of my worst CF experiences.

4 minutes -- 40 minutes ..LOL Never forget one time I showed up knocked at they door and just after the SP (Jennifer this was back about 15-16 years ago) turned to invite me in.. 2 steps following behind her. I Brewed up right there on the spot. She was great about it. We talked, then showered together and then she blew my mind by getting it all back 20-30 minutes later.

It became a running joke through 2 or 3 sessions later though... Hi my name is.. okay god I'm done...LOL

Interesting story, seemed like you had a serious case of premature ejaculation.

 

[sevenofnine]

sounds like you need a new escort.
and there are some great ladies out there, that will make sure you cum,
or do everything they can to help you out with that.
and others that are just happy with your money

so i guess, first find a lady that is good at what she does, and enjoys it. as opposed to some one who just wants your money, and doesn't care if your happy or not.

and then i guess, for me, i find different or more stimulation,
i mean if im struggling to cum, im hard but want to have release but seem to not be able
i go for more stimulation

like sixty nine, bury my face in there, i rather enjoy well my particular ladies tastes and smells,

or massage her breasts with a free hand, again, she has rather an enjoyable set
or if she is giving me a handjob,
well make it mutal masturbation

i guess that is one reason, why or i repeat. and book longer sessions

when you get older and things don't seem to work like they once did,
it might take awhile for the pump to get primed.

and again when you get older, its nice that you and the lady are comfortable with each other, she knows you,
she knows i struggle some time, and she knows what i like to do, when im stuggling like sixxty nine, and mutual masturbation, to finish a session,
i think the lady i see makes notes actually on what us guys like to do, or how to get us to finish,

any way, like i said there are lots of great ladies out there, who welll see it as there job to help you out in these matters, as opposed to just take your money,

 

[InTheBum]

I can't do anything for 40 minutes ound:

Not true...your morning shit takes longer than child birth!!!!!!!!!ound:

 

[gpchillin]

Ya I have had a few get mad because i'm not a two pump chump LOL, But that's because in GP when you pay for an hour that only means you get one shot so if your done in 5 mins they are gone in 6 min. One SP after about 15 mins told me if i'm not going to cum now she is just going to leave !!! that's after only 15 min of my so called hour !!! Fuck I hate GP sometimes.

 

[sevenofnine]

one last thought on this,

as soon as an sp starts to bitch and moan about what my problem may or may not be,
well she is done, get your money back if you can but fuck, i will never see her again.

im paying her right, if i wanted to be bitched at or moaned at, well i can get that for free.

and second in most cases when people want to moan and complain, there the one with the biggest issues.

and finally, great sps, if a guy is struggling, they won't moan and grumble about it, they will ask what she can do for him to make it better, not simply what is your problem or tell you what your problem,

its what do you need, from me, that is a great sp.

my worst session ever, i paid the most money, a riduculus amount of money,
and that was her attitude is what was my problem, and we never even got to sex.
it didn't help that she was a touring lady, and when she came to town,
everyone stood her up or cancelled but me, two or three days and i was her only client.

so not sure what the problem was, if she didn't just like me, or she was just in a bitchy mood, or just a bitch in general.
but fuck, you pay alot of money, if the girl doesn't want to, then give me my money back and send me on my way.

but don't complain to me about
what problems i may or may not have

 

[blackcad]

I've followed this thread from the beginning, and is it just me, or do the women who have responded here actually like to be pounded for 40 minutes straight?

No sp who has responded on this thread has suggested or even hinted that sex of that duration might be a little uncomfortable....and might cause her any fatigue, discomfort, and possibly problems.

Are the sp's mentioned on this thread ok with long duration sex? I really would like to know because that is the message that is coming across here.

Stretching a vagina for that length of time on a regular basis is certainly not natural (and no...this is not childbirth....there is no oxytocin hormone to safely relax the opening during sex) and would lead to a looser vagina without tremendous exercises, kegels, to prevent it.....at least I would think (unless the guy's johnson's nickname is li'l willy). Sex is natural...yes....but sex for 40 minutes straight is not.

Have I been having sex wrong all my life? Am I wrong to feel guilt and worry that I might make the lady sore when she has no problem with long duration sex? Do the women who have posted and whom were referenced here actually want a guy to go for 40 minutes straight?

Any sp's I've seen (you know who you are) can contact/pm me and tell me if they prefer me to go that long...or at least longer (because I've never been told that before...and I can certainly last a lot longer)....this thread kind of surprises me...especially some of the names that have appeared here.

Let me know if I've been doing things all wrong...because your pleasure is my pleasure.

 

[blackcad]

I was mentioned and responded....

I think it really depends on chemistry when it comes down to it.

If I'm aroused and we've connected physically then YES! Non-stop action is awesome! Of course I do speak up if it becomes too much if f I feel we need to stop. I really wouldn't say it's typical for me to be engaged in FS for the entire duration of a one hour plus session.

Keep in mind that I'm a low volume provider by choice. My work doesn't "physically" wear me out (meaning how tight I am hasn't been affected).

Despite having great stamina, I'm a big fan of taking little breaks as needed and returning to FS after. Sometimes you can go on and on but it's good to take a little water break here or there and rejuvenate yourselves or switch to some other form of play that isn't FS (HJ, DATY, CBJ, etc). I find this is usually what happens in sessions where the FS tends to last longer. As nickcan mentioned, his experience with this SP was 40 minutes but from what I read, this 40 minutes also included HJ and CBJ.

I've been told some men lose sensitivity after going at it for too long. Do any of you gentlemen find this to be true?

Thanks Eva. Great answer!...I suppose the key is "arousal".....if a guy is... all the lady wants him to be.... in the moment...then...I guess the longer the better. The best indication that a woman is aroused would be her state of natural lubrication...if she's constantly needing to "lube up".....I guess as a guy it's an indication that you should probably stop because she's not all that aroused.

A couple of SP's I've seen didn't need lube...and I took it to mean that they actually enjoyed having sex with me....a great ego boost. When lube is used...I try to forget it's there and hope/imagine that the sp is having a good time with me, and needs lube with every one.

Yes....and no to your question Eva...if a sensitive spot on the glans is repeatedly being stimulated without orgasm....I can lose sensitivity. Otherwise...it's best to stop and do something else....for a minute or two, or five....and then get back to it....and it's fully sensitive again.

 

[SexyBoy]

I'm pretty sure all you marathoners with your multi orgasmic events, 1-3 hour sessions and dicks that don't go limp are assholes!! I'm just sayin'!:thumb:

TBH During sex I can be so many differant ways normally very aggressive. However after a really good long session with one of my favorite girls I become this HUGE teddy bear. It screws me up if I have sex and then the gym because I lose a lot of my aggression.

My ex was a girl that only could last 10 mins and could not handle it hard or fast. I became fat, lazy, and just uninterested in lifes pleasures compared to the way I was. After I finally broke up with her some of the SP's I had known for eons gave me lots of sessions to get me back on track. Some are retired but still saw me I owe them a lot!

That being said I think some girls just can't really last long and feel pain pretty soon. They might even be wet etc just issues like hitting her bladder or something. I don't know why those type of girls are SP's other then greed and too lazy to get another job. I know they HATE their job. I also know of a few girls who are not SP's but rather gold diggers.

 

[Pillowtalk]

That being said I think some girls just can't really last long and feel pain pretty soon. They might even be wet etc just issues like hitting her bladder or something. I don't know why those type of girls are SP's other then greed and too lazy to get another job. I know they HATE their job. I also know of a few girls who are not SP's but rather gold diggers.

Imagine, someone willing to go so hard and fast to the point of actually hurting someone considers that sp as being greedy and lazy.

You just seem to have the WORST luck with sps lol. Unreal. Average times for men to reach orgasm is between 7-14 minutes. Just because an sp (or any woman) is not impressed by a guy who deliberately holds back (or takes special measures to ensure longer times) doesn't mean she hates sex or hates sex work. Most men are not all hung up about their socalled 'performance' issues, and actually relax and have a good time. What you might be seeing with these sps is they simply do not like your game playing, and believe me, sps who see hundreds of different men all the time know exactly what is going on with a guy who lasts more than 15 minutes. It is extremely rare, and sometimes due to medical reasons, for any man to go beyond 15 without 'help', whether the help is alcohol, cocaine or taking steps to rub one out half hour before appt time.

Any sp would resent a guy who does this deliberately, eventually he gets a reputation for this kind of behaviour, and becomes a person other sps warn about. NOT telling an sp before arrival that you have special needs (as in last longer than 10 minutes during intense fullservice action) makes you a bad news. This is also typical of someone who will pay for an hour or half hour, knowing he couldn't possibly finish in that time, then blame her if she won't give him free overtime because he didn't finish lol.

Really, sb, your reputation is not a good one, fwiw, and your constant attempts to 'list' all the sps isn't really helping you at all. lol

 

[lenny]

"Older men are able to delay ejaculation for a longer time" [BC HealthGuide, 2005, p. 339.]

That's good news!

Where i poon i have a rep for being long lasting, and have found plenty of ladies willing to take me on. In fact, i am quite popular. I can also be quite choosy as in, those who are not up to my standards, which are many, are one and done.

 

[lenny]

I recently visited a SP that I won't name and after 40 minutes of sex, handjob and blowjob she told me that I must be a chronic masturbator because I can't get off.

"Use It or Lose It: Staying Sexual"

"Just as exercise is key to maintaining fitness and health, having sex on a regular basis is the best
way to maintain sexual capacity".

"...self-stimulation is common and poses no health risks or side effects".

[BC HealthGuide, 2005, p. 340.]

 

[the old maxx50]

Being I started so late in life .. even have sex with a woman .. for the first 4 years of seeing escorts i only managed to cum twice ... and that was being very aroused before i saw them and then having every thing go as planed .. Still toke 45 min or so and I have to do the honors at the end.

With me it was a given that i would not cum and i told each knew girl that i don't cum . I usually concentrated on giving them a few good orgasms and then did my thing untill I was tired or they had enough ... I only would keep seeing the ones that either loved having orgasms , love trying different sex things and like to fuck a lot

It was not until I meet one girl that actually i had more of a connection with on the sexual level that i was able to cum on a regular bases ,, still me whacking off , But it was almost a sure thing every time .. Part of it was there was all ways the teasing before we meet ..and she all ways wanted oral and could not wait till i put the cock in because that made her cum and squirt .. It all came down to she was a great self esteem booster . That allowed me to find that place in my mind to have an orgasm... I guess i just over think thing ...

Since then i have had very little problem finishing during most section .. and with other ladies .. But i know now that it is about being comfortable with the woman i am with and being comfortable with myself ... It helps if there is a greater intimacy ,but I have not had that for a while .. I seem to settle for a less these days .. and even go with out giving oral because the person i see does not want it .. she is more in to BJ which do very little for me and wham bham thank you mam... So I there is not any 40 min sex a thones .. But i still like spending time with her and she encourages me to cum and likes seeing me whack off as she plays with her self and some time she will help me a long ....

 

[SexyBoy]

Imagine, someone willing to go so hard and fast to the point of actually hurting someone considers that sp as being greedy and lazy.

You just seem to have the WORST luck with sps lol. Unreal. Average times for men to reach orgasm is between 7-14 minutes. Just because an sp (or any woman) is not impressed by a guy who deliberately holds back (or takes special measures to ensure longer times) doesn't mean she hates sex or hates sex work. Most men are not all hung up about their socalled 'performance' issues, and actually relax and have a good time. What you might be seeing with these sps is they simply do not like your game playing, and believe me, sps who see hundreds of different men all the time know exactly what is going on with a guy who lasts more than 15 minutes. It is extremely rare, and sometimes due to medical reasons, for any man to go beyond 15 without 'help', whether the help is alcohol, cocaine or taking steps to rub one out half hour before appt time.

Any sp would resent a guy who does this deliberately, eventually he gets a reputation for this kind of behaviour, and becomes a person other sps warn about. NOT telling an sp before arrival that you have special needs (as in last longer than 10 minutes during intense fullservice action) makes you a bad news. This is also typical of someone who will pay for an hour or half hour, knowing he couldn't possibly finish in that time, then blame her if she won't give him free overtime because he didn't finish lol.

Really, sb, your reputation is not a good one, fwiw, and your constant attempts to 'list' all the sps isn't really helping you at all. lol

Actually I think I have extremely good luck with SP's getting tons of discounts, extra services, and sometimes even free dates.

Oh god some girls can't last 3 mins probably because they couldn't handle sex is the first place and now became a sp they basically grab the money and run. This review board is full of examples of these types of women fyi.

I don't hurt women sexually for my own pleasure. I get pleasure from giving pleasure with any girl. You don’t need to hammer a girl hard to realize she is in pain. The girl well tell you even before you start most times because she is aware of her issue.

My point was that some girls can't even handle a guy going 5 inches into them in certain positions like doggy style at any pace or even gently. My ex couldn't handle any other position other then missionary and at a super super slow pace. There are SP's out there like this who only want the money once again review board is full of them....

If I have such a bad rep with the women it is pretty odd I am getting laid all the time isn't it? Why on earth to girls even friend list me on my profile? I think it is because they hate me!

Pillow you are posting as if you have a lot of sex or that you are a SP? I personally speak from experience and I have had A LOT of sex with A LOT of partners. It is in the 1000's that is like a porn star if you want to figure it out of course I am in tune with my body and yes it does take a lot to please me. That being said many women actually really like a porn star performance as some women take a very long time to climax.

Anyways I can even see from this post itself that other men are in the same boat. That is what this thread is all about isn't it?

Some girls can go on forever also it seems and if both are having msog why be upset with them?

From my experience the most successful SP's are the ones that love sex! They can go for hours on some days especially when the chemistry is there.

I just listed my top 5 for 2011. If I was to list my top 25 of all time that would be a very hard list to make.

 

[nickcan]

Imagine, someone willing to go so hard and fast to the point of actually hurting someone considers that sp as being greedy and lazy.

You just seem to have the WORST luck with sps lol. Unreal. Average times for men to reach orgasm is between 7-14 minutes. Just because an sp (or any woman) is not impressed by a guy who deliberately holds back (or takes special measures to ensure longer times) doesn't mean she hates sex or hates sex work. Most men are not all hung up about their socalled 'performance' issues, and actually relax and have a good time. What you might be seeing with these sps is they simply do not like your game playing, and believe me, sps who see hundreds of different men all the time know exactly what is going on with a guy who lasts more than 15 minutes. It is extremely rare, and sometimes due to medical reasons, for any man to go beyond 15 without 'help', whether the help is alcohol, cocaine or taking steps to rub one out half hour before appt time. Any sp would resent a guy who does this deliberately, eventually he gets a reputation for this kind of behaviour, and becomes a person other sps warn about. NOT telling an sp before arrival that you have special needs (as in last longer than 10 minutes during intense fullservice action) makes you a bad news. This is also typical of someone who will pay for an hour or half hour, knowing he couldn't possibly finish in that time, then blame her if she won't give him free overtime because he didn't finish lol.

Really, sb, your reputation is not a good one, fwiw, and your constant attempts to 'list' all the sps isn't really helping you at all. lol

Extremely rare? I don't think so.
Maybe you are referring to guys under 18 who can't last over 15+ minutes.
Even with my ex-wife 20-30 minutes without a condom is a normal day. With condoms then I could go for close to an hour.

Generally a SP can guage if the guy is a masturbator/frequent sex or a time waster by the volume of sperm.
I had a jealous ex-girlfriend who kept a close eye to the volume of my load and if it was considerably less then she would suspect cheating.