Domination
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And that is a question or a comment..?
We just heard a bunch of positive aspects of domination . When every thing is talked over be for.. and each partner know the limits..and know one is going out and saying they did this to me and that. All with out my consent
And then there is the other side.. where being involved with Bmds is negative .. but if some one keeps coming back to that person. .. for the same ..then what are we to conclude. . Nothing is so black and white when It comes to sex.. contrary to what the social order would claim.
We just heard a bunch of positive aspects of domination . When every thing is talked over be for.. and each partner know the limits..and know one is going out and saying they did this to me and that. All with out my consent
And then there is the other side.. where being involved with Bmds is negative .. but if some one keeps coming back to that person. .. for the same ..then what are we to conclude. . Nothing is so black and white when It comes to sex.. contrary to what the social order would claim.
johnsmit; that is the most articulate comment of yours I have ever seen! You must really have wanted to express that sentiment strongly. I find myself in complete agreement. I think there's a pretty strong possibility that this is not unlike the situation with Liam Donnelly and Rachel Marsden...Whenever you have drama like this that results in legal proceedings and a media circus, there are always three sides to the story; He Said, She Said and the unvarnished 'truth', whatever that is.
We can never have too many beautiful, dominant ladies! When a sub and domme truly click, it can be incredibly exciting and fulfilling physically and emotionally for both. I wish You all the best as You embark on Your journey into the BDSM realm, 'Miss-tress' Tanya..:thumb:Until very recently I didn't realize I had it in me to play a more dominant role...but I've discovered that when I'm in the right mood I can & actually really enjoy it!!! I don't normally make New Years Resolutions but this year I'm planning on spending alot of time learning about the BDSM world so I can at some point in the future apply it in my professional practice
ANYTIME, my dear. Anytime.Until very recently I didn't realize I had it in me to play a more dominant role...but I've discovered that when I'm in the right mood I can & actually really enjoy it!!! I don't normally make New Years Resolutions but this year I'm planning on spending alot of time learning about the BDSM world so I can at some point in the future apply it in my professional practice
Hmmmm I would have never though that...I though you were a the submissive side...Until very recently I didn't realize I had it in me to play a more dominant role...but I've discovered that when I'm in the right mood I can & actually really enjoy it!!! I don't normally make New Years Resolutions but this year I'm planning on spending alot of time learning about the BDSM world so I can at some point in the future apply it in my professional practice
Tying up a girl and dominating her is my thing. Have done it many years with various partners. Love submissive females, the more submissive the better. Too bad it's such a rare experience with a paid SP though.
Ha....I'm the complete opposite
I prefer her to tie me up ;-) I welcome any sp for that Well yes, I already said I've done it with various partners over the years - they were "regular girls". What I want is a bit of a fantasy, in that instead of having to go through the rigamarole and time to build up trust, wouldn't it be nice to just be able to have a bevy of paid girls to choose from and know that you could go there and totally dominate her, tie her up, give her pussy or ass or both a good pounding, etc. There was one like that, she was in Surrey a couple of years ago, had lots of tats and was in her mid 20's. She was down for pretty much anything. I stopped seeing her though because her body was too flabby for my taste and eventually I got turned off.
Head, meet desk. Face, meet palm.Boy, I really hope Jian Ghomeshi doesn't see this thread and use the comments from the SPs who say they love being dominated as evidence to support his lifestyle in court
No.
The reality is that in any real consensual BDSM play, be it pay for play or 'lifestyle' or what the fuck ever, there are ALWAYS boundaries, trust & respect. They get discussed, sorted through & established long before the ballgag & clamps come out to play! After my first encounter with the divine Lalani Electrica, I had bruises on the backs of my arms from the bite marks for a week*, but you know what?
I CONSENTED to every single one of those bruises. I had a hell of a lot of fun earning them, and they were like souvenirs of that encounter. During the session, she 'hurt me nice' and I liked it. If I'd said NO? Would have been game over, because NO means I've withdrawn my consent, paid or not. NO means "you do not have permission to do that". Often in a true BDSM dynamic, the structure is set by the submissive's limits in that sense, and not solely about the dom's wishes. That's what makes authentic BDSM play somewhat tough when you want to skip the 'rigamarole'. The rigamarole is what allows the play to evolve. With the partners that I allow to dom me the hardest, they are all people I have known over a long period of time. The subs I have the most fun playing with are the ones who have allowed me to build some trust & yes, intimacy with them!
Jian Ghomeshi has about as much to do with BDSM as Moxy Fruvous has do to with the Spanish Royal Family!
