I've never left a cash tip. I do give gifts once I've seen a lady and developed some chemistry. Just listening to quirky things she may like and surprising them with that. I'm also a descent baker so I always bring fresh baked goods.Sorry I'm very new at this.
How much would you tip the SP besides the damage of extra services after a session?
How much for enthusiasm 😂This is going to make me sound like a total simp, but I usually pay an extra 50.
The ladies tend to behave a heck of a lot more intimate during the session, if I pre-tip them, than if I don't.
I know this is a form of manipulation, but I honestly need the extra intimacy. Makes me feel good when leaving the session.
TIPS means to insure prompt service...such as paying the head waiter to seat you at your table quickly and the waiter serving you immediately. In Canada it's come to mean friendly service instead of good service for the most part. I always TIP the ladies whom I love because I know how hard it is to make a living and I know it's appreciated and it makes me feel good helping out if that makes any sense vs the bile that comes in to my throat every cheque I have to write to my ex wife.........I don't think I have ever pre-tipped. The whole point of tipping is to reward someone after receiving good service.
I have tipped extra in the past when we have gone over time due to good chemistry and the SP not clock watching. I believe that time is money, especially in this hobby, and that SP should be fairly compensated for overtime even if I didn't initiate it.
For those I see regularly, I don't tip extra but I do bring gifts occasionally. I have had many regulars over the years and have talked with them frankly about donations and tipping. Almost all of them expressed that just having someone they feel comfortable/connect with come see them regularly once a week is more than appreciated (for example, this gives them financial stability so they don't have to worry about making rent) and that tipping is not necessary. If I want to "tip" her, I would just book a longer session than usual. This way, it doesn't feel like we owe each other anything.
Do you bring wonder bread mayonnaise sandwiches for a whiteI'll often bring a small gift,i.e. lipstick, nail polish, some cosmetic thing, or, depending on SP's ethnicity, a food item, eg. banh mi for a Vietnamese,
kimchi for a Korean, dimsum for a Chinese.
not to derail the thread, but it rots my socks when I'm paying a bill in a bar or resto and the server asks, "do you want your change?" that brings on the
make-the-tip-disappear trick.
I know, the rant s/b in a separate thread...my bad.