Do you look for relationships that add to your life?

[Skyler Mack]

Can I count on you to be a relationship that adds to my life?

Of course. I’m curious of your expectations 😇

 

[Metaxa]

Of course. I’m curious of your expectations 😇

The same expectations I have in any relationship. You have to add to my life and not be a knob

 

[angry anderson]

 

[Honey Harlotte]

I honestly don’t know, I haven’t been in a relationship, no matter how much I wanted one... so I guess I stopped looking for one.

I think that's your outlook hunny. When it's your time it will be your time. Put out positive thoughts like "I love myself" "everything happened the way it's supposed to happen" instead of putting pressure on yourself and feeling negative that things aren't going the way you want-my advise is trust in the universe and the right person will come your way! Who knows! You may already know this person ! Just be honest and positive and things will work out!!!❤💋

 

[Honey Harlotte]

We've all been in a few relationships or at least one. What do you look for? Do you look for a relationship that adds to your life or do you not really care and go with the flow? To take it further, do you value substance over superficiality? Personality over looks for example or do you look for just one thing maybe a deep connection?

I like someone who can teach me new things. Someone who can listen and yea - definitely value substance over superficiality! If I could post pics of all my exes and i you would probably be shocked😂 i think a better question might be what specifically makes your your relationship/partner an asset to your positive vibes and how do you make each other better.

 

[Kissmepassionately]

Looks only last for about an hour for me before I get bored. I think compatibility, kindness and chemistry is far more important than substance or looks. Sure she can have a great career/etc/etc but if there's no chemistry, then it's just not going to work.

In 2018 I dated a total babe, hot hot hot. Day 3 I was already getting bored of her, by day 15 i had to end it, couldn't get past all of her BS and stupidity, no matter how good she looked. It was my first time trying to build something based on just looks alone. It doesn't work, looks cannot replace connection and feelings. I'm just a simple guy, but still need someone funny, smart, cool, and adventurous, but not insane.

 

[g eazy]

I'm sure this has been posted before, but always get a good chucle:

And alternatively, for the ladies:

 

[EuroSZabina]

i just go with the flow. follow your heart . if it feels right or not

my mom on the other hand likes to get involved in my relationship affairs. she tells me to find a gf/wife that can provide value to me and the family( smarter than me, better career than me, mentor to me, guide me through life , traditional mindset and wants a daughter in law who can cook and clean , comes from a family that also owns a home-similar in class/wealth or higher) .
not easy as one ages it gets harder to find someone . im in my 40s.

Wow, wow, talk about high standards from your mom.