Do you get better service from SPs if you are fit/good looking/well dressed?

[LoadShooter]

I know that men and women are different, and that looks matter alot more for men than they do for women. That being said, does meeting up with an SP and showing up in shape, well dressed and being good looking in general get you better service? Or do SPs see so many men that you become just another guy with a penis that needs satisfying, and your looks have no effect on her.

My question has do with looks only. I'm not factoring hygiene, cleanliness, smell, or grooming of the genital regions. Being unkept in these areas can only turn off an SP and limit the service you could receive. My question is just based on weather or not better looking guys will get better service or a better interaction from an SP.

 

[jesuschrist]

Most SP's give their best most, unrestricted service to guys that look like they just crawled out of the local Bingo hall with fresh earnings stuffed into the polyester pants they bought at Value Village 5 years ago. They're just dying to unzip the guy's polyester pants, now lined inside with sweat from playing Bingo for 4 hours, and suck his salty cock.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Most SP's give their best most, unrestricted service to guys that look like they just crawled out of the local Bingo hall with fresh earnings stuffed into the polyester pants they bought at Value Village 5 years ago. They're just dying to unzip the guy's polyester pants, now lined inside with sweat from playing Bingo for 4 hours, and suck his salty cock.

LOL, you never disappoint, JC! xxoo

 

[sevenofnine]

i think sps generally like sex and well like what they do.

but lets face it,
sps want to enjoy themself and have a nice time,

there was a guy at work today god but he is ugly or just pathetic looking, and dumpy
ugly is perhaps strong but god he was just dumpy looking and sort of dozy,
any way my thought was, the poor sp who he picks to see,

my general converstions with sps, lead me to believe that well they think most of us are just creeps, or jerks

i have been told a small percentage of us guys sps actually like to see, maybe around ten to twenty percent
some of us are nice physical specimens and shower its not that, were just pricks

it makes sense i suppose if we were all just great guys why would we need to pay some one to be with us.

if an sp gives better service to one guy over another i have no idea,
actually my sp is talking about a three some, im kind of curious in a way just to see how she behaves with another guy, how she treats him,
there was a party a meet and greet along time ago, i wanted to take my sp then, just to see well how she behaved around other guys,
she doesn't attend such functions keeps a low profile

i doubt i will ever have a three some,

just my own personal observations or thoughts it was a long time since i had sex when i started seeing sps.
i actually kind of wondered well how much i could offer a women if i had an affair was i like this lame jerk who couldn't please a wife or keep a wife, or like what was going on with me,
its funny but me and my sp get along really well we have an enjoyable evening, for both of us.
but is like im paying her,
its funny but the more my sp tells me im a nice guy and she really enjoys my company and well she doesn't say this to every guy, she tells me,
and the more i actually believe her that were both having a nice time, the less and less i want to put my money down.
i mean if she is actually having a good time, why do i need to pay her, its equal, and she kind of tells me she gets as much from me in terms of friendship etc, as i get from her,
which sort of leads me to why am i paying her,

its funny its easy to pay some one if you feel you have no worth,
but what im trying to say is, if you feel well worth and self respect and actually giving pleasure to some one from being with her,
well why are you paying, for her company, when she is getting back as much as you,

 

[Holly Taylor]

if we were all just great guys why would we need to pay some one to be with us.

There are a lot of reasons why someone would choose to see a professional companion rather than try to seek out a casual sex partner or a dating partner in the non-SP world.

There's no reason to say that a man who chooses to pay professional companions for their time isn't a "great guy".

There is a stigma around being a sex-worker, and there is also a stigma around being a client of sex-workers. I think it's time to leave these stereotypes and assumptions behind. There is NOTHING wrong or bad about choosing to see a professional sex-worker. Choosing to see a professional is NOT incompatible with being a "great guy."

 

[luvsdaty]

Most SP's give their best most, unrestricted service to guys that look like they just crawled out of the local Bingo hall with fresh earnings stuffed into the polyester pants they bought at Value Village 5 years ago. They're just dying to unzip the guy's polyester pants, now lined inside with sweat from playing Bingo for 4 hours, and suck his salty cock.

Following me around town again? I thought the restraining order said to stay away from the bingo hall

 

[NoAverageGuy75]

its funny its easy to pay some one if you feel you have no worth,
but what im trying to say is, if you feel well worth and self respect and actually giving pleasure to some one from being with her, well why are you paying, for her company, when she is getting back as much as you,

Dude. My wife has 0 sex drive. I don't get no humpy-humpy... I pay for sex so I can have sex! I mean, I like to think I'm good looking, smart and funny. I could have an affair, but I love my wife and I don't want to wreck the marriage.

Clarification: I pay for sex so I can have sex, without wrecking what *I have*.

NAG75

 

[Man Mountain]

I am not fit. I am not good looking. And I don't dress particularly well. I do try to go into every experience with an open mind, a positive attitude and good humour. For the most part, I feel like I've been treated extremely well by the ladies that I've spent time with. And I know for a fact that if we're talking about the YMMV factor, that my mileage has often "varied" in my favour . I'm sure that it's probably gone the other way too at times. But, as I said, overall I've been very happy with the experiences I've had.

However, in comparison to many of the complaints that I've read in reviews over the years, I'm also well aware that I'm a lot easier to please than many of the reviewers on these sites.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

it depends on the sp, and to a certain extend on you

what the money does is allow you to get through the door whatever you look like. then you can impress them (or not) with your personality and sexual prowess

 

[Guardian Angel]

I think three things are important:

Cleanliness
Respect
Payment

You may not get the chance to pay if the first two characteristics are not obvious first!

G.A.

 

[PlayfulAlex]

There are a lot of reasons why someone would choose to see a professional companion rather than try to seek out a casual sex partner or a dating partner in the non-SP world.

There's no reason to say that a man who chooses to pay professional companions for their time isn't a "great guy".

There is a stigma around being a sex-worker, and there is also a stigma around being a client of sex-workers. I think it's time to leave these stereotypes and assumptions behind. There is NOTHING wrong or bad about choosing to see a professional sex-worker. Choosing to see a professional is NOT incompatible with being a "great guy."

Absolutely...positively...

Dude. My wife has 0 sex drive. I don't get no humpy-humpy... I pay for sex so I can have sex! I mean, I like to think I'm good looking, smart and funny. I could have an affair, but I love my wife and I don't want to wreck the marriage.

Clarification: I pay for sex so I can have sex, without wrecking what *I have*.

NAG75

Totally makes sense...

I am not fit. I am not good looking. And I don't dress particularly well. I do try to go into every experience with an open mind, a positive attitude and good humour. For the most part, I feel like I've been treated extremely well by the ladies that I've spent time with. And I know for a fact that if we're talking about the YMMV factor, that my mileage has often "varied" in my favour . I'm sure that it's probably gone the other way too at times. But, as I said, overall I've been very happy with the experiences I've had.

However, in comparison to many of the complaints that I've read in reviews over the years, I'm also well aware that I'm a lot easier to please than many of the reviewers on these sites.

Sounds like some people are easier to be with than others...

it depends on the sp, and to a certain extend on you

what the money does is allow you to get through the door whatever you look like. then you can impress them (or not) with your personality and sexual prowess

And your wardrobe...

 

[jesuschrist]

It would seem to make sense that the ymmv factor increases for some SPs increases with good chemistry and if they are attracted to the gentleman. However, i feel there is less of a universal "good looking" to females than to males. A guys looks play less of a role in that attraction for a woman.

Fortunately for the male species women have a very varied range of what they find attractive when it comes to looks because it's doesn't play as big a role as males. Just because some girls wouldn't give a guy a second look doesn't mean the next won't think he's hot.

Theres probably a good chance the session will be better if the lady is attracted to you, but being good looking by some people's definition isn't a guarantee that the SP in front of you will find you attractive.

There's also such a thing as too good looking, and an SP will have contempt for the guy and give him bad service. I recall an SP telling me about one guy who strutted in all dressed up, and he was one of these traditionally good looking guys, and how she hated him and rushed him out the door ASAP. Apparently she could tell he seemed to think she would just fall all over him and that she would eventually date him as a boyfriend.

 

[shyboy123]

I generally have a better time if the girl I am with is also enjoying herself too. We're all human and not every girl can overlook servicing Quasimodo. Put yourself in her shoes and you will have your answer. Same logic applies to good treatment almost anywhere I imagine.

 

[tokugawa]

my general converstions with sps, lead me to believe that well they think most of us are just creeps, or jerks

Based on some of the posts from certain providers (not all) on this board, the same can be said of them as well. Respect and common decency goes both ways!

 

[gerri]

I like a sharped dress good looking guy, but honestly chemistry is where's it's at for me...

 

[*emmanuelle]

A guy with a sexy personality/attitude gets better service

Agreed! Women are generally less "visual" than guys. It's not muscles that make a good session for me, it's attitude.

 

[sevenofnine]

of course i pay for sex because im not having any at home

but does it ever run through your head, the girl is enjoying the evening as much as me, why do i need to pay, when were both enjoying ourself.


don't know but im not proud of paying for a womens company, rather ashamed of it actually
and i know on this board that is not a popular sentiment.
but well this board is only a small percentage of society.\

just curious.what percentage of men in the real world have paid for sex any idea anyone.
i would think is rather low, higher if you say one time only put to be a regualar paid consumer of sex i would say a small percentage of men out there pay for sex on a regular basis at least at some point in there life

i think if your paying for a womens company and well your happy, there is something wrong,\
i mean i have and have for years, but i am certainly not happy, like i said my choices seem to be
go with out or blow up my marriage my family.
how is that happy,

i was out today out and about, saw lots of beautiful women, and well
my next sex comes well when i see my sp next and i have the money to pay her,
what is so fucking happy about that.

i can't just come home and well fuck my wife. or any one, its dependent on money
like i said my and the lady i see get along great, but i have no illusions, that she would see me with out paying, and i don't expect her to either,

just as a normal male, how can that be a happy situation ones ability to have sex dependent on his wallet. not just because i want some,

any way i kind of think some thing is missing in this discussion,\\

how aggressive are you as well. do you stop when your sp says no, or complains or visible doesn't like it. or do you say what the hell you keep on going she got what she wants money and this isn't cheap so im going for maximum fun here.


and even just a few threads ago the discussion on facials.
one man made the comment he thought few girls liked it,
and several girls made the comment they found facials great, do they or do they enjoy the money more,
and does it matter to you

i was with the most amazing porn star girl ever, she was up for everything, i mean eveything bbbjs cim mouth facials you name it she did, with out any hesitation

about the second session in, i asked her do you like this stuff, she looked at me as if i was fucking stupid,
and i said i was serious, she said no not really,
so from the third session on, it was pretty much gfe.
so i cared if the women wanted bbbjs and facials, enough to ask if she enjoyed it, and she told me the truth no
so i actually got less from her,
even though i was a nice respectful guy, then some guy who just dropped a load in her mouth or face simple because he could with out any thought
about her what so ever,

the sp i see now, she has several guys that are rough with her, and don't respect her limits, she feels like she is being mauled for the entire session, and has to fight them off,\
but she wants the money
and there regulars. she doesn't like it but still sees them

so how far you get in this, alot depends how aggressive you are,
like in life, actually to succeed alot of time you need to be aggressive, and have a sense of the bully in you,

unfortunatly im the opposite of aggressive and a bully
and i guess, alot of self doubts.

but you know i have seen the bruises on my mother
and my father eventually went to jail, he was never sorry he felt he was justified always felt he was justified in everything he did,

so i know for a fact you can reason and explain and make sense of everything to yourself, of course im right, every one else is stupid,
you can make your self believe anything, and really believe it, it doesn't make it right though

 

[nickcan]

In my opinion if you are under 40 you shouldn't be hooked on escorts and only see them if you need occasional variety or experiencing a dry spell.
But if you are older then it's great to have sex with a 20 something woman because that will rarely happen in life without paying or being filthy rich.

Agree with 7of9 as this can't make you happy in the long term and don't understand the guys who pay for a SP companionship such as sporting events.
You have be a loner/socially awkward to pay for friendship as I see it as a sign of being a loser. That's what guy friends are for.

 

[Dgodus]

I'd say after the basics of hygiene, paying and respect. Attitude, chemistry/compatibility (or however you want to call it), maybe tipping, and I'd like to add familiarity are going to get you better "service" (prefer to refer to it as a better time myself as that's how I'll be qualifying it when I think back).

As for the comments about ppl under 40 paying for it are losers or shouldn't feel good about it...... Blow me. I'm very glad that you can't look past your own pov and reasons for paying for it. Maybe some people are paying for "talent". Perhaps some are tired of constantly having to impress their partner and wish to be on the other end for awhile. Or even some may be tired of jumping through hoops to even get a woman to bed and once they're there be made to feel like a huge favor is being done for them. Let's not forget about men who've been screwed over one too many times and frankly don't trust a woman to have any impact on their lives for more than a few hours/days at a time. Also how about men who work on the road for a vast majority of the year away from home living in camps with all men and working with all men. How about the men who prefer to spend a vast majority of their time alone or just with friends and not in a relationship or chasing women. What about the old saying "you don't pay for sex you pay for them to leave" (and I would add be descrete about it).

As for social functions. Again not everyone is the same. Maybe some guys need more of a connection for the sex to really work for them. As seven said he cared wether the sp like certain things or not, whereas some guys clearly don't give a crap and are doing em anyways.

Everyones different. Not every guy just wants to fuck, and everyone isn't paying for sex/companionship just because they're old, fat, ugly, want young hot women, or because their wives/gf's won't put out anymore.

 

[Gentle-man]

You can make yourself look good by dressing nice and putting effort into your appearance it certainly helps.

Depends way more on their personality/attitude than looks.

A guy with a sexy personality/attitude gets better service

Agreed! Women are generally less "visual" than guys. It's not muscles that make a good session for me, it's attitude.

I prefer to make myself presentable when given the opportunity, not just when seeing someone, I prefer it also for work, or just going out in public... but that being said... it's just an outer shell. There have been occasions where circumstances led me to showing up in just jeans and a T-shirt and it didn't matter. For me the most import thing has always been to act like a gentleman... I'm not exactly eye-candy, but I have yet to have a YMMV complaint.