Do you call escorts by their names? Or is that weird

[Debijon]

One aspect I really enjoy with a cute girl is showing affection toward her (yes I'm a uber beta).

Having a nice friendly chit chat is always good too but it always seems a bit weird or 'lacking' when I don't get to call her 'name' and vice versa.
Obviously I know its their job to have a forced friendly conversation but I was wondering about saying their 'names' or other methods of breaking the ice?

 

[ddcanz]

Obviously I know its their job to have a forced friendly conversation

I didn't realize that a "forced friendly conversation" was part of the job description.
If it is forced then what's the point?
Just shut up and get on with it, then.

 

[Meguiars]

Hey, good question, I hope I understand it correctly.

If an escort has chosen an alias, then yup, I’ll call her by that name. And use that name same as I would if it were her given birth name. If she has an alias, it’s a name she chose, and responds to.
In the few instances that an sp trusts me enough to tell me her real name, I’ve learnt to only use that name when it’s just her and I, and only when we are face to face. And will still use her working alias when interacting with other girls she works with, her agency, even in direct contact text msgs.

Usually when breaking the ice, I’ll just introduce myself by name (yes, I use my real name) and usually give her a compliment or say something simple like “thanks for meeting me” or “I really like your outfit”. That’s about it lol. Most of the time, ladies seem to have their own way of breaking the ice and I just go with it.
I’m pretty much incall only and mp if necessary, so more importantly I try and make sure I’m a good guest and respectful of her body/boundaries, her time, and her hosting space.

 

[sybian]

I didn't realize that a "forced friendly conversation" was part of the job description.
If it is forced then what's the point?
Just shut up and get on with it, then.

Such a charmer.....although that does explain a few things.
I had a young lady ask me what my handle was on here, so I told her.....she had some very nice things to say about me, and what some of the other ladies comments were about the mystery cowboy behind closed doors....I was very complimented.
She asked me if I knew DDCanz, and I said " well yes...I suppose we are friends" ...I didn't realize I could move my head that fast to avoid a flying chair.

 

[johnsmit]

Actually I very seldom say a person's name when I am talking to them personally.
I will use their name in a text to say who it is intended for.

As for the name an escort goes by or what there real name is. .How and when I use it varies as to the situation .
If it business I often use their work name when contacting then ..but will call them by their real name when in a sexual situation.

There are a few that I find easier to call by their work name and had to watch myself while in public or personal sistuation with their friends or family.

They always knew my real name all though some would call me Max. Lol And a few have said buddy or hun.
No one calls me John

 

[take8easy]

I would be more concerned about them calling me names.

takes8yea

 

[ddcanz]

Such a charmer.....although that does explain a few things.
I had a young lady ask me what my handle was on here, so I told her.....she had some very nice things to say about me, and what some of the other ladies comments were about the mystery cowboy behind closed doors....I was very complimented.
She asked me if I knew DDCanz, and I said " well yes...I suppose we are friends" ...I didn't realize I could move my head that fast to avoid a flying chair.

You missed my point- but I get your humour none the less.
Just saying that if a conversation needs to be forced, then why bother with it at all? Exchange a few pleasantries and move on to the good stuff. If said girl has to force herself to carry on any meaningful dialogue then the connection will just deteriorate.
In fact, good conversation can really enhance the encounter IME.
Heck, I've even thought about just paying for the time to verbally engage certain well known and eloquent SPs without necessarily worrying about the physical component- that part would just naturally evolve anyway.
"well yes...I suppose we are friends". Aw, shucks- right back at ya, Kid.
And keep dodging the thrown furniture, although from what I understand a couple of solid knocks to the noggin wouldn't really phase you much anyway- part of YOUR charm.

 

[take8easy]

Speaking of real names of SP's, I know one of the SP's real names.

It just happened accidentally. I had just finished shower and while drying myself, I overheard her talking on the phone. She was just leaving a message on someone's voicemail and it was like, "Hey, this is C****".

Again, I was not eavesdropping at all. Also, I never mentioned it to her either not even during my repeat visits. I don't want her to freak out unnecessarily.

 

[take8easy]

I'm not sure why you're sharing this and I really hope you don't ever mention it to her or use it against her. Unfortunately there are too many guys looking to get real info on SPs in this industry for their own purposes.

Allow me to draw your attention to my comment again... esp this part .. Also, I never mentioned it to her either not even during my repeat visits.

I have been in this hobby long enough to know the value of privacy. Thank you for re-iterating it though.

 

[sybian]

Allow me to draw your attention to my comment again... esp this part .. Also, I never mentioned it to her either not even during my repeat visits.

I have been in this hobby long enough to know the value of privacy. Thank you for re-iterating it though.

I can vouch for T8E and his discretionary mindset.
We have had a few conversations via PM .....and the man never let sensitive info slip....even when I unknowingly asked something ,that required an answer that would have exposed some sensitive info about someone else.
He explained that in order to give an accurate account, he would have to provide details he wasn't comfortable with.
He handled it....as I was a Newbie around here at the time....like a Pro.

 

[NEbaD]

Hey, good question, I hope I understand it correctly.

If an escort has chosen an alias, then yup, I’ll call her by that name. And use that name same as I would if it were her given birth name. If she has an alias, it’s a name she chose, and responds to.
In the few instances that an sp trusts me enough to tell me her real name, I’ve learnt to only use that name when it’s just her and I, and only when we are face to face. And will still use her working alias when interacting with other girls she works with, her agency, even in direct contact text msgs.

Usually when breaking the ice, I’ll just introduce myself by name (yes, I use my real name) and usually give her a compliment or say something simple like “thanks for meeting me” or “I really like your outfit”. That’s about it lol. Most of the time, ladies seem to have their own way of breaking the ice and I just go with it.
I’m pretty much incall only and mp if necessary, so more importantly I try and make sure I’m a good guest and respectful of her body/boundaries, her time, and her hosting space.

Exactly this. Exactly. That's how I do it; it feels like the normal way.

 

[take8easy]

Seems to me that it was a mistake on his part to over share and looks like bragging .

T8E I think a more honest and respectful approach to you spwould have been tohave this conversation about your "accidental " over hearing with her rather then post on a forum ( where many men wont even share thier fake handles ) and annouce it to all of us , comes across very indiscreet.

I am sure that was not what you meant to do , but some will percieve it a such .




Sybain you are hilarious lol good joke Hello ddcanz , I am back hahaha , and yes I got your point the first time

How is that indiscreet? Which personal info did get shared here? Whose privacy am I jeopardizing? Bragging? What is there to brag? That I overheard a name? I would be bragging IF I said that she told me her name herself and I went around town sharing that info! THAT would be bragging.

@Sybian, thanks for being supportive. Sometimes, like other guys, I do not post everything here but still, even VIA pm I do not share sensitive info about ladies or guys, for that matter.

 

[take8easy]

My sincere apologies for misinterpreting your message , if Sybain would stand up for you that is good enough for me . Please lets not turn this into a huge issue , I have nothing more to say about it.

Cheers! Yes, let us not do that.

 

[deathreborn]

if the lady is comfortable enough to tell me her real name which some have, then i will use it. if not i will not address her by her fake name. some of them are just too over the top to say out loud.

 

[UhOh]

Its best to not get in the habit of addressing girls by name for risk of mixing them up. Some girls are really sensitive about that as I learned the hard way a couple of times.

 

[MissingOne]

Normally, in a one-on-one interaction, one doesn't use the other person's name that much anyway. You might use it for initial greeting, such as "Hi, (insert name here)", but from there on talk normally flows without the necessity to keep on mentioning the other person's name. I tend to think of the frequent use of my name when addressing me as a tactic of a smarmy salesman.

 

[stamina]

Its best to not get in the habit of addressing girls by name for risk of mixing them up. Some girls are really sensitive about that as I learned the hard way a couple of times.

Because of the other girl's reputation? Or because they have actually met the other girl and didn't get along?

 

[jgg]

Its best to not get in the habit of addressing girls by name for risk of mixing them up. Some girls are really sensitive about that as I learned the hard way a couple of times.

Because of the other girl's reputation? Or because they have actually met the other girl and didn't get along?

This is just conjecture, most ladies would like to think that they would be the only one on your mind at that particular moment.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I have a few long term clients that know me well enough to know my real name & respect my wishes that they NOT use it during Happy Naked Time. Other than that, you can call me by name or by nickname, just so long as you call me! :strawberry:

 

[UhOh]

Because of the other girl's reputation? Or because they have actually met the other girl and didn't get along?

Because you could blurt out the name of an ex when getting it on with the current squeeze. Current gf's don't like being called by your ex's name. Best to just say honey or sweetie when trying to get their attention.