Do SPs actaully enjoy what they do?
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I recall getting 'training' at an MP I worked at. A former call girl (now manager) advised a few of us young girls and said something along the lines of..."Let's face it, none of us girls cum...but it's your job to be an amazing actress."
Not so true. If a client genuinely wants me to get off, I can, and will.
Not so true. If a client genuinely wants me to get off, I can, and will.
I've been thinking about it
This is indeed a good thread. I've thought back over the experiences:
- When I was younger, I was so inexperienced, if you were to ask me to find a clit, I'd probably be looking under a lady's chin. Barring that, I'd be searching behind the knee or something. I was a fuck-up, as we mostly are at that age. When I happened on it, eventually, I didn't know what to do with it.
- When I got older, and knew what a clit was, I learned what to do with it, by asking the women what felt good. Then I heard about g-spots. Shit! Another something to delve into! More research... more experiments...
- Older now, I know about both, but more importantly, I know about communication. I've been told by ladies that they "don't cum easily". I've broken that mold when told that, often enough, and that's due to asking them what they like.
Too many times we think, as men, about our own pleasure, because we're paying for it. We seem to forget the pleasure to be garnered by granting someone else that gut-wrenching pleasure of a good, thigh-shaking orgasm, and how it makes both feel! Don't rob yourself of the pleasure of giving that gift to someone.
If you're interested in a mutually satisfactory session, ASK! Ask the woman what she likes, what turns her on, what gets her off. Is it clit, is it g-spot, is it pressing on her belly while you do both, is it rimming, is it digits, is it... the list goes on.
There are many cases (probably the majority) whereby only one party is satisfied with the encounter. Such a shame. If it's important to you that the woman you're with has as much energetic and enthusiastic fun as you, the communication has to be there. I say that to the ladies, as well as the gentlemen. Tell us what you like, and you just might be rewarded! Gentlemen, ask, and you'll be happily suprised!
Cheers, and here's to not keeping secrets,
Ghostwheel
This is indeed a good thread. I've thought back over the experiences:
- When I was younger, I was so inexperienced, if you were to ask me to find a clit, I'd probably be looking under a lady's chin. Barring that, I'd be searching behind the knee or something. I was a fuck-up, as we mostly are at that age. When I happened on it, eventually, I didn't know what to do with it.
- When I got older, and knew what a clit was, I learned what to do with it, by asking the women what felt good. Then I heard about g-spots. Shit! Another something to delve into! More research... more experiments...
- Older now, I know about both, but more importantly, I know about communication. I've been told by ladies that they "don't cum easily". I've broken that mold when told that, often enough, and that's due to asking them what they like.
Too many times we think, as men, about our own pleasure, because we're paying for it. We seem to forget the pleasure to be garnered by granting someone else that gut-wrenching pleasure of a good, thigh-shaking orgasm, and how it makes both feel! Don't rob yourself of the pleasure of giving that gift to someone.
If you're interested in a mutually satisfactory session, ASK! Ask the woman what she likes, what turns her on, what gets her off. Is it clit, is it g-spot, is it pressing on her belly while you do both, is it rimming, is it digits, is it... the list goes on.
There are many cases (probably the majority) whereby only one party is satisfied with the encounter. Such a shame. If it's important to you that the woman you're with has as much energetic and enthusiastic fun as you, the communication has to be there. I say that to the ladies, as well as the gentlemen. Tell us what you like, and you just might be rewarded! Gentlemen, ask, and you'll be happily suprised!
Cheers, and here's to not keeping secrets,
Ghostwheel
I only see girls that do..
Like it. ( Not all of them..) But the two that our my favorites are Mia and Audrey .. I would not see them if they did not like what they were doing..Of course .i am not all ways there for sex.
As for faking a "O" I think you can tell when it is real or fake.. Mia..has never faked it with me..If I am not doing it right .. or we are just not into it .. there won't be any "Ooooooh's"..But on those great occasions .. they can just keep cumming.
Like it. ( Not all of them..) But the two that our my favorites are Mia and Audrey .. I would not see them if they did not like what they were doing..Of course .i am not all ways there for sex.
As for faking a "O" I think you can tell when it is real or fake.. Mia..has never faked it with me..If I am not doing it right .. or we are just not into it .. there won't be any "Ooooooh's"..But on those great occasions .. they can just keep cumming.
And into Scotty's car! What a tart this one is!
Actually, that's as good a reason as any... but I suspect this one has other reasons...
Cheers, babe. Choke the throttle.
Ghostwheel
Reasons being?but I suspect this one has other reasons...
Cheers, babe. Choke the throttle.
Ghostwheel
I'm sure Scotty's vibrant personality is reason enough!
If he's anything like his board personality, that's a perfectly good reason to bum rides! He's hilarious!Cheers,
Ghostwheel
thats my whole world in a nutshell, MAC makeup
I love my job extra when I do Duo's
then it makes it extremely fun.
and much more comfortable even
Poetic it's not...
For someone so anal about spelling, why do you have difficulty with simple grammatical constructions? I guess the board should invest in a grammar checker for you?
I was an SP before I became a dancer and can tell ya honestly.... there was a few times I had to "Fake" it. I usually got off and enjoyed what I did most of the time but like any other job it could be stressful and I wouldnt necessarily be in "the mood", or Id be exhausted etc. But I like to think that I can act quite well and hope none of my "oh my gosh I cant wait to go home to bed" didnt show.
I would think for the regular pooner getting the girl off is as important as getting themself off, well ok not as important but stil important... Part of the whole experience is mutual enjoyment, with out that one might as well stay home and do the wife... Atleast you know she can't wait for you to finish so she can go to sleep...
i think we all have had sex where you are thinking of something else... The hockey game, work, or the hottie you seen walking down the street, it is only natural...
For me, hearing the girl and seeing her enjoy herself is a big part of it, if I am not getting you there, speak up, tell me what you like, what works for you... Though, I am not 19 and kind of got an idea of what is working and what isn't
i think we all have had sex where you are thinking of something else... The hockey game, work, or the hottie you seen walking down the street, it is only natural...
For me, hearing the girl and seeing her enjoy herself is a big part of it, if I am not getting you there, speak up, tell me what you like, what works for you... Though, I am not 19 and kind of got an idea of what is working and what isn't
Do they actually enjoy what they do? Depends who they're with. The question can be asked the other way; do you really enjoy every session with different women? Women have tastes, and not every pooner is high on their list. Looks, attitude and service also come into play, and also important, how generous the encounter is. Nothing worse than a hunk who fucks like a rabbit for an hour and is cheap as hell... SPs who are in here saying they enjoy every session are just marketing...
Passionate Attitude
I've always believed that you'll be more successful in life if you enjoy and have the passion in what you do. The SP's that really enjoy pleasing their clientele would probably have more success monetary wise than their peers who are just doing it for financial gain. Client satisfaction results in repetition and more word of mouth referrals or even good honest to goodness reviews.
Some SP's have achieved success in the business due to their physical attributes or great acting but imagine if they were passionate at the same time then they would be real knockouts and their phones might never stop ringing. And if you love what you do then it's not work.
Plus, on the side of the client, if you treat your SP well and make her feel special then goodness and exceptional service would also be reciprocated to you.
I've always believed that you'll be more successful in life if you enjoy and have the passion in what you do. The SP's that really enjoy pleasing their clientele would probably have more success monetary wise than their peers who are just doing it for financial gain. Client satisfaction results in repetition and more word of mouth referrals or even good honest to goodness reviews.
Some SP's have achieved success in the business due to their physical attributes or great acting but imagine if they were passionate at the same time then they would be real knockouts and their phones might never stop ringing. And if you love what you do then it's not work.
Plus, on the side of the client, if you treat your SP well and make her feel special then goodness and exceptional service would also be reciprocated to you.
Since the person who started the thread asked for the truth...
Service provider's that are really good can always please their clients and have the men leave convinced that she truly enjoyed herself. This skill is what separates the average escorts from the amazing escorts. Do not be arrogant enough to assume that you have not already been deceived by an escort - this is what we do for a living - and most escorts are expert male-manipulators.
Your argument about passion is also muttered...it is impossible for women to be passionate about something that they do "x" times per day nearly every single day. Imagine doing your job (whatever your job is) and then coming home and spending all night doing the same thing. I am sure that after a while you will understand how boring the business can become.
Allow me to tell you the truth; although, every SP with a name attached to their account will argue with me.
Behind the scenes, away from the eyes and ears of the men, most ladies do not physically enjoy what they do for a living. The few that do are sexual aberrations.
There might be the odd guy, like 1 in 1000 that might be physically enjoyable, but most are not due to the inherent repetition of the job.
The odd lady that walks into an escort agency or massage parlour claiming to enjoy what they do for a living will be looked down upon by other ladies because their behaviour is so out of character with the majority of escorts.
As a result, escorts that are true nymphomaniacs tend to be ostracized by other escorts who consider them nasty and disgusting to enjoy having sex with a trick.
That is the real truth.
Let the advertising...oops I mean flaming...begin
If you truly believe that ladies go into this business for the sexual pleasure you are surely mistaken. Perhaps one of these ladies that has argued that they enjoy the sexual gratification from strangers would be willing to give you a free session to prove it - not likely!
Service provider's that are really good can always please their clients and have the men leave convinced that she truly enjoyed herself. This skill is what separates the average escorts from the amazing escorts. Do not be arrogant enough to assume that you have not already been deceived by an escort - this is what we do for a living - and most escorts are expert male-manipulators.
Your argument about passion is also muttered...it is impossible for women to be passionate about something that they do "x" times per day nearly every single day. Imagine doing your job (whatever your job is) and then coming home and spending all night doing the same thing. I am sure that after a while you will understand how boring the business can become.
Allow me to tell you the truth; although, every SP with a name attached to their account will argue with me.
Behind the scenes, away from the eyes and ears of the men, most ladies do not physically enjoy what they do for a living. The few that do are sexual aberrations.
There might be the odd guy, like 1 in 1000 that might be physically enjoyable, but most are not due to the inherent repetition of the job.
The odd lady that walks into an escort agency or massage parlour claiming to enjoy what they do for a living will be looked down upon by other ladies because their behaviour is so out of character with the majority of escorts.
As a result, escorts that are true nymphomaniacs tend to be ostracized by other escorts who consider them nasty and disgusting to enjoy having sex with a trick.
That is the real truth.
Let the advertising...oops I mean flaming...begin
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Great post and spot on. Even in MPs, the only ladies that admitted enjoying their sessions were denigrated by others and were for the most part drug users that got high to mask their real feelings about the sessions they were about to partake in.
And yes, what she said is the absolute truth...
And yes, what she said is the absolute truth...
Well there are probably Dustin Hoffmans and Laurence Oliviers.
You know, like in Marathon Man. Olivier just acted, he didn't have to have the sense memory to convey the feeling of the character. He just had to do what he had trained to do, to create the illusion of the character. Whereas, Hoffman had to use sense memory and all that method acting to draw up the feeling of the character from within his own experience.
Of course, Olivier's approach was a lot easier on his psyche. But we all can't be Oliviers.
So I imagine for some providers, they actually have to feel the feeling to be in the scene with the client. Others can just remain detached, and do the performance without actually becoming involved.
I would guess it's harder for those who actually have to have those feelings to do the job, because they're bound to feel disappointment.
You know, like in Marathon Man. Olivier just acted, he didn't have to have the sense memory to convey the feeling of the character. He just had to do what he had trained to do, to create the illusion of the character. Whereas, Hoffman had to use sense memory and all that method acting to draw up the feeling of the character from within his own experience.
Of course, Olivier's approach was a lot easier on his psyche. But we all can't be Oliviers.
So I imagine for some providers, they actually have to feel the feeling to be in the scene with the client. Others can just remain detached, and do the performance without actually becoming involved.
I would guess it's harder for those who actually have to have those feelings to do the job, because they're bound to feel disappointment.
Re: enjoyment
I think there are as many answers as there are sps. Maybe you like to workout a little, take a pilates class or yoga 3-4 times a week. And you really enjoy doing it. Would you love it so much doing that same yoga class 3-4 times a day 6 days a week? Sure, but not every class and not with all the passion and intensity you could give it 3-4 times a week.
(Which is why some, like SNL, can honestly say they enjoy their time fully, because they aren't in an mp doing the same thing 3-4+ times a day, they don't over do it. )
Having said that, I think that the best pleasure any worker in a service profession can get is in seeing the customer happy, and knowing that what you did created that happiness. If you cannot feel that kind of pleasure from what you do for a living, then you'd be a very unhappy person in life. Satisfaction is a job well done -- trite but true.
I think there are as many answers as there are sps. Maybe you like to workout a little, take a pilates class or yoga 3-4 times a week. And you really enjoy doing it. Would you love it so much doing that same yoga class 3-4 times a day 6 days a week? Sure, but not every class and not with all the passion and intensity you could give it 3-4 times a week.
(Which is why some, like SNL, can honestly say they enjoy their time fully, because they aren't in an mp doing the same thing 3-4+ times a day, they don't over do it. )
Having said that, I think that the best pleasure any worker in a service profession can get is in seeing the customer happy, and knowing that what you did created that happiness. If you cannot feel that kind of pleasure from what you do for a living, then you'd be a very unhappy person in life. Satisfaction is a job well done -- trite but true.
