More specifically, do they get turned about having sex with a stranger like us guys do? Do they ever orgasm with their clients? Is their enjoyment dependant on what the guy looks like, how skilled he is, how amiable he is, or what kind of mood they're in that day? What are SPs really thinking when they have sex with us? I'd like to hear both from SPs and the fellas.
Do SPs actaully enjoy what they do?
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Im pretty sure the girls that are working will say yes. It is good buisness for them of course, and if they dont say they enjoy it, they could lose some clients. Ive talked to some retired SP's, some hated doing it except for the odd few clients who they still keep as friends.
I would concur for the ladies who really enjoy sex and escorting. It makes a world of difference in the experience when you know that the SP is using you to get off.
Words of wisdom - seemeagain
In all honesty...the more times that you do something than the less special it becomes.
You will not find any advertising sp that will admit that this job can be overwhelming.
In all honesty...the more times that you do something than the less special it becomes.
There are some girls with the best reviews ever and they hate what they do.
It depends on the girl...but don't do yourself a disservice by thinking all SP'S love what they do simply because they put on a good 'show'.
It also depends on how goodlooking the guy is....!
I LOVED seeing my ex. The 2 times he was a booking was the best sex we'd both ever had. There are those rare few cases where you're blown away literally by the fact that you just got paid for the best sex of your life.
Just my opinion.
It depends on the girl...but don't do yourself a disservice by thinking all SP'S love what they do simply because they put on a good 'show'.
It also depends on how goodlooking the guy is....!
I LOVED seeing my ex. The 2 times he was a booking was the best sex we'd both ever had. There are those rare few cases where you're blown away literally by the fact that you just got paid for the best sex of your life.
Just my opinion.
I think it's "yes" to everything - the enjoyment depends on every single factor you listed to a different extent (eg. attitude tends to significantly outweigh looks), as well as individual personalities and views on life and escorting.
This job CAN be overwhelming. Oh, wait - I am not a paid advertiser...
On a more serious note, I don't think there are many, if any, truly valid generalizations. Or rather, a generalization could be valid for a significant number of women, but nobody knows what 'significant' means in the context - and then there would be exceptions. There have been too few anonymous representative studies into the psychology of this work (I only know of a couple done in England in MP/agency settings). Answers also seem to vary by sector of the industry (i.e. street, MPs, agency, independent) And yes, the marketing aspect of the board is going to skew individual answers you get from the women.
it's all bullshit. No chicks walk into the grade 12 counsellors office and say 'it's my life long dream to be a hooker.'
Any guy who thinks they like it are in lala land. Most are desperate for money and have no other alternatives really. Be it kids, debts, hooked on pills... if you ain't got no skills the only way you are making decent money is to spread 'em. And of course no SP on here is going to admit it, that's just PR suicide. It's all common sense really. Wake up.
I laugh at all these suckers on here who write reviews such as 'I licked her twat and gave her 3 big O's.' blah blah blah. Sorry to bust your ego pal, but no you didn't. The hooker you are with is lying on her back counting down the minutes till you are the fuck off the bed and on your way home.
Any guy who thinks they like it are in lala land. Most are desperate for money and have no other alternatives really. Be it kids, debts, hooked on pills... if you ain't got no skills the only way you are making decent money is to spread 'em. And of course no SP on here is going to admit it, that's just PR suicide. It's all common sense really. Wake up.
I laugh at all these suckers on here who write reviews such as 'I licked her twat and gave her 3 big O's.' blah blah blah. Sorry to bust your ego pal, but no you didn't. The hooker you are with is lying on her back counting down the minutes till you are the fuck off the bed and on your way home.
I love it, but I will admit, it has it's days. Some days you just have to turn the phone off and relax.
95% of the time its fantastic. The 5% that sucks is running doctors hours. Alway being on call. But, it's part of the job. There is a little bad in just about any job.
I always said that when this is no longer fun, it would be time to quit. It's not quitting time yet.
95% of the time its fantastic. The 5% that sucks is running doctors hours. Alway being on call. But, it's part of the job. There is a little bad in just about any job.
I always said that when this is no longer fun, it would be time to quit. It's not quitting time yet.
There are always going to be actresses who fake an orgasm but there are just as many who do cum. It's a natural response to the stimulation.
Thanks for all the honest responses. To be honest, it doesn't really bother me if the girl I'm with isn't having as much fun as me. Even with one night stands, the girl almost never orgasms, so I hear. I'd just like to think she at least isn't repulsed by me or something.
I, myself, do my best to make myself get off when with a client. makes it better!
and I have had some sessions where I wasnt into it but thats few and far inbetween because I work at an MP and will turn a guy away if I dont think the session will go well, its not fair to either of us.
not very often but a few times (I havent been in the busines for years, or anythin) I have had a couple guys ive me better sex than anyone ive slept with IRL.
then you wish you did meet them IRL
haha
and I have had some sessions where I wasnt into it but thats few and far inbetween because I work at an MP and will turn a guy away if I dont think the session will go well, its not fair to either of us.
not very often but a few times (I havent been in the busines for years, or anythin) I have had a couple guys ive me better sex than anyone ive slept with IRL.
then you wish you did meet them IRL
haha
LOL...yeah and It sucks just when you think he could very well be the best sexual experience ever,...only to find out he's married!!! seems to be my weakness, always wanting what I can't have lol!!!
Reminds me of when I wrote my grade 12 write up thingy for the yearbook. I just wrote the lyrics to a song, and later got a phone call from the school counselor, asking me if I was a prostitute. I honestly didn't think that's what the song was about, though... Also, when I was 4 years old, my mom was making a home movie of me and my brother singing songs we knew. I actually still have the tape. I remember telling my mom I was going to sing the "pencil song". She said, "What's the pencil song?" I asked myself the same thing, in my head, but just started making a song up as I went along. I can't remember the exact words, but it was basically about a guy driving down the road in his truck with flowers and a teddy bear, to pick up a girl. "...but it wasn't his wife, and it wasn't his daughter" My mom asked me who it was. I said, "Her name was Janey...and his name was Mac" I never said what their relation was, but I think it speaks for itself. It's just weird, because I had the most stable, wholesome, wonderful childhood, with no exposure to anything to do with this "industry", but I somehow just knew...
Well, I do have my welding ticket, and do other construction jobs that pay quite well. I could do just fine using them as a primary income, but I think it is much more interesting to wear "steel toed boots by day, stiletto shoes by night."
Maybe the hookers YOU are with think that... maybe I would think that, too, by the sounds of your attitude... I don't see why it is so hard to believe that a guy "can get a hooker off". If they can take directions, they can probably succeed. I guess it just depends on whether or not the hooker wants to communicate about what she likes...and if the john is interested in pleasing her.
And, PS, there is a lot more to hooking than "lying on your back" and "spreading 'em". Well, for some of us, anyways.
BASICALLY...I'm sure your generalizations are true for some, but to assume that every hooker is the same, is like saying that EVERY doctor is the same, or that EVERY cook is the same, or EVERY waitress, etc. Some people do what they do, because it's what they make money to get by with. Other people have a passion for the same thing, and LOVE doing it, with the money being a bonus.
Umm, I did, lol
, except the part of walking into the counselors office .Seriously, I used to look at the Escort Agency ads in the Monday Magazine in Grade 11 & 12 & would think of working names for myself.
And when I was 3 or 4, my mum had to start hiding her lingerie because I would go into her drawers to put it on all the time
. So did I. When I was in Junior high I used to fantasize about being naked with a stranger in a certain condo complex (must have been the windows).
Many years later, when I finally became an escort, I got sent to the condo that I used to fantasize about
.Talk about a weird experience, like subconsciously I knew all along too
.But to answer the original question.........I do enjoy my job
.On the topic of who you wanted to be:
I’ve wanted to be part of the adult industry since I was in the single digits. First, I wanted to be a prostitute. As a sheltered child, I have no idea where I came up with my ideas about prostitution, but it seemed like a fun, free way to make a good living. When I got into junior high school, I discovered that there were strippers. That seemed like a more realistic ambition for me since I knew from magazine articles that a lot of strippers used their jobs to pay for college. There was never a question in my mind that I would go to college.
from www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/how-i-got-into-the-adult-industry/
By the way, she is retired. So no need for advertising her services.
Myself, I discovered strippers and historical courtesans when about 11-12. For a straight A nerd I was throughout school, women who commanded feminine power were very intriguing and god, I wanted to be like them.
I’ve wanted to be part of the adult industry since I was in the single digits. First, I wanted to be a prostitute. As a sheltered child, I have no idea where I came up with my ideas about prostitution, but it seemed like a fun, free way to make a good living. When I got into junior high school, I discovered that there were strippers. That seemed like a more realistic ambition for me since I knew from magazine articles that a lot of strippers used their jobs to pay for college. There was never a question in my mind that I would go to college.
from www.texasgoldengirl.com/afterhours/how-i-got-into-the-adult-industry/
By the way, she is retired. So no need for advertising her services.
Myself, I discovered strippers and historical courtesans when about 11-12. For a straight A nerd I was throughout school, women who commanded feminine power were very intriguing and god, I wanted to be like them.
Yup I had those thoughts all my life. Even when I turned 18 and went to watch stripper's for the first time. That was immediately what I wanted to do, and after my 2nd child I worked my ass off and looked great and at 22 became a stripper. Something I loved and never regret.Umm, I did, lol
Seriously, I used to look at the Escort Agency ads in the Monday Magazine in Grade 11 & 12 & would think of working names for myself.
And when I was 3 or 4, my mum had to start hiding her lingerie because I would go into her drawers to put it on all the time
So did I. When I was in Junior high I used to fantasize about being naked with a stranger in a certain condo complex (must have been the windows).
Many years later, when I finally became an escort, I got sent to the condo that I used to fantasize about
Talk about a weird experience, like subconsciously I knew all along too
But to answer the original question.........I do enjoy my job
Sometimes we just know what we want and we go for it. I know I did anyways.
I have had regular jobs in between stripping and escorting. But escorting kept calling me. Not for the money either. I actually enjoy this job.
I have to be honest that there are a few fella's that I won't see again, due to chemistry, but over all it is a great profession to be in if you are in the right frame of mind, or don't have any mental issue's.
