Do people ever go into debt for this hobby?

[Chessmen]

In my situation a general guideline is I shouldn't do this more than once every three months or else I have to trade in my summer travel plans and other things I want just for a couple hours of fun.
The good thing is I can't use my credit card here so I don't have to worry about debt and I have never asked anyone to lend me money for this either

 

[gerri]

Yes, I'm one of them

 

[Man Mountain]

Like the lotto motto says...

Know your limit. Play within it.

 

[80watts]

Most of this business is cash and carry. Mostly because it is untraceable, except at your bank's atm. You will have to ask the agencies if they take credit cards. If they take credit cards they will probably charge you extra processing fee. Usually when this happens most agencies don't pay their girls until the credit card company pays them... or use a credit card cash advance. Make sure you pay it off at the end of the month...

 

[masterblaster]

It's not a hobby.

 

[johnnydepth]

I have always considered it a hobby. It's something I would do in my spare/ leisure time for enjoyment. It's not my primary source for sex. If it's not a hobby what would we call it?

 

[luvsdaty]

It's definitely my favourite hobby. But I've never gotten into debt over it. When I've got the money I partake in it,when I'm broke I beat my pecker like it owes me money.

 

[Crookedmember]

It must be the only hobby, where 9 times out of 10, the hobbyist comes away feeling remorseful, depressed, and sad that he lost 300 bucks to satisfy an urge he could have satisfied at home with a bottle of Jergens and a little elbow grease.

I think it's more of an addiction, like gambling or booze, than a hobby.

 

[johnnydepth]

It must be the only hobby, where 9 times out of 10, the hobbyist comes away feeling remorseful, depressed, and sad that he lost 300 bucks to satisfy an urge he could have satisfied at home with a bottle of Jergens and a little elbow grease.

I think it's more of an addiction, like gambling or booze, than a hobby.

I've been there a few times. However, it has always been because I picked the wrong SP for myself. It's like anything else in life. You can plan a vacation that goes to crap, try a new restaurant that turns out to be terrible (could have stayed home and cooked for less). I know a number of car guys and that hobby blows me away. They spend 6 figure numbers restoring a car and countless hours only to sell it for a third of what they have into it, only to do the whole thing over again. It must be passion because it sure ain't sanity.

 

[204fun]

I can definitely see how any person who is prone to addiction could end up in a bad situation as a result of pooning. It's tough when you see an ad pop up for a lady that you have spent time with and you enjoyed seeing because you want to experience that same feeling again. As much as I've enjoyed seeing a number of different SP's over these past few months, I've realized that I can't continue to see multiple ladies per month and need to implement a more solid pooning budget going forward.

 

[grizzly]

Someone once said "I spent all my money on booze, gambling, and women. The rest I just wasted." The reason I drag my ass to work everyday is so I can find some enjoyment in life and I enjoy this hobby. At one time, I was heavily in debt. Although this hobby wasn't the direct cause the debt, it didn't help alleviate it either. My pooning budget was definitely a lot stricter back then, but all work and no play makes Jack a depressed boy. I'm pretty sure most hobbyists who are in debt, aren't solely in debt directly because of this hobby. If you have an addictive personality, I'm sure you have other vices that contribute to the debt load.

 

[VanessainVictoria]

It must be the only hobby, where 9 times out of 10, the hobbyist comes away feeling remorseful, depressed, and sad that he lost 300 bucks to satisfy an urge he could have satisfied at home with a bottle of Jergens and a little elbow grease.

I think it's more of an addiction, like gambling or booze, than a hobby.

So I can't say my drinking is a hobby? :lol: My pot smoking is a hobby though :laugh:

But to answer your question, I saw a man spend all of his money on escorts. He was getting on in years and just wanted the company.

 

[take8easy]

This is a hobby, but an addictive hobby. It is addictive, no question about it. Finally, I have put the brakes on and cut it down from about one every week in 2014/15 to once every two weeks in 2016/17 to once every three weeks this year.

I started three and a half years ago. After about 85 women for about 125 sessions, you can say I have burnt enough dollars to buy me a compact car. But I can afford it. Besides I don't have any other vices and i have been a good boy for most of my life. I am just trying to catch up and see about 100 women/girls before I get sent to an old age home to rot till I die. I am sure one of part of my body is going to die happy.

 

[Crookedmember]

So I can't say my drinking is a hobby? :lol: My pot smoking is a hobby though :laugh:

But to answer your question, I saw a man spend all of his money on escorts. He was getting on in years and just wanted the company.

Drinking, blazing and fucking are all excellent hobbies if you're enjoying them

But if you're not enjoying them, going into debt and getting into trouble, then they're addictions rather than hobbies.

That said, when I get up there in the years, I'm going to spend all of my money on escorts, because I sure as hell ain't leaving nothin' to relatives.

 

[storm rider]

THIS TYPE OF LIFESYLE/CHOICE.....is not a "hobby"

A "hobby" is something that is constructive.Be it the collecting of coins/stamps/vintage toys or the activity of panning for gold or hunting( for sustenenance or pleasure) or even collecting the stuff you get out of Kinder Eggs.Paying women for sex is NOT a pastime or a Hobby!It is a lifestyle choice.It takes all forms but it is a choice.From the guy who is married to a puritanical wife who wont give him a blow job to the guy who has no game at picking up slutty drunk women.Same thing goes for the guy who does not get even Sunday morning wake up sex from his wife as well as the guys that get doled out sex once a month from the wife if they did all of the good things like taking out the garbage ETC.

I do this and I have no shame upon myself and I call it out for what it is.I want to fuck a gal I find attractive and I give money to do so......this is not a "hobby".I do not have to justify it because of a sex starved marriage nor do I have to hide it.I was married and my sex life was not starved....hell it was fed pretty good.

If you do this because you dont get enough sex from the wife you seriously need to step up and man up and say "I have NEEDS".

Paying women for sex.....well to be blunt it is JUST not a "hobby"

SR

 

[luvsdaty]

It must be the only hobby, where 9 times out of 10, the hobbyist comes away feeling remorseful, depressed, and sad that he lost 300 bucks to satisfy an urge he could have satisfied at home with a bottle of Jergens and a little elbow grease.

I think it's more of an addiction, like gambling or booze, than a hobby.

Only time I've ever felt any remorse is when I saw a starfish or someone who clearly hated the job. When I see someone who I click with then i walk away feeling euphoric and happy with a cherished memory. I 'd rather remember the stellar providers rather than dwell on the occasional bad experience.
P.S. it's a hobby

 

[jamasianman]

Its just like any other vice. You can go to a bar or club and splurge on drinks, just like you can visit too many SP's and your funds can take a dive. The same can go for anything, action figures, books, clothes, shoes, drugs, anything with a dollar amount really.

I used to just see one 300 an hour Sp per month but now I can't even do that. I have other things to worry about so I just basically have to lie low until I get more cash.

 

[heyhowareyou]

It's not a hobby.

not just a hobby brah... it's a lifestyle now, welcome to 2018

lifestyles turns into addictions, addictions can go BOTH ways so choose wisely...