DO NOT call unless I ask you to....

[SInCity67]

You're a fucking family man with a wife and kids and a real job. You should have 2 phones, one for every day life, and one for the life you're hiding from everyone else. If you care not to lose your wife, kids, house and half of everything you own, then it's up to you to make sure that no matter what happens, you're not going to get found out about. Relying on some escort to keep your secrets is stupid, it's that simple.

If your life is worth that much to you, you'll do everything possible to keep that secret buried.

Case in point:

I hope your joking, SP are making like what $500 + a day just by having one or 2 appointments. And they are two cheap too buy a tool for there job. Im my own boss and guess what, i have to buy my own tools. If 2 cells phones are what i need for my trade and guess what im gonna have 2 phones.

Another thing, wouldn't a SP want to turn her escorting phone off at night or when shes not working ? It would get annoying as hell for me , if im at dinner and horny guys can't leave me alone, but i can't turn my phone off because my mother ( or some one else important ) is trying to reach me.







There is pretty much no debating this issues. There are unwritten rules to this hobby and cold calling a cilent is at the top of the do not list.

 

[Redrider2]

Conclusions

My conclusions are:

1. While the majority agree there are unwritten rules to this hobby and cold calling a cilent is at the top of the do not list, it is no longer a cast in stone rule for all SPs. Discretion has become a flexible concept.

2. SPs who advertise on CL or who have full frontal facial picuures on their website are more likely to cold call.

3. Not one poster said "Yeah call me anytime for any reason."

 

[stryker]

I hope your joking, SP are making like what $500 + a day just by having one or 2 appointments. And they are two cheap too buy a tool for there job. Im my own boss and guess what, i have to buy my own tools. If 2 cells phones are what i need for my trade and guess what im gonna have 2 phones.

Another thing, wouldn't a SP want to turn her escorting phone off at night or when shes not working ? It would get annoying as hell for me , if im at dinner and horny guys can't leave me alone, but i can't turn my phone off because my mother ( or some one else important ) is trying to reach me.

There is pretty much no debating this issues. There are unwritten rules to this hobby and cold calling a cilent is at the top of the do not list.

One of the more inteligent posts I've read here in a while.

 

[visiting]

My conclusions are:

2. SPs who advertise on CL or who have full frontal facial picuures on their website are more likely to cold call.

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I don't think it has anything to do with facial pictures, I think it is more of a newbie problem. The younger/newer SP's have a learning curve, just like pooners. So I think guys who like to toffit most likely face this problem more than those who see well reviewed ladies only, or even to those that have a very small circle of regular playmates.

 

[Redrider2]

I don't think it has anything to do with facial pictures, I think it is more of a newbie problem. The younger/newer SP's have a learning curve, just like pooners. So I think guys who like to toffit most likely face this problem more than those who see well reviewed ladies only, or even to those that have a very small circle of regular playmates.

I was just joking about the facial pictures because Annalise and Jenn both indicated cold calls are common practice for them.

It has happened to me three times in recent months with very "well reviewed ladies"

 

[CalgaryJenn]

Annalise and Jenn both indicated cold calls are common practice for them.

I wouldn't say it's common practice. It has happened. But as mentioned earlier, it usually happens when there is more than one number displayed and the message says, "you have my number as I unblocked it."

 

[georgebushmoron]

I hope your joking, SP are making like what $500 + a day just by having one or 2 appointments. And they are two cheap too buy a tool for there job. Im my own boss and guess what, i have to buy my own tools. If 2 cells phones are what i need for my trade and guess what im gonna have 2 phones.

Another thing, wouldn't a SP want to turn her escorting phone off at night or when shes not working ? It would get annoying as hell for me , if im at dinner and horny guys can't leave me alone, but i can't turn my phone off because my mother ( or some one else important ) is trying to reach me.

There is pretty much no debating this issues. There are unwritten rules to this hobby and cold calling a cilent is at the top of the do not list.

It's very interesting that a client, when talking about incursions into his private life, feels he has the authority to tell an SP how to conduct her business, how to spend her money, how she might feel about getting phone calls at night. It matters not if she makes a zillion dollars and can afford a thousand cell phones.

It doesn't matter what you think the rules are, the fact is that you're dealing with a person who sells sex for a living - that is, someone who is free to make up her own rules. She's not an accountant, a lawyer, a police officer, a construction worker - that is, she's not in a profession that is bound by regulations and rules or any kind of public accountability whatsoever. You can go on and on about how she should do this and do that, but if and when she breaks your holy rules and calls you at the opportune time that results in a personal catastrophe, you'll be the one stuck with it and blaming her till you're blue in the face isn't going to solve the cause of the problem - which was that you shifted the burden of responsibility of your private life onto someone who should not have shouldered it.

 

[visiting]

I was just joking about the facial pictures because Annalise and Jenn both indicated cold calls are common practice for them.

D'ohhhhh I missed your joke, sorry...

It has happened to me three times in recent months with very "well reviewed ladies"

well I guess there are "well reviewed ladies" and there are "very well reviewed ladies", with very positive reviews...... (ok this is also a joke!!!!)

 

[Creole Lady Marmalade]

I'm going to get a lot of flack for this but GBM is right on.

There are two people in this transaction. Since when did the SP assume all responsibility? Who has the authority on saying what a SP should or should not do? Honestly people, it's an individual thing fuckin' grow up!

that being said

I do have the respect of not calling people unless specifically requested to. It's poor form.

Isn't there a well known agency that cold calls? I'd have to ask my friend which one because he got a call out of the blue from the agency he ordered from something like a month after. 2x. Yuck.

 

[n00b]

Not giving customers, especially repeat customers, the privacy of not being cold called will certainly lead to the SP having 1 less customer.

If it was me and I called but no answer and left no message and the SP calls me back from her call display list, I don't think i'd call her back to make an appointment.

I can see creole's and GBM's point of view but the consequences of such action can lead to losing a customer.

I'd hate to be walking in a mall with SO, GF, family..whoever and have a SP walk up to me and tell me they missed my call or say they haven't sen me in awhile.

Where does the privacy start and where does it end?

 

[georgebushmoron]

Where does the privacy start and where does it end?

Let's say you've got something to hide. Let's pretend for argument's sake you robbed a bank. When you did it, you had an accomplice, and your agreement was that when you both got the money, the transaction was over between you both. But then weeks later, the accomplice gets caught. In order to get a lesser punishment, he decides to rat on you. However, he doesn't know your real name but he gives the cops details about you, such as the personal cell phone number you used to contact him. The cops trace the number and so you're looking at 10 years in the can.

You could blame the accomplice for your woes. On the other hand, he's a partner in crime, so what do you expect from a thief. You could blame yourself for getting caught up in this mess already, seeing as you didn't really NEED a million bucks. But the temptation was too much so you did it. You could also have made it difficult for the accomplice to find out your real identity, but you found this too inconvenient. It's 10 years or a trip to the 7-11 to pick up another cell phone, but for some inexplicable reason this kind of logic doesn't make a lot of sense to you at the time (but it sure does when you're sitting behind bars). So who's to blame? Where does your privacy start and end?

 

[slowjazz]

A pooner should value whatever privacy he has in life. So, it's MANDATORY to have a hobby phone, which is ALWAYS kept out of the house if you're married.

Let's face it, pooning is a secretive activity. If an SP were to call back on your designated pooner phone, she would only get your voice mail. In that way, your privacy would NEVER be disturbed and your secret will remain in the vault, where it should be, under lock and key.

I agree that "relying on some escort to keep your secrets is stupid."

If you want to avoid the unwanted call-back problem altogether, always leave a message.

For instance, if I call an SP and I get her voicemail, I'll say something like, "Hi, saw your ad on CL. I'd like to get some more info on your services. If you get this message before 4:00 p.m., call me back. If not, I'll call another day. Ciao"

 

[aznboi9]

Let's say you've got something to hide. Let's pretend for argument's sake you robbed a bank...

This seems like such an odd analogy; I don't think that they are equivalent situations.

Sure, a pooner should take responsibility for his own privacy and should take steps to minimize the opportunity for exposure. But that still does not absolve an SP from the responsibility of showing some common sense and not calling back a pooner unless he explicitly says that it's ok. That an SP not take action that could lead to a potentially awkward/disasterous outcome, especially when it's completely and reasonably avoided, is, I don't believe, asking very much at all and should be self evident.

 

[SInCity67]

It's very interesting that a client, when talking about incursions into his private life, feels he has the authority to tell an SP how to conduct her business, how to spend her money, how she might feel about getting phone calls at night. It matters not if she makes a zillion dollars and can afford a thousand cell phones.
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So a SP can afford a couple apartments a month in the downtown core but are too cheap to pick up a $50 cell phone, and pay $20- a month. Is that too much for a hassle free life ? And if these SPs are cold calling a cilent because they think its there plumber........ if it was the plumber, he would leave you a message . No plumber in his right mind would waste his time calling you and not leave a message . Time is money, sunshine.





And georgebushmoron and people in this thread, you need to get one thing straight, i never said a SP has cold called me and I need my privacy. Because if i do see a INDY , i go threw PM's or emails for first contact and set my appointment up. Then that day, i will call them usually at the sky train at the pay phone in the down town core So please don't bring this up again , when debating me. This isn't about me, this is about the SPs who are so stupid to cold call a cilent back because he never left a message. Sp's if a MAN wants to fuck you, he will call you back. And if you do call us back, you will not be getting our money.

 

[steverino]

If an sp thinks

it is okay to call when no message agreeing to that has been left then she should advertise the following on her website:

"unlike others in this business discretion is not important to me. I'll call you when I feel like it. Your privacy is of little concern."

My guess is business would dry up rather quickly. Of course only a moron would think it wise.

 

[JustAGuy]

3. Not one poster said "Yeah call me anytime for any reason."

Well then, allow me to become the first. The SP I've been seeing for a few years knows she can call me anytime for any reason, at home or at work. She can also drop by anytime she has a mind to do so. Then again, I'm not leading a secret "double life" and no one is being deceived by my participation in this hobby.

 

[n00b]

well..i guess it would come down to the SP's priorities...


$140 or chance at ruin's someone's life for a lifetime?

 

[Avery]

Well then, allow me to become the first. The SP I've been seeing for a few years knows she can call me anytime for any reason, at home or at work. She can also drop by anytime she has a mind to do so. Then again, I'm not leading a secret "double life" and no one is being deceived by my participation in this hobby.

That's different. The issue here is whether or not an escort should call back if no message has been left, especially if she doesn't recognize the number in her call display.

You and your favourite SP obviously have an understanding about phone calls. However, if I call a lady I've never seen before, or even one I have seen previously, there is no such understanding. If I choose to hang up without leaving a message, or have to hang up because someone interrupts me, I definitely don't expect a call back. Most SPs are savvy enough to get it; unfortunately, a few don't.

 

[Annalise Lane]

I was just joking about the facial pictures because Annalise and Jenn both indicated cold calls are common practice for them.

It has happened to me three times in recent months with very "well reviewed ladies"

HOLD on I said

if my phone was in another room and I call the number back with in a few minutes(20 mins max) then it's usually okay,

I do NOT do this unless I'm running for hte phone and missed it, or went into a store for a drink.

ALSO ------ AS a rule 99% of the time I DO not call back.

 

[Creole Lady Marmalade]

Always looking for the scapegoat

So a SP can afford a couple apartments a month in the downtown core but are too cheap to pick up a $50 cell phone, and pay $20- a month.

And you can afford to pay for whatever you are paying a SP for and can't afford to pick up a phone designated for pooning at $50 and $10-$20/month for maintenance?

The SP isn't ruining your life, you are ruining your life with the SP.