DO NOT call unless I ask you to....
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I agree that the ideal situation would be for the pooner to leave a message stating whether or not it's OK to return his call. However, the SP should NEVER call back if he doesn't. Savvy SPs usually have a message on their answering machine stating that the pooner should either leave a message or try again later. That gives him the option of just hanging up. If the SP expects her clients to call from unblocked numbers, she should be absolutely discreet.
What really pisses me off is if I call a local escort, hang up before her answering machine kicks in, and she still calls my number back. That happened to me recently. Her phone rang four times, and my assistant walked into my office. I had to hang up. Less than five minutes later, the phone rang. Fortunately, my assistant wasn't at her desk, so I answered. I knew right away that it was the SP calling back when she said, "someone just called me from this number". I was not impressed, especially since she's not a rookie, and should have known better. I wonder what she'd have done if I hadn't answered myself.
Safety is Rule No. 1. Discretion is Rule No. 1A. NEVER return calls unless you know for a fact that it's OK!
What really pisses me off is if I call a local escort, hang up before her answering machine kicks in, and she still calls my number back. That happened to me recently. Her phone rang four times, and my assistant walked into my office. I had to hang up. Less than five minutes later, the phone rang. Fortunately, my assistant wasn't at her desk, so I answered. I knew right away that it was the SP calling back when she said, "someone just called me from this number". I was not impressed, especially since she's not a rookie, and should have known better. I wonder what she'd have done if I hadn't answered myself.
Safety is Rule No. 1. Discretion is Rule No. 1A. NEVER return calls unless you know for a fact that it's OK!
Agree with Avery et al...
1. DO NOT call back. Never, ever, ever. If I want you to call back I will leave the message saying so. DO NOT ASSUME I want you to call me back.
2. If I want to get in touch, I will call back again.
3. Even if you try the "oh, sorry wrong number" bit that will raise red flags with the significant other...so DON"T CALL BACK!.
And I have to disagree with GBM (whom I usually agree with)...yes, the pooner needs to do all he can to cover his ass, but to completely absolve the girl of any responsibility for discretion? Come on, give your head a shake man. If the ladies want us to respect their privacy, they should do all they can to respect ours.
Walter
1. DO NOT call back. Never, ever, ever. If I want you to call back I will leave the message saying so. DO NOT ASSUME I want you to call me back.
2. If I want to get in touch, I will call back again.
3. Even if you try the "oh, sorry wrong number" bit that will raise red flags with the significant other...so DON"T CALL BACK!.
And I have to disagree with GBM (whom I usually agree with)...yes, the pooner needs to do all he can to cover his ass, but to completely absolve the girl of any responsibility for discretion? Come on, give your head a shake man. If the ladies want us to respect their privacy, they should do all they can to respect ours.
Walter
Lack of respect
I've never heard of an sp doing that and it's sad that maybe she has to resort to calling back every number on her call display...Don't let this scare you off inquiring though. Maybe next time leave a message asking not to be called back and that you will call again later. You shouldn't have to but not everyone is meant to be a business woman.
I've never heard of an sp doing that and it's sad that maybe she has to resort to calling back every number on her call display...Don't let this scare you off inquiring though. Maybe next time leave a message asking not to be called back and that you will call again later. You shouldn't have to but not everyone is meant to be a business woman.
UMM< your a fucken escort, you should have 2 phones, one for work and one for real world. Its that simple.
I carry a disposable phone for the hobby but even still I dont ever want a call back unless I asked for it, guys here are right, we are horny and as long as we are we will be calling you, so the girls need not worry about missing our calls. A guy only complains about a girl being hard to get a hold of if he has left messages and dosent get a call back, not if he called and hung up.
This happened to me about a month ago. I called an SP (a well known and well reviewed one here) from my cel and got her voicemail, but couldn't leave a message as her box was full. The next day (!), I'm having lunch with friends and my phone rings. The display said "private call" so I didn't answer it. Not because I suspected it might be the SP I called the day before, but because I was having lunch. I was pretty shocked and peeved when I checked the message after leaving the restaurant and discovered it WAS the SP; "Hey there, just noticed you called me yesterday...sorry I missed your call. Give me a shout if you wanna get together!"
I was really interested in seeing her, but not anymore. Now I'm paranoid about calling an SP! I haven't pooned in over a month because of it!
Alright...maybe a little bit.LOL, don't you think you are over reacting just a litlle bit???
But I am going to be more selective about who I call. Maybe I'll just limit it to the SP's in this thread who say they don't call back unless requested.
Or I'll just PM through this site...
I got lucky
Yes it happened to me.
A year ago I called yummy_Loni and didn't even leave a message but then 3 days later she calls back while wife not that faraway :-(
Had the wife picked up the other line, I would have been finished.
Loni apologized later on but it could have been a disaster!
You guys should reveal names of SP's so we know who they are.
Yes it happened to me.
A year ago I called yummy_Loni and didn't even leave a message but then 3 days later she calls back while wife not that faraway :-(
Had the wife picked up the other line, I would have been finished.
Loni apologized later on but it could have been a disaster!
You guys should reveal names of SP's so we know who they are.
yeah i had that happen to me but it was no big deal. i just treated it like a call from an old friend and then politely said, "hey this isn't the best time let me call you back later ok?"
You're a fucking family man with a wife and kids and a real job. You should have 2 phones, one for every day life, and one for the life you're hiding from everyone else. If you care not to lose your wife, kids, house and half of everything you own, then it's up to you to make sure that no matter what happens, you're not going to get found out about. Relying on some escort to keep your secrets is stupid, it's that simple.
If your life is worth that much to you, you'll do everything possible to keep that secret buried.
Case in point:
afreet1444 said:
My claim is not even relevant; don't you think it's pointless to be expounding what an escort should or shouldn't do (especially with her money) - with regard to issues of your personal boundaries? Isn't it the pooner's responsibility to look after his own welfare? Why rely on an SP for that? Imagine being a lawyer in court and having your cell phone ringing from a call from an SP, or having a quiet dinner with the wife and the cell phone rings. Is the SP to know what you're doing at that moment? Who's lack of discretion is that?
Yes....
I have never phoned a client back after that day, I felt soo... bad, I didn't know the rules about this subject before, now I only return calls when a message is left and usually phone private, I respect you guy's other lives as I expect you to respect my private life as well. That situation happened when I just went indy. You only learn through mistakes.
~ Loni
I have never phoned a client back after that day, I felt soo... bad, I didn't know the rules about this subject before, now I only return calls when a message is left and usually phone private, I respect you guy's other lives as I expect you to respect my private life as well. That situation happened when I just went indy. You only learn through mistakes.
~ Loni
I agree with Jodie on this 100% - I don't return calls that appear on my caller ID either UNLESS it's family. Never. I get annoyed also when people say "well you know I called you 4 times and you didn't return any of my-" SHADDDUP!!
I am actually surprised this came up at all...Honestly I just assumed NO ONE returned calls, that is just asking for trouble!
Funny enough, I use to post within my ad that I would not return calls unless I had a msg/email asking me too. Even with regulars when I see there number, I will send a quick email saying I noticed they called... but I will not return the call unless I am asked to specifically.
Discretion is everything to me, and I expect for it to go both ways
Funny enough, I use to post within my ad that I would not return calls unless I had a msg/email asking me too. Even with regulars when I see there number, I will send a quick email saying I noticed they called... but I will not return the call unless I am asked to specifically.
Discretion is everything to me, and I expect for it to go both ways
Lol. This is getting totally petty now. What person would call from their home land line if they are married? I think SPs are just assuming a certain amount of intelligence on part of their customers.
If you don't recognize the call back number or if you do and it's a bad time, why not just ignore the call? Geez, this isn't rocket science.
No offense meant but, I think this post has more to do with poster's need for control and venting about his frustrations with women than it does to do with an "SP rule book". Don't be surpised if some guy on here starts whipping out the bible to determine how SPs should behave next.
If you don't recognize the call back number or if you do and it's a bad time, why not just ignore the call? Geez, this isn't rocket science.
No offense meant but, I think this post has more to do with poster's need for control and venting about his frustrations with women than it does to do with an "SP rule book". Don't be surpised if some guy on here starts whipping out the bible to determine how SPs should behave next.
Sure because there's no chance your wife would ever notice you have 2 phones.
