I am sure it is pretty much imposable to tell! I recently had an encounter with a very pretty SP, this was the fourth time I have done this type of thing first time with this girl. Oddly enough I didn't orgasm this is the first time that has ever happened.. it's not like I didn't enjoy myself though, I enjoyed this more then any experience I have ever had before paid or not paid! I usually find my self thinking about some other girl, you know the girl at the coffee shop or a old girl friend etc.. This time I didn't think really I even kept my eyes open, usaully I close them. I found myself focusing on her instead, she was really gental, and seemed at ease. She never asked me what I wanted, I just let her take the lead, the whole environment was better then before with an upscale apt. with it's own shower, it somehow didn't feel cheap and dirty as before, I took a shower in the room before we got started.. it felt nice to be clean! Anyway fast forward to her on top, she moaned quietly? And moved slow at first then, gradually picked up the pace, at one point she was kind of quivering and shaking, then she pressed herself against me quite hard, moving slowly, then she layed down on me and pulled on my hair while licking my hear while painting and slowly grinding me. She then sat up gain and seemed to start from the middle more or less repeat the process, this time she kissed me, as she lay close to me while grinding, I found that uncomfortable, I was not prepared for her to kiss me, I thought escorts did not do that!
Anyway I was so distracted from watching her that I did not orgasm, In the past they lay on there back, and pretty much I do all the work while they make a bunch of fake moaning sounds, and kinda push back I guess? Not to much fun in the past, and hearing fake sounds really turns me off!
I guess she thought I orgasmed as she then cuddled up to me and just layed there I enjoyed that actually as it seemed unrushed, she gently ran her fingers through my chest hair, and I warped my hand around her and stroked her hair. I waited for several minutes to go by then, I mentioned the fact that I had not orgasmed, she said there was still time, and this time I went on top, and tried really hard but was unable too.. It wasn't that I didn't like it though, I think I was just nervous, and taken by how pretty she was, and how gentle she was. Next time I would be more relaxed.. knowing what to expect, and that I could take a shower first, I am a clean person, and that makes me feel more at ease (odd I l know isn't the type of situation I should be in for a clean freak)
I guess it really shouldn't matter weather she did orgasm or not, I am obviously no expert being young and with my low experience level. Why do I kinda want to know weather she faked it or not? I'm sure it would be easy for her to fake, knowing all the ways to make it seem real shouldn't be to difficult for someone in her line of work? I guess my question is why would you fake it? Apart from making a few noises if the customer wants, there isn't really any point. It's not like she is starving for customers, she seemed to be booked solid!! I had to book a full day in advance!
I don't understand why she seemed to go again right after the first fake or real orgasm? I know I'd need at least 15 minutes to go again, that's what makes me think.. get real dummy she faked it!
Personally I am not looking for an Ego boost, it won't make me feel like a "Man" for giving someone I paid an orgasm! I am more or less curious I guess! Regardless I look forward to seeing her again..fake or real! I don't even care if I orgasm next time, I just know that I am comfortable with her and enjoyed it regardless!
Changing the subject slightly, how common is it for the customer not to orgasm? And define orgasm? Does "cumming" (I hate that word) have to happen for a man to truly orgasm? I mean I didn't "cum"but it felt like I orgasm-ed.. it's really weird and I am confused?
