Dirty talk during sex - crossing a line?

[dickotoole]

Interaction is what the whole game is about isn't it. I mean, all the fucking from my side ain't too fun, more like masterbating than having sex. Making love . . . there must be another site, or person for that.

So, I can't imagine saying, "ya, ride that big cock you tight little fuck toy" or "keep sucking, keeeeeppp succcking, swallow it all" if the girl I was with didn't encourage it with her own vocalizations. It would be kinda odd to have one way dirty talk, one way fucking, one way anything in what is a mutual game to play

now if there are any bitches who want to suck my big fucking hard cock while I facefuck them and digitize their ass please pm me

 

[good2bbad]

I am on the side of discussing expectations with the SP prior to doing the deed. I was recently with a well reviewed SP and all of a sudden, in the middle of the session, she started going off with "Oh yeah, give it to me, baby--Put your cock between my gigantic tits-- Come on me---, etc. etc" and I must admit it turned me off. Had we discussed this initially, I might have been ready for it, but it just didn't work. Ended up having to help myself. So it can go both ways.
Communication is key, IMHO.
And as Alex said, perhaps with more familiarity, both of us would know what to say and when.
good

 

[girth-brooks]

Again, I think it all has to do with personality types and what the general mood is. I would never want to cause an awkward situation by crossing the line. Maybe it takes a few visits. I would clarify before we started nonetheless.

 

[badbadboy]

I enjoy dirty talk but really only engage in it if the SP also talks dirty to me. Spanking, talking dirty while in doggy all go hand in hand. I don't believe saying degrading things has any place but again the lady can initiate that if she is so inclined :nod:

 

[alcxd]

I agree with good2bbad
Do not know how I would react, guess it depends on when & what is said
I personally see an sp because they are professional's. I like to spend quality time sexually & intellectually with a woman that knows what she is doing. Same reason I hire any professional, they know their job. I digress
I was taught to treat a woman with respect, does not matter what they do for a living.
But I do agree with other comments, talk to sp to make sure she is into it.
Could be as much of a turn off to her as it was for good2bbad
Cheers

 

[alcxd]

Sorry added it twice

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Sp's are human beings with emotions and feelings just like everybody else. Each individual has their own boundaries, for me it's different with every client I see. IMO experience has shown me the clients that show most respect get the most mileage. Especially when it involves a more kinky pse style session there HAS to be trust and communication involved to increase the chances of good experience for both/ all parties involved.

Can I hear an "Amen!" brothers and sisters?

 

[CSG]

If I don't know you at all, i.e. we are meeting for the first time, and I receive a tirade of expletives or degrading comments while naked and in a vulnerable position, I may have some serious doubts or concerns about my safety.

+1

Dirty talk is fun and I encourage it . I'm going to defend the studly dominant type men because some really like this type of verbal wildness in the session it's a fantasy he isn't out to hurt anyone .

+1

Both responses here speak to my dilemma. LOVE the dirty talk, but like PA said, how to do it without freaking out your SP.

 

[Justin Beaver]

I find some good dirty talk really adds some zing to a session and if it's done right and seems genuine,it's a huge turn-on for me.Like the SPs that have posted on here,some like it and some don't and you never really know if they will until you get to know them a bit.

I think the best approach is to put out a couple feelers and see what happens.I usually start off with a bit of verbal commentary on what's happening,tell them it looks hot when they're doing a particular thing or say how seeing them in a certain position makes you really hard and see how they respond...if they respond favorably and ramp up the dirty talking then there's a good chance they'll be into it.If they don't really respond verbally then I won't push it.

I've had the pleasure of a couple SPs that were great at it and seemed to know exactly what to say at the right time,and it was great.If it seems fake or really over the top,that's not going to work then.

 

[Justin Beaver]

oops,double post.

 

[Savage]

I am on the side of discussing expectations with the SP prior to doing the deed. I was recently with a well reviewed SP and all of a sudden, in the middle of the session, she started going off with "Oh yeah, give it to me, baby--Put your cock between my gigantic tits-- Come on me---, etc. etc" and I must admit it turned me off. Had we discussed this initially, I might have been ready for it, but it just didn't work. Ended up having to help myself. So it can go both ways.
Communication is key, IMHO.
And as Alex said, perhaps with more familiarity, both of us would know what to say and when.
good

Different strokes for different folks I guess but I find that kinda of hot.