How bad would an SP tolerate dirty talk that pushes the line? Are they possible to offend by words while having sex? Not taking it as a personal comment or "meaning it" if you will.
Dirty talk during sex - crossing a line?
- Thread starter girth-brooks
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Yeah... let me be clear, I would never say such things if I was being offensive, even if unintentional. I always want a 'good' experience for both. So I would yield on the side of caution.
That being said, I think asking beforehand is key if you may only pay a visit to the SP once. Again, I would also tell her it is apart of the sexual experience and for NOT to take it personal or literal.
I dunno...
Perhaps suggest to the lady before hand that you are interested in a bit of dirty talk or role play scenario. Sticking with someone who advertises as PSE/kinky would be suitable. imo
I still remember a SP mentioned in the discusssion here, she preferred to hear the word having sex than making love! If one said you love to make love with a SP , the Sp would have run away from you. The connotation is that you have fallen in love with her! In conclusion we will have to watch out what we say while we are having the deed!
Having sex with an SP is all about the fantasy, there should be no limits less it involves children or some other evil shit. Everything else is fair game and talk away, race, sex, name calling should be all on the menu - period - how can you offend someone who's paying or getting paid for sex?! That's like a painting of a sad clown idiots...
Jesus Christ Amigo - you're not dating them!!! I mean be a gentleman always but when the clothes are off and you're FUCKING let fly man! It always kills me how much chivalry is on this board...
Oh fuk the political correctness bullshit. Damn! it is so easy to dumb down a good time into a prayer study session with mechanical intercourse. LIVE PEOPLE. If you are in a passionate moment, you are FUCKING despite what your mom and the good book of etiquette weenies say. So let it rip, or die a dweeb.
Really, in the moment leading up to ecstacy, what puts your energy over the top:
(A) Gosh Amy, you are rather skilled with your pelvic gesticulations. I do find your energy marginally exciting. Please do continue....
or,
(B) Ooooh Amy. Amy! AMY! Fuck that feels good. Oh ya girl, do it to me. Yes, Yes, I want it bad. MMmm, give it to me hard you dirty girl. Oh yeah Fuk the shit out of me Amy. God I love this. Fuk Me some more. Oh that's it, take it, take it all!
OK, that said, how about communication? Yes, you should broatch the subject of dirty talk before hand. Or should you? Punt differes (yet again) in opinion. Punt prefers the progressive build up approach. First session: modest respectful playful talk, and maybe test the waters with a modicum of dirty talk. Then check it out afterwards so you both have a data point about WTF you are talking about when you talk about dirty talk. Second session: ramp it up a little if the first session vibe was good. 74th Session, you can call her a dirty cunt-slinging sperm sucking fuk toy, and she can call you worse. Actually, she can call you worse on session #1, and you'd probly love it, but dudes, build up to it and check in, vs. clinical clearance from the border patrol. Stick a toe across the border and see if it gets stroked or shot. Proceed accordingly.
Not worth 2 cents, but will bargain for 1.3 cents on this one.
-Punt.
Really, in the moment leading up to ecstacy, what puts your energy over the top:
(A) Gosh Amy, you are rather skilled with your pelvic gesticulations. I do find your energy marginally exciting. Please do continue....
or,
(B) Ooooh Amy. Amy! AMY! Fuck that feels good. Oh ya girl, do it to me. Yes, Yes, I want it bad. MMmm, give it to me hard you dirty girl. Oh yeah Fuk the shit out of me Amy. God I love this. Fuk Me some more. Oh that's it, take it, take it all!
OK, that said, how about communication? Yes, you should broatch the subject of dirty talk before hand. Or should you? Punt differes (yet again) in opinion. Punt prefers the progressive build up approach. First session: modest respectful playful talk, and maybe test the waters with a modicum of dirty talk. Then check it out afterwards so you both have a data point about WTF you are talking about when you talk about dirty talk. Second session: ramp it up a little if the first session vibe was good. 74th Session, you can call her a dirty cunt-slinging sperm sucking fuk toy, and she can call you worse. Actually, she can call you worse on session #1, and you'd probly love it, but dudes, build up to it and check in, vs. clinical clearance from the border patrol. Stick a toe across the border and see if it gets stroked or shot. Proceed accordingly.
Not worth 2 cents, but will bargain for 1.3 cents on this one.
-Punt.
i f you are happy with a mechanical detached performance by all means expect whatever you want ....because the lady isnt "there" anyways.
however if you want passion and fire and fun ,then she cant help but feel and take things personally .
i think you just offended a WHOLE lot of ladies here.....and if i recall correctly sad clown paintings were quite popular once upon a time
Id feel like such a dork if I told any girl that "I wanted to make love" to her. I've never said ever to any ex. When I'd get in the mood I'd ask them if they "want to fuck?" and I had huge respect for and would do anything for either one of them, when we were together.
If I had to tiptoe around with what I could say I wouldn't want to be there. Although I'd probably do and say whatever it took to get into a girls pants the first time, hey I'm not stupid.
Perhaps offending isn't the concern here. It's often hard for the guys to remember that the ladies are dealing with strangers. If I don't know you at all, i.e. we are meeting for the first time, and I receive a tirade of expletives or degrading comments while naked and in a vulnerable position, I may have some serious doubts or concerns about my safety. Fantasy or not, I would either need some forewarning about your verbal needs or I would need to know you a little better, so as to gauge my comfort level with your language, knowing that it's purely fantasy.
And yes, women who are being paid for sex are completely entitled to feel offended, i.e. have feelings. Otherwise a non-human might suit your needs better...
Dirty talk is fun and I encourage it . I'm going to defend the studly dominant type men because some really like this type of verbal wildness in the session it's a fantasy he isn't out to hurt anyone . Hopefully the escort he choses he is careful to communicate his bad boy nature so she doesn't get pissed off or scared which in my experience is basically never their motivation . Of course there are exceptions and I won't deny harnessing a attitude for days type guy can be trying on my patience but he is human he can be reached and once he knows you get what he is looking for he becomes perfect and fun.
Just speaking of my experience
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Just speaking of my experience
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