There's a few messages that are saying something along the lines of "communication is key" but it sounds like Charlee already communicates what she likes and doesn't like, so the problem seems to be more about people not being able to follow directions.
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I agree,most men are extreamly rough, so i usually say "oh, i see you like it rough", they usually say, "no", then I say, " well neither do I " if they say yes, then i say , well lets save that for you, i like it gentle. I have warned some, that if it continues, the session will be over.
What do you expect when teenagers watch gangbangs before they ever kiss someone in person.
I remember one time going down on a lady during a session, and within a minute she said... ohhh I love older men.
I'm not bragging, it's just for some it take years to figure it out.
I'm not bragging, it's just for some it take years to figure it out.
I thought 💭 you were gonna say she quaffed 😂I remember one time going down on a lady during a session, and within a minute she said... ohhh I love older men.
I'm not bragging, it's just for some it take years to figure it out.
Next time say "my turn to go down on you" if that does not get his attention than nothing will and that idiot deserves 20 lashes on his dick.
Watch Lesbian porn.
Do a duo and watch how the ladies lick each other.
Better yet, sub yourself to an agency and fluff the girls between clients, so that the girls are extra horny when they see clients.... 👅 👅
Do a duo and watch how the ladies lick each other.
Better yet, sub yourself to an agency and fluff the girls between clients, so that the girls are extra horny when they see clients.... 👅 👅
One lady I have seen also wanted it very light also. She did tell me so in advance, which was good, so I really backed off on how hard, but even there it required me to work out how hard was too hard as we went and was tough to not want to lick her right through one orgasm to another. Our "training" is very general and it is at times hard to not get too enthusiastic, when your brain's been taught to build the intensity or do a lot of variation. Although on the other end of the scale, I was also with someone who wanted hers sucked and licked so hard, my mouth just couldn't generate enough force to get her off.
It really varies from one woman to another. I love DATY, and as someone else said, I do not mind if they tell me how they want it as we go along.
Plus let me add that I am also not happy when girls go too hard on my balls or dick, to the point where it hurts. I've had to get some ladies to back off when it went from fun to painful. (I do not understand those guys who are into CBT; could never enjoy that myself, on any level.)
This actually sounds abusive. Any man who won't appreciate a woman's comfort, or pleasure and continues to engage in something his partner doesn't like, or want, is an asshole.
That said, I realize there is also business at play, so you can't end the session, but what about even threatening to end a session if a client continues to persist in what amounts to an assault?
This reminds me of my first girlfriend, teasing, delicate light flicks and licks of the tongue, teasing breaths...slow and deliberate....made her cum hard. My favorite kind of fun. Ladies are delicate down there guys and need the loving touch. It's fucking hot!
It's not always that you get good direction from someone you are going down on but if the direction is given and ignored it's pretty much an abusive situation. I love it when a SP gives direction, everyone can learn new things. I blame porn for showing super aggressive actions and cringey fingerblasting....can't be fun for the recipient
Aaah Charlee you’re tips for going down are fantastic. I took those tips away with me after I saw you last and they have been put to excellent use since.
I was frequenting a couple of providers, they were friends and they both loved the way I went down on them. I sucked hard and was fairly firm. One even liked her pussy slapped hard. They told me they looked forward to my DATY.
I then saw a provider that was advertised as a squirter. A bucket list item. I asked her what and how, she gave me instruction to go very soft with little circles on her clit. Wow, it didn't take long.
Since then another woman wanted it very light and on top of her clit.
It goes to show that everyone is different and has different needs to achieve pleasure. The most important thing is open communication.
I like to please so I NOW ask what, and how you like it.
I then saw a provider that was advertised as a squirter. A bucket list item. I asked her what and how, she gave me instruction to go very soft with little circles on her clit. Wow, it didn't take long.
Since then another woman wanted it very light and on top of her clit.
It goes to show that everyone is different and has different needs to achieve pleasure. The most important thing is open communication.
I like to please so I NOW ask what, and how you like it.
As a long time enthusiast i can tell you that every provider is different. You sound like a lady who would enjoy getting off, many don't care and just fake it to get paid. I've seen my fair share. I agree that some gentlemen are aggressive, and are so some are ladies.It's hard to answer your question as every lady is different.
I once visited a young woman in this biz who needed to have an ultra-light touch with a tongue to even handle daty, and while I would... over time, adjust to that in a long-term partner, it was such a regretful trait in a working girl who I saw only once.
I think that if/given you've conditioned yourself to (show the amount of vulnerability needed to participate in this business as a woman), that the very direct conversation you'd need to have with a prospective long-term lover can be shared with a client to the extent needed to convey precisely what YOU need as an individual to gain the most from oral sex done upon you.
At the end of the day, it isn't the depths of your cervix, or your discomfort because of their roughness that delights men who have in common the desire to dine on your goodies... it is your sharing the vulnerability that is your will to climax before their eyes. Deep down, I don't think they believe themselves to be Adonis's, OR that their suave magic with their tongue is universally delightful to all pussies in precisely the same way.
BUT it DOES take some of YOUR directness to convey the precision YOU as an individual NEED to fulfill their interest in seeing you climax.
Furthermore, a good number of the men who see you professionally haven't likely licked as many pussies as you might think. (for so many in this biz being averse to allowing it, and for so many men in this biz having zero interest in that, AND for so many men in this biz NOT being very 'experienced' at all, let alone with DATY)
to SOME, your pussy is merely a PIE in a great PIE-eating contest (just like the many pies they've seen-but-never-touched in porn)... so they are indulging for THEM... (minus your direct and unique-ish-to-you instructions/guidance).
It's just one more aspect of your vulnerability that men are paying to witness.
But practice this communication... it could be great practice for future lovers in your civilian life.
PS - the quoted statements you cite above are those that are fitting for the random teen girl in the random car with a high school boy.
YOU as an adult, with a lot of investment IN your environs, should probably be more direct before the fun starts.
Being GUIDED by a woman toward HER pleasure is an amazing bit of vulnerability to witness... and those most eager to dine on your charms WILL respond favorably to your earlier/immediate efforts in that way.
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