Dating SPs

[Miss Hunter]

^^that came out snarky. In my defence, I'm under a lot of stress right now...

 

[TOAO]

There is this one SP that I always see at least once a month since August of last year, always 2 hours every time. I think we are getting closer on a personal level each time but you know how guys are, you give us a little bit of affection and compliment, we tend to remember that even after a couple of years. Shit, a girl complimented my hair back in HS, I still remember it now that i'm in my 30’s lol. My point is, I’m starting to like this SP and I really want to ask her out but don’t wanna ruin what we have right now lol. But for all I know, it’s all in my imagination. pretty sure is haha

Mark, how's it going with this? Know how ya feel. In case you want to share, you can PM... only if ya wanna share.

 

[Riza]

There is this one SP that I always see at least once a month since August of last year, always 2 hours every time. I think we are getting closer on a personal level each time but you know how guys are, you give us a little bit of affection and compliment, we tend to remember that even after a couple of years. Shit, a girl complimented my hair back in HS, I still remember it now that i'm in my 30’s lol. My point is, I’m starting to like this SP and I really want to ask her out but don’t wanna ruin what we have right now lol. But for all I know, it’s all in my imagination. pretty sure is haha

You never know until you ask. Keep in mind if you don't get the response you were looking for don't take it personally and wreck the relationship that you have. There may be reasons for her answer that you are not aware of. Sp's have family and commitments just like everyone else.

I have a gentleman that I have been seeing weekly for 5 years now. We are in contact even when he is away on holidays with his wife and I am away on holidays. Snaps of beaches and dinners etc. I have another gentleman I have been seeing for over 3 years. I attended a family wedding with him in California and we made a side trip to San Francisco. It was a wonderful time for both of us. I have another half dozen similar type stories that I won't go into detail about.

Some (or most) might not be able to give you a high level of commitment but you may be able to find a middle ground. Mutually beneficial and enjoyable. Funnier things have happened.

Just don't take it personally if doesn't go the way you want it to.

 

[sybian]

You never know until you ask. Keep in mind if you don't get the response you were looking for don't take it personally and wreck the relationship that you have. There may be reasons for her answer that you are not aware of. Sp's have family and commitments just like everyone else.

I have a gentleman that I have been seeing weekly for 5 years now. We are in contact even when he is away on holidays with his wife and I am away on holidays. Snaps of beaches and dinners etc. I have another gentleman I have been seeing for over 3 years. I attended a family wedding with him in California and we made a side trip to San Francisco. It was a wonderful time for both of us. I have another half dozen similar type stories that I won't go into detail about.

Some (or most) might not be able to give you a high level of commitment but you may be able to find a middle ground. Mutually beneficial and enjoyable. Funnier things have happened.

Just don't take it personally if doesn't go the way you want it to.

You know.......he could always invite her to go on a trip to an all inclusive to Cuba.....and substitute the tanning lotion for Nuru-gel.
That scenario may go the way he wants it too....

 

[Riza]

You know.......he could always invite her to go on a trip to an all inclusive to Cuba.....and substitute the tanning lotion for Nuru-gel.
That scenario may go the way he wants it too....

I have been waiting for someone to make the offer. :wink:

edit (patiently)

 

[datodaty]

99.9% of the time they're trying to scam more money out of you

Totally disagree, I've dated a few where I knew and probably a few where I didn't. Actually I prefer them to "other" women now. More often than not they paid for dinner or night's out. I only met one at her place of work. Most guys I know have also been in relationships where they knew and one I know is married with kids, she still works and they have a great relationship.

 

[duneek]

Sound like you let the perfect go away.

I wasn't involved in the hobby at that point. I actually frowned upon it, had the macho mentality of "I don't need to pay for sex" and I didn't want to be with a woman who was a provider or even just promiscuous in civilian life. Now with more maturity (and more income) I obviously don't look at it negatively like I did back then. Maybe things would be different now but she still wasn't being honest with me and that wasn't okay.