Dating escorts
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is it a bad idea that can only end bad... I mean considering what her line of work entails and what you want from her.
It could be a good thing. It could be a bad thing. It depends on how each of you handle it. It would be fairly similar to an open relationship type of arrangement so if you're find with that then this should be fine too.
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This topic has been beaten to death 6001 times on this site, but it`s forgivable because some folks don`t know about the search bar.
Anyway, the threads end the same way-with bickering and name calling and Mod-1 or Mod-2 swinging the banhammer.
Why? What are your intentions? If you aRe looking for freebies forget aBout it. If you aRe interested in connecting on another level then you can try inviting her for lunch or dinner but be prepAred to heAr the word NO.
Its so weird being put in this position because the sp was the one that initiated meeting outside of work...
I would then say `follow your heart`, but don`t push it. Be kind, polite, attentive and supportive and let her decide what direction things go. Personally, I have never pressured a woman period. Sometimes maybe you end up letting something potentially special slip away, but more often than not the aggressive, pushy approach backfires .. I have seen it happen all too often. Treat a lady like a lady and if she returns your feelings, she has ways of letting you know.
depends entirely on the woodchuck.. i mean escortYeah! This one as well as "how much do escorts make".
I think that it must be completely awesome since it would definitely be non-stop sex with a hot girl all day, ever day.
I am! :nod: i wouldn't do it again, but plenty of amazing memories and very few regrets.
I will probably regret this but here goes.
Most SPs will not date a client.
Do you think you can handle dating her on the long term knowing her job. The answer is no.
Looking for freebees. Hey, she's not stupid. Some ladies have a masters degree. Surprise!!!
I got to know one in the States through a site similar to this one. Started off innocently enough with idle chit chat in a chat room and over time we both realized that we had many things in common. When things started to get serious she asked straight out. "Can you handle what I do for a living?" "Yep".
Went out with her for over a year. Wonderful gal.
Can the average guy do it. Not in my opinion. There were the occasional times when it did get to me. Usually started by something silly.
Would I do it again? Yes, with the right gal.
If you have amazing memories and few regrets, then why not? What is unsaid here?
I'm not in the dating market, so for me this is hypothetical (currently), but after some cogitation I think I would be willing if it was the right person, right dynamics and there was complete trust, openness and transparency. I'm generally not the jealous or possessive type (I suggested to my SO she could have an open marriage if that was going to make her happier), but nor have I been in the situation to have that tested. It is clearly something that would need some very open discussion. It is a complex area with a many potential pitfalls, both emotional and otherwise. I can understand why many SPs remove themselves from the dating market while active in the profession. Keeps life simpler. But, there is also some sacrifice on their side as a result.
Yes, the topic does keep coming up on the board... though I have only recently noticed or read any of the postings. But I wouldn't restrict having the thread if there are people who want to discuss it. This is more than just information, but an exploration of feelings, thoughts, pros and cons. Lets keep the discussion flowing.
Yes you can be "friends" with SP's because you share a common bond that you do not share with anyone else. I have spent some socializing time off the clock where we just sat and talked, listened to some music or watched TV together. Sometimes its just nice to cuddle together on the couch and talk i.e. not making out etc. It's nice to be able to share thoughts and ideas in an environment where you are not on the clock, having to shower, play and then shower and move on again. After all if you see a person often enough, eventually you may decide well that was fun, want to grab a bite to eat?
You have to realize that there comes a fair bit of isolation for both pooners and SP's. Both can not for the most part discuss the biz with friends (civilians), families and generally the SP's get together to socialize with like minded SP's. Pooners from what I have gathered are unlikely to get together to shoot the shit in person. There have been a few get togethers in past years but I think those days are passed now.
Dating exclusively is not a reality and should never be expected IMHO. SP's need to work to support themselves, pay for education, and in some cases support children too.
You have to realize that there comes a fair bit of isolation for both pooners and SP's. Both can not for the most part discuss the biz with friends (civilians), families and generally the SP's get together to socialize with like minded SP's. Pooners from what I have gathered are unlikely to get together to shoot the shit in person. There have been a few get togethers in past years but I think those days are passed now.
Dating exclusively is not a reality and should never be expected IMHO. SP's need to work to support themselves, pay for education, and in some cases support children too.
I guess I chime in too briefly
As long as you don't ask her to give up her independency and you are ok what she's doing you will be ok.
Don't promise anything to her that you will support her, guaranteed it wont work out.
If she wants to quit, let it be her decision and make sure that she's happy with that decision
As long as you don't ask her to give up her independency and you are ok what she's doing you will be ok.
Don't promise anything to her that you will support her, guaranteed it wont work out.
If she wants to quit, let it be her decision and make sure that she's happy with that decision
