Dating an SP

[Pillowtalk]

Plus I only saw her once a week and she wanted me to pay her rent and some living expenses.

This isn't "dating". This is you being a Sugar Daddy.

you know what they say about pretty China City girls. They have a sense of entitlement that is so out of whack with reality.

Isn't that what everyone says about white girls, and why asian sps are oh so much better?


In any case, honda, I don't think you were hearing anything unusual from this girl. She is looking for a husband, who can keep her out of China, and provide if she can't work (which, legally speaking, she won't be able to do until she gets legal status somehow) She must know this, and does not actually have romantic illusions aboiut marriage, etc. That illusion is specific, in most ways to the western view. Many asian cultures do not subsribe to it, but make connections that will benefit them, their family, their business, etc.

 

[InTheBum]

That's the problem with this hobby.You start to have strong feelings of affection for someone who's language you can't even speak.(in my case, most often)
You hate to think that once you are out the door they are doing the same thing 10 more times a day with complete strangers.You feel you have some special connection because you like them so much,and you hate the idea that they are being defiled by someone who doesn't have your special appreciation of them, or worse, someone who makes an equal or better connection with them.

To be honest...I've never really had strong feelings for any SP. Although, I've pumped lots that I would love to bang over and over for free!

 

[InTheBum]

I dated a SP and just broke up with her 2 weeks ago. She was a China City girl and you know what they say about pretty China City girls. They have a sense of entitlement that is so out of whack with reality. When we were agruing about breaking up she reveals to me she expects to never work after marriage, and maybe at best work 20 hours a week or volunteer. I said why dont you volunteer after you win the 649. I told her you came to Vancouver with it high livng cost and never expect to work at age 27? Are you going to find a surgeon, lawyer or one of the Canucks to provide you with retirement at age 27.

I thought she was a normal girl who after qutting the biz would just get a job 40 hours a week, but she cant handle it and now is back as a SP. I dont think after making the money she did she will ever join the normal workforce again.

I will say I will never date a SP again.

Good choice Honda! Kick these useless, greedy and lazy women to the curb and move on bud!

 

[87112]

Its sad, months ago I went to her Home in China, stayed with the family saw her younger pics, some high school and university pics. She has many friends and appeared to be nice young lady. I still once a while have a really hard time dealing with her walking into a room and some naked dude ready to fuck her. I did have geninue feelings for her. Its deep, she and her family let me stayed with them the whole time in China. If only her family and friends knew what she is doing out in Canada how sad they would be.

 

[InTheBum]

ITB, you're confusing SP's with your GF's with air values. I saw this show on dudes that feel in love with their real dolls. By chance, were you in that documentary.

No, but I saw your documentary where you travel to the bowels of Vietnam, in search of your bride, only to marry a ladyboy!

Must of been tough...

 

[oh3421]

No, but I saw your documentary where you travel to the bowels of Vietnam, in search of your bride, only to marry a ladyboy!

Must of been tough...

This would have gone...InTheBum - LITERALLY !

 

[vancouverlurker]

I know a SP who came out of retirement because she couldn't handle the "domestic" side of a "normal" life. She had found a sugar daddy a few years ago, and I although I was sad to see her retire as she was one of my ATFs, I was happy for her to get out while on top.

A few years later, I pleasantly bumped into her during a session, and she opened up to me as we had always felt a connection. The sugar daddy had set her up in her own apt, paid all her bills, and gave her an allowance. But he had his own life (wife and family perhaps??), so there were lots of time she was alone. She explained to me that she found it impossible to stay within a budget because as a SP, "... if I want money, I work more. If I work less, I get less money..." She liked the finer things in life and was still sending money home to the extended family in Asia. She told me that she genuinely felt bad always going back to her sugar daddy for more and more money. She said the guy wasn't filthy rich, just well off so he couldn't keep up-ing her allowance w/o setting off too many alarm bells. In the end, she broke off w/ him and went back to the AMP scene, but again, has since disappeared.

I still think of her sometimes, and wonder what I'd do if I was the sugar daddy or wannabe one? I've had some regular SP s proposition me about being a sugar daddy. Fortunately, I don't have any money so I'll just keep hobbying

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

Had a very popular sp who posted on perb she's retired and within a short time i get a prviate message asking me if i wanna see her again. Also said to me please dont tell anybod on the board this is only for regulars. She didnt have a sugar daddy but a regular bf and the poor sucker doesnt know she's stll in the busins

I know a SP who came out of retirement because she couldn't handle the "domestic" side of a "normal" life. She had found a sugar daddy a few years ago, and I although I was sad to see her retire as she was one of my ATFs, I was happy for her to get out while on top.

 

[Miss*Bijou]

chez cheeze

ROFLMAO

i know I'm late replying but it's the first time I actually read through this thread and I was just trying to figure out what I could respond to this guys very misguided advice and then BAM...VV does it better than I ever could have.

that's some pretty funny shit. lol