Dateing a SP ????????
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i believe if you do a search you will find many threads devoted to this subject. i personally have never really read any of them but you will probably find your answers there.
were you just friends or were you also a client?So,as some of you know ,I have been a long time friend of a SP.
thinking of asking her to date me.
what do you think,have anyone dated a SP and make it work.????
Can it work ,Feed- back please Thanks
a friend of mine told me that a general rule for escorts, SWs, dancers is that "once you become a customer, you'll always just be a customer" (though exceptions do occur here and then)
anways, just ask yourself, "are you truly 100% okay with what she does"? If yes, then it should be no different than any other girl.
overall, I say go for it. it may lead to ultimate happiness or it may ruin your life. It's a risk, but you'll never steal home unless you leave third base
Been there done that many times................
................realistically in the end it usually never ends up working. Even if you are 100% okay with what she does it still manages to affect the relationship in other ways. Unless the sp is super grounded and well adjusted she usually has relationship and men issues which cannot be overcome or if they do it takes a long long time. I say go for it but be careful and always guard yourself. It can work but be prepared as it might not be an easy road!! Be friends first and se how the relationship developes!! IMO.
................realistically in the end it usually never ends up working. Even if you are 100% okay with what she does it still manages to affect the relationship in other ways. Unless the sp is super grounded and well adjusted she usually has relationship and men issues which cannot be overcome or if they do it takes a long long time. I say go for it but be careful and always guard yourself. It can work but be prepared as it might not be an easy road!! Be friends first and se how the relationship developes!! IMO.
So,as some of you know ,I have been a long time friend of a SP.
thinking of asking her to date me.
what do you think,have anyone dated a SP and make it work.????
Can it work ,Feed- back please Thanks
if both like each other why not!!! i believe yeah and both as to be in the same page
..from what i have experienced the personality plays a big part just like any relationship with a non-sp. of the 3 i've dated 1 was a nice person who didn't think the world revolved around her. i'm sure there are more like her, but the other 2 - they behaved in a manner that they were accustomed to. they were used to men giving them everything they wanted with nothing back in return. sorry, but most men are worth more than just being your personal chauffuer or a bank machine for the times you need money on the spot. like i said not all girls are like this but quite possibly the industry - men paying for your time and showering you with gifts and praises can lead to a false sense of reality.
Ya I agree..............
.............about the false sense of reality. Alot but not all sp expect the gifts, and money as a natural way of dealing with men. Often not able to sepperate client from something more. False reality for sure!!! I am sure that many sp get guy's throwing themselves, money and gifts at them all the time.
.............about the false sense of reality. Alot but not all sp expect the gifts, and money as a natural way of dealing with men. Often not able to sepperate client from something more. False reality for sure!!! I am sure that many sp get guy's throwing themselves, money and gifts at them all the time.
Ask all the questions you can think of so they don't come later !!! good luckif both like each other why not!!! i believe yeah and both as to be in the same page
what do you mean?Ask all the questions you can think of so they don't come later !!! good luck
this happens to many many hot girls; SPs and non SPs
anyways, back to the original post, ask yourself which one of these guys u want to be:
- her provider: you pay her bills and buy her stuff....and get rewarded with sex every now and then, or
- her lover: you rock her world, light her fire, make her horny, have plenty of sex.....all without paying either directly or non-directly.
I know which guy I'd rather be
Mainly from experience they are................
........capable of loving simply because they are lonely as being an sp fills most of their needs except for actual love which in my opinion is what they(sp's) are missing in their life. My experience is alot of sp do what they do to be in control of how and who, and when they have sex. This way they have the illusion of not getting hurt again. They behave like a guy in alot of ways. Like I said before these type of relationships can work but the sp and the pooner must be well adjusted mentally.I personally think that you can indeed have a relationship with this WOMAN. As long as the to of you share the same love for one another, and trust, communiction, and understandin then I couldnt seee why you coulndt have a relationship.
When i say UNDERSTANDING I mean that it is important to realize that this Woman in this line of work for a specific reason (whatever it is) and if she is Professional when it comes to the way that she handles her business and has a goal then a relationship could very well work. You jsut need to realize that this is her lifestyle (for the timebeing) and if you can deal with that, then go for it
From my experience I find that some SP's are more capable of loving than most people make them out to be!!!!
Good Luck
Once a client always a client..............
..............however there are exceptions sometimes!!!!!!!!!
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now if they tuned me out and still dated me then they must be more than sp's - they're emmy award winning actresses.
back to your concept about rocking her world - why would you want to attempt this in a pool of sp's who probably have a higher sex drive than you, more experience, and make it an uphill battle for you to weed out the 2% you have a chance of actually dating instead of just being taken or faked out? why wouldnt' you just attempt that in any normal setting in life? and if you are that damn good that you could rock an sp's world then any other girl in life should be easy to acquire.
sorry to bust your bubble. if you feel that i'm wrong then enjoy the hunt. it is somewhat of a fantasy world anyways.
yes, but you forget one simple fact - getting to rock her world. of the 3 i dated only 1 admitted to enjoying the sex with me. the other two fessed up that while they may tell you that you are awesome the reality is that they tune out mentally and let you beleive whatever you want. simply put they won't let themselves enjoy it or even try to for the simple fact that you are walking talking dollar bills and having feelings for a client can only lead to a loss in paycheque.
now if they tuned me out and still dated me then they must be more than sp's - they're emmy award winning actresses.
back to your concept about rocking her world - why would you want to attempt this in a pool of sp's who probably have a higher sex drive than you, more experience, and make it an uphill battle for you to weed out the 2% you have a chance of actually dating instead of just being taken or faked out? why wouldnt' you just attempt that in any normal setting in life? and if you are that damn good that you could rock an sp's world then any other girl in life should be easy to acquire.
sorry to bust your bubble. if you feel that i'm wrong then enjoy the hunt. it is somewhat of a fantasy world anyways.
Treat us with respect
Freakychef, you seem to think we all have relationship issues and are worried about being 'hurt again' and that is why we are in this industry. We are people who are involved because we enjoy it, and of course there are exceptions but those are the drug addicted SW's that you shouldn't be picking up anyway. Of course we can be in relationships and enjoy them, and if we didn't enjoy sex we wouldn't be here. I'm pretty sure that if we were all 'tuning out' guys would notice that we are bored and we'd have no clients at all. We aren't all emotionally scarred individuals who do this type of work because we were abused or abandoned...Treat us the same way you would any other woman and if she is interested she will let you know. Just don't expect her to change her entire lifestyle for you, if you aren't comfortable with her work you aren't comfortable with her.
Freakychef, you seem to think we all have relationship issues and are worried about being 'hurt again' and that is why we are in this industry. We are people who are involved because we enjoy it, and of course there are exceptions but those are the drug addicted SW's that you shouldn't be picking up anyway. Of course we can be in relationships and enjoy them, and if we didn't enjoy sex we wouldn't be here. I'm pretty sure that if we were all 'tuning out' guys would notice that we are bored and we'd have no clients at all. We aren't all emotionally scarred individuals who do this type of work because we were abused or abandoned...Treat us the same way you would any other woman and if she is interested she will let you know. Just don't expect her to change her entire lifestyle for you, if you aren't comfortable with her work you aren't comfortable with her.
Brain up guys. What Coco says is very much the truth for many SPs. For any guy thinking of dating one, drop the notion that the girl is somehow fucked up and perhaps you might be her Knight in Shining Armor to rescue her. Instead, face the facts that your prospective girlfriend likes the easy (I mean, easier than most jobs) money and the sex with any number of guys who are complete strangers. Just like you enjoy sex with women who are complete strangers, and would love the money if only they would pay you instead.
