Daddy Issues

[Cock Throppled]

Can anyone explain the thing with guys asking women to call them daddy, or SP's that market themselves using that phrase?

I've never understood it, and it seems about as creepy as anything. Do men actually think that way about their daughters, or Is it something else, that I'm missing?

 

[raulg]

Being called “daddy” is a major turn-off for me. When an SP calls me that, I tell her to stop.

 

[rottweiler]

It's a boner killer.

 

[lukom]

Feels weird to me and I always mocked it. I had an SP who is 10 years older than me call me that also and that made it even weirder. I wouldn't call this a result of daddy issues or anything. Many women SPs I've come to know personally are actually on good terms with their fathers.

 

[maniacalone]

Can anyone explain the thing with guys asking women to call them daddy, or SP's that market themselves using that phrase?

I've never understood it, and it seems about as creepy as anything. Do men actually think that way about their daughters, or Is it something else, that I'm missing?

Rooted in dominant and sugar relationship sexual dynamics. Nothing to do with incest from my understanding. If there was a familial aspect, more to do with a sugar/provider role fantasy.

 

[Once you go black]

It’s. Control thing , Doms and Subs .
In some more ideal cases both get off on their roles

 

[GeeBeeP]

Rooted in dominant and sugar relationship sexual dynamics. Nothing to do with incest from my understanding. If there was a familial aspect, more to do with a sugar/provider role fantasy.

I agree.

It’s meant as a reference to a "Sugar Daddy” or “Daddy Dom", not her father. So don’t read too much into it about a father/daughter thing.

I know this, but it still creeps me out.

 

[lunaseraphim]

I personally really hate it. I think it's true that it's related to the daddy dom fetish, and I've had people ask me if I could fulfill their fantasy and my answer was ''okay can I be the daddy?'' they cooled down pretty fast.

 

[wincity23]

Rooted in dominant and sugar relationship sexual dynamics. Nothing to do with incest from my understanding. If there was a familial aspect, more to do with a sugar/provider role fantasy.

I wasn't aware of this early on in this lifestyle. I made sure anyone i was with didn't refer to me that way as it creeped me out. Much later, during a particularly intense session with a wonderful gal, she slipped and i was totally cool with it. In that moment. Only time it's ever happened but it was kind of hot. I would not be ok with it normally.

 

[Cock Throppled]

Was unaware of the other aspect to it, but when it's done in porn, TV or movies, the women always seem to say it in a baby voice, so it sure looks like it's meant to be implying a daughter/father thing.

Still very creepy to me, and I don't even have kids.

 

[Banged_Up]

The deeper into the kink world you get the more common it is. The number of times you see “Daddy” or some iteration of it is the trend de jour on Fetlife. Hopefully it goes away fast like leg warmers.

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

Yeah, it's creepy.. not my thing either...but that's 'supply and demand' ain't it?

...but look at this from a certain angle. If you're a middle-age client, seeking a 'freshly legal' provider, 18 or 19 yrs... What are you doing in the first place?

In the on going struggle to legitimize the sex trade in general, there's always going to be deviant side to it bringing it down. Up to and including 'that we dare not speak of'... knowing it's wrong one looks for way to work around those boundaries with such 'roleplaying', ... hiring a 25year old with a tight youthful healthy body, and tell her to wear a Catholic Schoolgirl Uniform...of course she's going to call you Daddy to fit the role and fill THAT kind of demand... is it wrong?... well, "legally" yes because soliciting is still illegal; but it's one less charge for 'that we dare not speak of'.... "morally and ethically", depends on the age disparity... a late 20s client has a more in common with a freshly legal provider, than a 55 year old would... so why else would a 55 year old seek out an 18 year old?...

Again, not my thing... my personal rule is a "10-15 year variance" from my own age, so I connect better with them.

 

[lunaseraphim]

The deeper into the kink world you get the more common it is. The number of times you see “Daddy” or some iteration of it is the trend de jour on Fetlife. Hopefully it goes away fast like leg warmers.

The mommy thing is common too lol

 

[Bang4thebuck]

The power dynamic it implies and the taboo is why it's hot but it only works if she's also genuinely into the kink, SP or not. Has nothing to do with being into your actual daughter which would be fucked up.

Ive had girls, SPs and civilians, blurt out "daddy" and then feel embarrassed and clam up, and I'm like no, no, I'm also a freak, say it again lol.

Ive had probably 3 SPs put my hand around their throat and say "choke me daddy" out of the blue.

A SP I was seeing regularly, who was around my age, suddenly moaned "fuck me like im your little girl daddy" out of nowhere while riding cowgirl and then had quite the orgasm. I was stunned as she never said anything like this before, but she became super embarrassed and never wanted to talk about it again.

I thought lots of dudes were into it but I guess not!

 

[Cock Throppled]

The power dynamic it implies and the taboo is why it's hot but it only works if she's also genuinely into the kink, SP or not. Has nothing to do with being into your actual daughter which would be fucked up.

Ive had girls, SPs and civilians, blurt out "daddy" and then feel embarrassed and clam up, and I'm like no, no, I'm also a freak, say it again lol.

Ive had probably 3 SPs put my hand around their throat and say "choke me daddy" out of the blue.

A SP I was seeing regularly, who was around my age, suddenly moaned "fuck me like im your little girl daddy" out of nowhere while riding cowgirl and then had quite the orgasm. I was stunned as she never said anything like this before, but she became super embarrassed and never wanted to talk about it again.

I thought lots of dudes were into it but I guess not!

I do recall once while in doggy, the SP started crying and apologizing to her teacher, and promising to be good. I was like, WTF, and stopped. We talked for a while, and she explained she had been abused by a teacher in school, and it was something she used now to get off on. I was confused as hell, and wanted to end the session, but she explained she was using it as her way of turning around the experience to be positive for her.
I wasn't sure I wanted to be that fantasy, but she said she was fine. We continued the session without any more crying, or calling me her teacher, but I wasn't comfortable, and never went back.