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Dawn2Dusk

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As a kid your foreskin doesn't retract till you are at a certain age, I think around 8, 9 years old. Many men lose the elasticity of their foreskin at one age or the other. Once I caught yeast infection from my SO and I couldn't pull it down at all.
I don't think there is a given age for when retracting your foreskin becomes possible. I don't know how old I was when I first started, but I know I was younger than 8.

My parents did.a good job of communicating the importance of stretching that skin back and made me aware it would hurt the first few time but would ultimately get easier.

Some of the anecdotes in here make me shudder. Nothing goes near your ass cheeks because "no homo'. Good Lord.
 

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She married a guy who couldn't be bothered to wipe his own ass either because he's too lazy or too homophobic that his butt might enjoy the feel of his own hand. She might want to try shacking up for a bit before jumping in the deep end next time.
 

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I'm enlightened and disgusted at these pooners who refuse the clean themselves fully prior to seeing an escort. Not wiping your ass properly for any reason be it homophobic or simply a weird laziness / personality disorder and then seeing an escort or any sex partner is fucked up.

The resultant poor service received for the above reasons is sometimes posted in reviews implying it is the escort who was at fault. If they don't advertise here, they are unable to comment their side of the story because they are in Blue.

I know this first hand since I've seen a few non advertisers who got lambasted by the mighty keyboard. Hearing the other side "poor hygiene, genitals smelled bad even after a shower etc" made sense to me when poor service was provided.

The way I look at it, this hobby is an investment in myself. Best hygiene, easy attitude and there to have a mutually enjoyable experience are what I strive to do.

Why would someone donate $300 + and have shitty hygiene? Simply nuts to me.
 

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I'm enlightened and disgusted at these pooners who refuse the clean themselves fully prior to seeing an escort. Not wiping your ass properly for any reason be it homophobic or simply a weird laziness / personality disorder and then seeing an escort or any sex partner is fucked up.

The resultant poor service received for the above reasons is sometimes posted in reviews implying it is the escort who was at fault. If they don't advertise here, they are unable to comment their side of the story because they are in Blue.

I know this first hand since I've seen a few non advertisers who got lambasted by the mighty keyboard. Hearing the other side "poor hygiene, genitals smelled bad even after a shower etc" made sense to me when poor service was provided.

The way I look at it, this hobby is an investment in myself. Best hygiene, easy attitude and there to have a mutually enjoyable experience are what I strive to do.

Why would someone donate $300 + and have shitty hygiene? Simply nuts to me.
I totally agree. To me, it's a no-brainer that if I'm not super clean, I will only receive minimal service at best. Being super clean may not guarantee great service, but the absence thereof will guarantee poor service.

When visiting a lady, even if I just showered (which is usually the case)I always ask for a washcloth and towel to freshen up. It may not be necessary, but it surely helps give the lady confidence that I take pride in my hygiene. If she asks me to shower, I do so.

I've heard some horror stories too, and I just shake my head in amazement. I recall one gorgeous local lady who told me she asked a stinky client to take a shower. He reluctantly agreed, but she sneaked a peek into the washroom. The shower was running, but he was standing outside it, and obviously had no intention of getting in. WTF?
 

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I totally agree. To me, it's a no-brainer that if I'm not super clean, I will only receive minimal service at best. Being super clean may not guarantee great service, but the absence thereof will guarantee poor service.

When visiting a lady, even if I just showered (which is usually the case)I always ask for a washcloth and towel to freshen up. It may not be necessary, but it surely helps give the lady confidence that I take pride in my hygiene. If she asks me to shower, I do so.

I've heard some horror stories too, and I just shake my head in amazement. I recall one gorgeous local lady who told me she asked a stinky client to take a shower. He reluctantly agreed, but she sneaked a peek into the washroom. The shower was running, but he was standing outside it, and obviously had no intention of getting in. WTF?
That's just screwed up....my occupation gets me dirty, if you consider dirt as unhygienic.
For decades now, I can't fall asleep unless freshly showered....which is why a five gallon pail is loaded into the stock trailer with a valve fitted into it. It's hung in a tree for showering during the Gather.
 

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I have had clients both cut and uncut with great hygiene and poor hygiene. There may be a few more that are uncut that have poorer hygiene than most, but it's generally because they have never retracted their foreskin so it's got a really small opening and they aren't cleaning inside so they can get a little bit of build up and smell in there.

If you are uncut just please retract your foreskin and clean well, it makes a world of difference. I personally don't penalize clients for being uncut and offer BBBJ and ask everyone to shower on arrival before we start. I think gents who are uncut have more sensitivity to their head of their penis which can be a really good thing, and so I don't think it's fair to expect all men in society to be cut/circumcised.

Omfg, this takes me back to my childhood. I had this buddy who didn’t wash his penis properly and let’s just say his nickname was dick cheese all throughout school, and to add insult to injury, this fucker didn’t even mind?! I got to control myself not to barf right now, because you can’t unsee this kind of shit, ever. Imagine white cheese curds, hiding under some nasty looking foreskin, ready to pop out and say ‘hello’. I can only imagine the horrific smell and the nasty piece of shit who carries a member like that and thinks this is ok. Honestly, from the bottom of my heart, I feel for any sp who has ever had to encounter something like that.
 

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That's just screwed up....my occupation gets me dirty, if you consider dirt as unhygienic.
For decades now, I can't fall asleep unless freshly showered....which is why a five gallon pail is loaded into the stock trailer with a valve fitted into it. It's hung in a tree for showering during the Gather.
Same here. Blue collar, shower at night. White collar, shower in the morning.
 

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Omfg, this takes me back to my childhood. I had this buddy who didn’t wash his penis properly and let’s just say his nickname was dick cheese all throughout school, and to add insult to injury, this fucker didn’t even mind?! I got to control myself not to barf right now, because you can’t unsee this kind of shit, ever. Imagine white cheese curds, hiding under some nasty looking foreskin, ready to pop out and say ‘hello’. I can only imagine the horrific smell and the nasty piece of shit who carries a member like that and thinks this is ok. Honestly, from the bottom of my heart, I feel for any sp who has ever had to encounter something like that.
you said it best :puke:
 
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Not everyone grows up with parents/family that shows them how to retract their foreskin fully to clean. I've definitely seen a handful of guys who have never ever pulled their foreskin back, in fact they can't now because the opening is so small at the tip since they haven't been doing it their whole life. One thing I found really disturbing were some reddit threads where gfs/wives complained their partners wouldn't clean their butts properly in the shower, one guy said nothing touches his butt cheeks and he never ever lets anything but water run down the crack as touching/spreading butt cheeks meant homosexual tendencies. I have no idea as I'm not a guy, but some people just don't look/touch/try very hard to understand their own body let alone a member of the opposite sex. What some guys do to escorts would lead you to believe they don't know anything about anatomy or pleasure in general lol :)
Wow, I thought I was the only one. I didn't know that the foreskin could retract until I was 18. Had a girlfriend before that and she would always give me HJ, without release. I would get insane precum and she even tried to suck on it with the technique of only using her lips around the shaft.

Surprisingly, when I did end up retracting, it wasn't dirty at all underneath because the foreskin was attached to the head so tight, air could not get in.

Anyways, some guys honestly just have very poor hygiene and they just don't give a fuck what other people think. They're the same guys that can walk around without wearing deodorant and smell like shit.
 

westcoastrider1982

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Uncut here but thinking back wish my parents had me cut!
Growing up I recall having infections etc as a kid until I basically figured out myself how to keep things clean down there.
I also naturally have a tight foreskin, totally able to retract it easily when soft but when I’m hard it’s definitely more difficult to retract and hurts a bit!

Find a lot of ladies try to retract it when giving me a hj after a massage and always have to tell them to stop!
I generally find it feels good to sorta make the foreskin rub back and forth/up and down on the head of my dick.
My foreskin also doesn’t retract during sex, in my more serious relationships where we had sex “naturally” without a condom, it was never an issue.

Sometimes I have issues with my foreskin getting kinda dried out and cracking especially after frequent sex with my girlfriend. 3-4 times a week and without protection since we’re both clean and if had the old snip(vasectomy). Plus I’m a horny bastard and will masterbate in between when she doesn’t spend the night! My dick gets worked pretty hard lol!
During her period I go poon during that week!

Consider getting circumcised but hear the recovery is fucking brutal! Not to mention no sex or masterbation for a long time! No good!! Lol!

Interesting read on un-cut sex

http://www.cirp.org/pages/anat/

And how sex feels better un-cut for the ladies. Of course this is sex without protection! Saved for the serious relationships!


Maybe the ladies could chime in on this a bit more!
 

NEbaD

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Circumcision is genital mutilation, plain & simple.

The reasons given for circumcision (cleanliness, more attractive, religion /culture) are the same reasons given when they perform the equitable procedure on women in certain African & middle eastern regions, widely condemned across the globe.

Circumcision was at least useful years ago, before we had running water and antibiotics, but now it's merely a stupid, antiquated, HARMFUL procedure performed typically on baby boys incapable of making the decision for themselves.

Approximately 30% of the nerve endings (responsible for sexual pleasure) are located in the foreskin, lost forever when removed, not to mention the loss of sensation to the would-be covered head of the penis, which also experiences a significant reduction of sensitivity as a result of constant exposure following circumcision.

How many uncut men are unable to care for themselves properly speaks to how ignorant men are in terms of our bodies. Men have no "Our Bodies, Our Selves;" rather than being taught openness and acceptance, men are faced with silence and complete lack of education or understanding. The post about a guy who won't let more than water down the crack of his ass for fear of "the Gay" reeks of this exactly.

Whenever I think about circumcision and prostate problems, I really wish that men could enjoy equality alongside women in terms of medical funding and practice, because so much suffering could easily be prevented or even eliminated completely, in the case of circumcision.

Advocates of circumcision typically cite examples of uncut men developing severe infections later in life, but I suspect this is largely a byproduct of those same men who are never taught to clean themselves properly. Circumcision is very uncommon throughout Europe and Asia, and because they know to clean themselves, they rarely experience cases of complications from having foreskin, and there is certainly no great cry for more circumcision amongst their newborns.

Aside from the historical religious and (outdated) hygienic reasons for circumcision, it was otherwise traditionally used as a means of humiliating enemies, reducing sexual pleasure, and discouraging masturbation in children. Circumcision is abuse VIA ignorance. Honestly I can't imagine how anyone who takes 5 minutes to even just think about circumcision can support the practice.
 

Sinset

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I agree I wouldn't advise anyone to get circumcised as an adult unless absolutely medically necessary. I dated a guy who's brother had it done as a teenager because he didn't clean himself properly and kept getting infections and it just sounded horrific his healing time etc.



Guys seriously do this. Some guys think we are being rude or racist even if we ask someone to shower on arrival sadly. Some are just prideful and convinced if they showered an hour ago or in the morning that's good enough. I ask everyone at my incall to shower unless they seriously only want to sit and chat with me and their clothes on because it's nothing personal but I'm not going to give a bbbj if they haven't just recently washed their dick. I had one guy in Boston be the only guy I've ever thrown out. He showed up and immediately started molesting me and trying to take my clothes off. I asked him to pay and he said he would later. I asked him again to please at least shower first and he got offended. Went into the bathroom, turned on the shower, took a while and steamed up the whole place, came out fully clothed like he never showered, tried again and I said listen you really need to pay first and he finally said I didn't know if you were a cop so I don't have any money on me. I said wtf why would I have a Canadian number, a Canadian website and 3 years of reviews? If i was a cop why would you book me? And I had to throw him out cuz he expected me to follow him to an ATM.

I've had other newbies get really angry if I ask them to shower and almost run out the door like I'm judging them or like somehow asking them to go in the bathroom and shower means I'm interested in robbing them or doing a sting. It's really ridiculous. I'm in a robe and lingerie in a nice hotel and work alone. I really hate when guys in jeans and a belt refuse to shower and undress and then start grinding into me with their jean bulge and hard belt, it's super painful. With some newbies they are just so terrified it's like pulling teeth to get them to go through the motion of please pay, then shower, then come out in a towel or naked before we start please and thank you. I try to be friendly and very gentle and accommodate but it's pretty frustrating when someone acts terrified of you when you're trying to be professional and kind.

So when you add up the newbies that don't know what to do with an escort, and those who have very little experience being intimate with any woman, and the slobs who could care less about their own hygiene it's not just a rare occurrence that someone isn't an ideal client. Definitely not the majority, but almost every tour that I see new clients on there's at least one. What kills me is there's some local guys on terb who ARE the stinky client and they are a super reviewer and really don't give a shit about cleaning themselves properly and go around judging SPs online. As for the randoms who complain about lack of service I'm never sure, but it makes me wonder when someone says an SP refused BBBJ or DFK because it can't always be the SPs fault, some guys have poor hygiene, and some guys drool in your mouth, choke you with their tongue down your throat or bite and pull at your lips really hard and not every SP wants to put up with it.
That's... fucking revolting. What's wrong with people, haha. I'm quite meticulous with my hygiene/grooming/manscaping before a session. The only time I wouldn't shower before leaving to see an SP is if they want clients to shower before the session in the incall.

Good hygiene is a major factor for a positive review from me, and if I will repeat. There was an interesting post from a lesbian SP on reddit commenting on male/female hygiene. Apparently women can get smegma between their labia majora/minora. The OP claimed this a common source of vulva odour. There's a few SPs that need to read that thread and take some notes :D
 

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There are guys I've known who take the Middle Ages approach to cleanliness.

They think if they shower more than once every week or two it will wash away their manliness.

Second, they think pouring on a bottle of Axe will cover up the dick cheese, butt butter and armpit putrescence wafting around them.

I'm gagging having to shake hands with them. I can't imagine a poor SP having to get up close to these odiferous cretins.
 

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Recently an SP even asked is it ok, and do you like it pulled back. Yes please. ... I am lucky I suppose. I remember well my dad telling me to pull it back and wash it clean, when I was probably about 9 or 10.

I know this one young fellow who can't pull it back... way too painful. But then I have only seen it when he is very hard. I assume he can when in the shower cuz he is very clean down there.

Smegma..... In my late teens I worked in the interior...there was this elder lady from the reserve I met several times ... Name Shmeg.
 

giver_snoot

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I was uncircumcised till my early 30s. Skin problems run in my family. So in my 30s my foreskin lost its elasticity. I had always kept myself very clean, so some of these stories just blow me away.

I have to add, that the sensations are dramatically less without the foreskin. It was so bad that for quite awhile i couldn't maintain an erection. Eventually i adjusted to the lower level of sensations, but i miss my foreskin.

Something to consider if you are thinking of circumcising a child.
 

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Wow, they're the same guys that can walk around without wearing deodorant and smell like shit.
Yah, a couple of days ago I went and bought some deodorant --- the ball type.

I applied it to my balls, and they have been killing me ever since. ---- It's so painful.

I don't know why they are allowed to sell sh*t like that.
 

sybian

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Yah, a couple of days ago I went and bought some deodorant --- the ball type.

I applied it to my balls, and they have been killing me ever since. ---- It's so painful.

I don't know why they are allowed to sell sh*t like that.
Just because the deodorant has a ball distribution system.....doesn't always mean it's to use on your own balls.
Are you absolutely sure it's for the groin area?....that'd be like using hair gel, or hair spray on your pubic hair.
Unless of course, your into that.....which I should follow up with " I don't need you to go into further details"
 
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