Comment about Services and Reviews

[Dgodus]

While I fundamentally agree with the OP regarding not mentioning extras that are not on the menu there is an issue of safety that is potentially problematic. A pooner may reasonably choose to see ladies who do not provide CIM because they are concerned about safety risks and whether valid or not finds that practice unsafe. If a lady specifically states in her ads that she does not offer it then the pooner might choose her on that basis. If she in fact does offer either as an extra charge or on a YMMV basis then her ad is misleading in a material way. I am not certain of the correct procedure here but it is not clear cut.

Lets not forget that providers have private sex lives as well. Are they to limit their personal sexual activities to what they offer as service only?

 

[steverino]

I think every guy realizes that girls engage in practices with boy or girl friends that they might not do with customers. If they find that a problem they shouldn't poon or they should ask the lady in advance. The point which I thought was obvious has to do with ladies who state that they don't offer CIM but in fact do, which guys who choose on the basis of safety might find misleading.

 

[sevenofnine]

i kind of think the basics should be there in a review.
i mean is she a pse or gfe and to me that means stuff like bbbjs or deep kissing or greek,

i think that is the price of doing business, deal with it. that is what you get paid for,
and i guess as a guy i want to know if greek is a possiblilty or kissing is there or bbbj is there
just generally what i can expect when i see a new girl.

that being said, i think its all over rated, i mean if you click with a women, does it really matter if its covered during a blow job or not,
i basicly stay or repeat with a women because i like her as a person. or i get her, and she gets me.
chemistry not because she offers greek or not

i have said this before i was with one of the wildest pse womens period, but a got to know her and we just did basic coverd stuff, because well i think she felt she had to offer greek and cim to keep clients,
but she still was a lot of fun without pse and a hell of a nice women that is why i saw her.

i see a lady now she would be described as safe gfe, its nice fun, no complaints, well maybe kissing she doesn't kiss, other than that,
we get along great and its fun, its enough for me.

i kind of think a women decides what services to do out of safety or health reasons.
so i don't get why a women would offer one client bbbj and another not, unless he refuses to shower or something,

and as a guy i want to think about my exposure to, if she offers bbbjs
do i want one from a lady who is high volume
saftey and health is a two way street,

the first bbbj i had she just did it i didn't know it was going to happen
like i said saftey and healty is a two way street,
i see a women
i kind of want to know, if im kissing her or bbbj is that standard, for every guy.
or she tells me just for me, but then i find out latter its not
and its not a question of being jealous,
it can be healty and safety.
do you want a bbbj from a high volume girl who sees like four or more guys a day come one and all.

i guess to be honest i have the pse girl when i saw her she was high volume and we did for awhile and liked it
but then i got to know her and she told me she would rather not, it wasn't a question of safty why we stopped,
it was i knew she didn't personally like it.
and i think now im older,
and i see a women that is safe with everything covered, and i like the safty part of it,
and i like the fact that were close and i have known her for years, but were still safe, her limits are her limits.

it kind of bothers me, when a women says i don't do this, but just for you i will.
it gives some false impression that your safe or special
when really you have know idea how many guys she has told this to. maybe everyone.

 

[sevenofnine]

was there not several months ago thread from a lady she got into trouble with a guy.

she was giving him like bbbjs when no one else was getting one, he coaxed her into it,
then he asked for a discount on her price which she again granted,

then i can't remember she felt he was such a jerk or a con artist and felt so ripped off and taken by this guy

i don't get why a lady would pick her limits based on health concerns and saftey then change them for one guy.
or give some guy a special rate.

i had an arugment with a lady once over price, i never met her
but it went like i like this guy he is a gentlemen maybe i give him a special rate. this was the lady.

my response was as a gentle men i pay the lady her full rate, plus a tip, what i can afford.


i don''t know but i just think, you kind of have to wonder about guys wanting extra and for less money.\and maybe the girls that go down this road.
i guess we all like to feel special

but i like to feel special not because i can con someone,

 

[Dgodus]

I think every guy realizes that girls engage in practices with boy or girl friends that they might not do with customers. If they find that a problem they shouldn't poon or they should ask the lady in advance. The point which I thought was obvious has to do with ladies who state that they don't offer CIM but in fact do, which guys who choose on the basis of safety might find misleading.

No I know what point you're trying to make. But it's absolutly moot who they're doing it with. If it matters that much to you (the safety of no bbbj or cim for example) what does it matter if it's with an SO or a few clients they have a rapport with?

There is a difference between ymmv and a restriction that "might" happen for a few clients. Mainly in as much as some clients can be pushy about things - I'm sure some providers just dont want to deal with certain requests alot. Other clients may give a bad review if something isn't provided (not necessarily that "service x wasn't offered" but just a general vague "service/attitude wasn't very good") or simply be disatisfied and not repeat, if something occurs with only a few clients that's the potential for a lot of disatisfied customers, whereas ymmv can simply be "your balls smell bad, I'm not licking them" - which is something that can be the fault of the pooner. Add to that, that receiving something which is not on the menu can make a client feel like he got some great service (better review overall, better chance of repeat business, may treat the provider better, etc). I know when xm sent me a new radio for having an account for so long I got a more favorable view of the company, it really is just smart customer relations, like 7of9 says, it can make a client feel special (which is probably going to prompt him moreso to come back)

Everyone knows a cop will let you out of a traffic ticket depending on how you deal with them/mood their in, and traffic laws are very much a restriction.