C'mon PERBSTERS! Talk to Me!
- Thread starter Ms Erica Phoenix
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There are lots of East Coast folks in the chat lounge now; I'm there too! Come by and say hello; let's commiserate about hockey and having no one to cuddle with on a Sunday night!
You are doing it wrong if you are finding it so scary. You need to find a way to do it within your comfort zone, or maybe it isn't the right hobby for you. It is something that should only be undertaken with forethought, knowledge of why you are choosing this, a full weighing of possible risks and plenty of research to minimize any risks. You don't want to be losing sleep over it.
But what about finding information for others to research on? Not all the information is provided. Shit happens when you go finding that information horrible hobby sometimes
Text is frequently inadequate for conveying the nuances of what is being communicated, and maybe my posting was not sufficiently precisely worded to clearly convey the full meaning of what I was saying. In essence, there are some very well-reviewed women on erslist and Perb from a number of viewpoints. Find the reviews, look at the reliability of the reviewers and use them as a stating point. Yes, there certainly is an element of YMMV, but the risk can be minimized. I've had one experience lower than my expectations, but that was probably due as much to me as to the lady concerned. However, I have also done extensive research beforehand, confirmed the arrangements and planned ahead of time. I don't want to be losing sleep over this. Yes, shit can happen, but that shouldn't be very often if you take the right precautions. Shit can happen in other hobby's as well, but the risk can usually be minimized ahead of time.But what about finding information for others to research on? Not all the information is provided. Shit happens when you go finding that information horrible hobby sometimes
Oh hell I sure had a YMMV experience. Sometimes it's not the expectations honestly I never expect much I don't think I have ever written a negative review for any SP. Never gave a score of under 6.5 for any of the categories "L/S/A" even if I give a 6.5 in one category the worse I would give is at least an 8 in another. Never did I gave an overall score of lower than 6.5 for everything. The usual score I give for most sp is everything above 7.5 you can call me a bias person or a person who tends to write neutral or good reviews. You see an experience I had recently is rather complicated...
but not that I gave a bad score ever, it was more like some accurate detail I provided. Then the other pooners speculate and found answers for themselves and then.... I'm losing sleep.
But I completely agree with you on trying to minimize the risk ahead of time, but I guess some risk can't be avoided if you want to write and provide honest details in your review anyway I'm logging off now I think I write too much. One other thing thank god I have a huge dog and one of my other hobby is hunting maybe I could close my eyes for a short time tonight. You know just don't try to understand what I said I completely agree with you man it is always best to minimize risks. ok... nap time
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I don't think it works well from phones...I'm using my ancient desktop (like, so old I am pleased every time it boots up!)
I'm doing it again...the chat is empty, and I'm feeling 'talkative'. See the CHAT between Advertise Here and What's New ? Click on that and come and visit. No promoting, just chilling and killing time. Let me keep you company!
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