Nice to know it works sometimes. I didn't think it would, but it is consistent with my view many adults do weird things because they don't know any better rather than because they are intrinsically hopeless.
Cautionary tale
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Out of curiosity, how on earth did this subject/assumption come up during the booking process?
and we're live again! fuck yeah. knew you'd come through hahahaha. this shit is too amusing to kill for good.
If we can't stay on topic and within the rules, it will get locked at a minimum, it's not too much to ask....
If an SP declines, just let it go and move on. It's happened to me and yes it is not pleasant, but arguing acheives nothing.
All the guys saying "she's not on my list", because a lady had a strong opinion you obviously would not have been a good match anyway.
I enjoy a woman who can and will challenge me, mentally and physically.
Perb and social media are excellent for the kind of pairing I like, since I prefer a connection rather than an anonymous drive-by.
If you want straight blo'n'go then a strong personality is not what you want.
All the guys saying "she's not on my list", because a lady had a strong opinion you obviously would not have been a good match anyway.
I enjoy a woman who can and will challenge me, mentally and physically.
Perb and social media are excellent for the kind of pairing I like, since I prefer a connection rather than an anonymous drive-by.
If you want straight blo'n'go then a strong personality is not what you want.
OK, this thread has convinced me to send $50.00 to Elsi just because she's so awesome. Keep up the good work Elsi!
And I'm so glad when you speak your mind in any thread, Clementine. Each time some guy's fragile masculinity crumples under the weight of your disdain, an angel gets their wings.
And I'm so glad when you speak your mind in any thread, Clementine. Each time some guy's fragile masculinity crumples under the weight of your disdain, an angel gets their wings.
Every single day there are several tweets about this, from many different ladies.
Initial contact seems okay, guy seems nice, then he pushes the envelope. Lady says no, guy pushes some more, the lady has to push back, and guy goes ballistic.
Jekyll and Hyde transformation, unleashes a torrent of insults and profanities, says he would never have sex with her (despite literally wanting to pay to see her minutes before).
Aesop's Sour Grapes fable comes to mind. Some people cannot accept "No".
This is plain stupid.
perb is a review forum for gentlemen to discuss the services they receive from escorts.
Women should not be allowed to post on perb, other than the advertising section... We just get this mud slinging "he said she said", crap.
clemintine, you come across as having a bad attitude.
I hope the moderators will confine you to the advertising section, well, maybe you would be allowed to respond to a positive review in the review section.
Hey just my two cents,
perb is a review forum for gentlemen to discuss the services they receive from escorts.
Women should not be allowed to post on perb, other than the advertising section... We just get this mud slinging "he said she said", crap.
clemintine, you come across as having a bad attitude.
I hope the moderators will confine you to the advertising section, well, maybe you would be allowed to respond to a positive review in the review section.
Hey just my two cents,
I hate to break this to you, sweetie, but us advertisers PAY to participate here. At the same time I am supportive of men sharing their experiences as well. Reviews, when done with good intentions, even the critical ones (as long as they are kept respectful and not done out of a place of maliciousness) are helpful to this community.
Well if nothing else you should get the award for the longest handle. There is nothing to be gained by muzzling the ladies. They add a valuable and needed view and also give us all a wake-up call once in awhile.
So for the 3rd or 4th time in this thread, my only purpose for starting this thread was as a "Cautionary Tale" against using your Perb id as part of introducing yourself. I had moved on about not seeing Elsi minutes after she basically shut the idea down. I was not bummed out by it, nor was I mad or anything approaching that. In fact this is how the it ended that day:
Elsi: I've taken a disliking to you for negotiating my rates. It's disrespectful and crass. And when I tried asking you about the post you regret to see if you could use good judgment and employ some self-awareness, you wanted to play coy and hold that out as a carrot to see me. Poor form.
Elsi: When I have so little information to make a decision about inviting someone into my home and into my body, petty moves like that make me think I'm better off passing.
And negotiating with a sex worker over fifty bucks is being cheap. This isn't healthcare or an emergency service, it
it's a luxury product.
JD: Thanks for explaining your reasoning. What is somewhat ironic, is that I have forgotten which post it was that I regretted. If it comes back to me, and I can find it, I will send you a link to it, if simply for the sake of some kind of closure. If I end up seeing another lady that I think you have a good opinion of, I may ask her to send you a reference on my behalf. One of my many qualities (along with modesty) is that I do not hold a grudge or for the most part make permanent judgments about people. Hopefully that is also one of your qualities and we may still find a way past today's event. I hope you have a great day ?
Elsi: You too! Thanks for the kisses! Have yourself a good day!
So you can see, we left it on relatively good terms. And Elsi has texted me a few times today as well, so clearly she wants to continue some type of relationship
JD
I like the interaction with the SP's.
Who needs a sausage fest discussing the ladies and they are unable to reply? I have been known to see SP's who receive a negative review based upon how they respond to criticism in their reviews.
Um, no. Your 2 cents, while as welcome as the next two cents, are never going to be the decision making 2 cents around here.
Edward - I have given my Perb id numerous times in the past. My relatively good rep on this board (15 years a member and not so much as one ban by the Mods) has done me in good stead in the past. This was the one exception that broke the camels back, to use a mixed metaphor lol. So yes, after 15 years, "op has figured it out" ;-(
EDIT: I did get some warnings for not purposely breaking a Perb rule. The last was for necroposting (posting to a thread that had been dormant too long). The mods have always known I did not purposely break a rule and been very understanding.
JD
Apologize for asking for a discounted rate. And then don't expect a discounted rate.
I disagree, the ladies should be allowed to post anywhere the guys post. If they wernt how would they be able to defend themselves. It would be to easy for someone to post lies that could kill a career
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