For me chemistry > skills >> looks.
Physically I have a large range of what I’d consider pretty. All ethnicities… short to tall… slim to voluptuous but I need a certain fitness level and I’m not attracted to bodies too skinny or with too many excess lbs. I like something to hold on to so I prefer B+ cup size (and I’m a fan of larger) and a round fit ass, from fit to slightly plump. And ofc a pretty face which I’m too lazy to type out here (too subjective ). I don’t need all of these factors… But luckily for me tons of SPs fit the bill.
Personality, authenticity and being charmed always makes a session even better. And a passionate or seductive energy is amazing. Some women just have that sexy energy!
But skillz… it makes a big difference. I’m talking technique, attention to detail, kissing, sexual moves, oral technique , does she make me feel like she’s enjoying herself, does she make me feel desired… I’d rather spend time with a “6.5” with “10” skills than vice versa. I mean, easy decision, really easy decision.
but then there is chemistry. It’s tops. Not something that can be relied on… but as OP says, sometimes you just find it and wow… especially if it combines all areas above… then it’s really ⚡🤯