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Cock Throppled

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I won’t give her name, because we never know what else is going on in an SP’s life, but the over-the-top reaction is worth mentioning.

A while ago, I saw a long-time, lower-priced SP. I hadn’t seen for about a year. I’d visited a number of times over the years, but her last incall wasn’t very discreet, so didn’t see her for a year.

I recently found out she had moved to a better, and more convenient place, so booked a session. I’d always found her to be fair, professional and fairly appealing, although somewhat cool. All business.

Our session was brief, I brought he a small gift, we chatted a bit more than usual, I tipped for the session, and left.

A week later I wanted a follow-up appointment, so texted her, and got no response, even though her ad was up. A few hours later I texted again, but also got no response. In the past she usually responded within a few hours.

The next day, after still receiving no reply, and seeing her ad had been up once more, I texted again, asking if there was a reason she didn’t want to see me as a client, and I felt it was ruder to ignore texts than be direct.

That finally got a response. It was, initially kind of a blow-off, like “Pffft. So what?”, then followed by another that said, ““Fuck You…”

This was followed by two more saying she was so busy she was 3 weeks behind answering texts (but not, apparently too busy to write & send 4 abusive texts to me), and that she is entitled to take a day off now and again, and I should seek therapy if I was that upset about not getting a response.

I wasn’t rude in my first question, and wasn’t rude in my follow-up explaining why I thought she might have an issue seeing me, which is why I enquired.

I received no follow-up, no apology, or explanation.

Not sure why she reacted the way she did, but it cost her more than my business, as I had decided to offer her (no strings attached), a substantial amount of money to help with a medical procedure she needs.

Plenty of fish, as they say.
 

haigum141

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I won’t give her name, because we never know what else is going on in an SP’s life, but the over-the-top reaction is worth mentioning.

A while ago, I saw a long-time, lower-priced SP. I hadn’t seen for about a year. I’d visited a number of times over the years, but her last incall wasn’t very discreet, so didn’t see her for a year.

I recently found out she had moved to a better, and more convenient place, so booked a session. I’d always found her to be fair, professional and fairly appealing, although somewhat cool. All business.

Our session was brief, I brought he a small gift, we chatted a bit more than usual, I tipped for the session, and left.

A week later I wanted a follow-up appointment, so texted her, and got no response, even though her ad was up. A few hours later I texted again, but also got no response. In the past she usually responded within a few hours.

The next day, after still receiving no reply, and seeing her ad had been up once more, I texted again, asking if there was a reason she didn’t want to see me as a client, and I felt it was ruder to ignore texts than be direct.

That finally got a response. It was, initially kind of a blow-off, like “Pffft. So what?”, then followed by another that said, ““Fuck You…”

This was followed by two more saying she was so busy she was 3 weeks behind answering texts (but not, apparently too busy to write & send 4 abusive texts to me), and that she is entitled to take a day off now and again, and I should seek therapy if I was that upset about not getting a response.

I wasn’t rude in my first question, and wasn’t rude in my follow-up explaining why I thought she might have an issue seeing me, which is why I enquired.

I received no follow-up, no apology, or explanation.

Not sure why she reacted the way she did, but it cost her more than my business, as I had decided to offer her (no strings attached), a substantial amount of money to help with a medical procedure she needs.

Plenty of fish, as they say.
You're actually the crazy one in this scenario.

Not getting a reply is the same as getting a reply.

Not only that, you decided to write an essay about it. Take a step back and analyze your own actions.
 

Cock Throppled

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You're actually the crazy one in this scenario.

Not getting a reply is the same as getting a reply.

Not only that, you decided to write an essay about it. Take a step back and analyze your own actions.
Maybe you have more experience from SP's ignoring you, but when she has responded in a timely manner in the past I see no reason why asking why I was not getting a response wouldgenerate a hostile response.

I've run businesses, and you never ignore a client. If you don't want their business, or there are other obligations, you inform them. Politiely.

There are sometimes good reasons SP's don't want to see clients, and it has nothing to do with behaviour, or hygiene. I was enquiring if that was the case, or not.

She also seemed to indicate it was because she was busy, but decided to not answer as such, but to be obnoxious and drive away a long-term client.
 

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I won’t give her name, because we never know what else is going on in an SP’s life, but the over-the-top reaction is worth mentioning.

A while ago, I saw a long-time, lower-priced SP. I hadn’t seen for about a year. I’d visited a number of times over the years, but her last incall wasn’t very discreet, so didn’t see her for a year.

I recently found out she had moved to a better, and more convenient place, so booked a session. I’d always found her to be fair, professional and fairly appealing, although somewhat cool. All business.

Our session was brief, I brought he a small gift, we chatted a bit more than usual, I tipped for the session, and left.

A week later I wanted a follow-up appointment, so texted her, and got no response, even though her ad was up. A few hours later I texted again, but also got no response. In the past she usually responded within a few hours.

The next day, after still receiving no reply, and seeing her ad had been up once more, I texted again, asking if there was a reason she didn’t want to see me as a client, and I felt it was ruder to ignore texts than be direct.

That finally got a response. It was, initially kind of a blow-off, like “Pffft. So what?”, then followed by another that said, ““Fuck You…”

This was followed by two more saying she was so busy she was 3 weeks behind answering texts (but not, apparently too busy to write & send 4 abusive texts to me), and that she is entitled to take a day off now and again, and I should seek therapy if I was that upset about not getting a response.

I wasn’t rude in my first question, and wasn’t rude in my follow-up explaining why I thought she might have an issue seeing me, which is why I enquired.

I received no follow-up, no apology, or explanation.

Not sure why she reacted the way she did, but it cost her more than my business, as I had decided to offer her (no strings attached), a substantial amount of money to help with a medical procedure she needs.

Plenty of fish, as they say.
I have had similar expereinces. What we pooner sometimes forget, is that many SPs have what I would describe as dual personalities. There is the personality that they display when you are in their presence and there is the personality they dispaly when you are out of sight. Many of these ladies have serious issues, which at least in some cases, is why they were forced to get into the industry in the first place ( the only way they are able to make the income that they require). If you are out of sight when your text arrives, it is just another text from who knows how many clients, and she views these texts with the same attitude which is the merged overall experience she has with her clients.

Now, before any of you ladies jump all over me, I acknowledge what I described in the previous paragraph is not always the case. Some of you ladies are totally normal and perceive us clients as the individuals that we are, and not some merged average of all your clients.

I will give a personal example. There is a sp that I have seen off and on for close to 5 years. I have done her many favours over the years, including small gifts and loaning her money, often by eTransfers. I should note that she always everntually pays me back any money I loan her, through subtracting amounts she can afford from her fee when we get together. When we are together she will say how she considers me a friend and how much she appreciates what I do for her. I really enjoy my time with her. BUT, IF I SEND HER A TEXT TO SEE HOW SHE IS DOING OR LET HER KNOW ABOUT SOMETHING THAT HAS HAPPENDED IN MY LIFE, SHE NEVER RESPONDS UNTIL SHE NEEDS ANOTHER FAVOR OR IS TRYING TO SET UP A DATE. It is like she has 2 totally different personalities ;-( I have come to accept our relationship as it is. I do see other SPs and if I ever found another SP that I liked as much as her and that did not ghost me accept when she wanted something, I would probably switch allegiances. It is one of the reasons I am considering giving a SD/SB site a chance. You might think she would be really sorry if that happened and try to somehow win me back, but I think so many people in her life have done the same, usually because she has dissappointed them in some manner I have reason to believe, that she would just move on after I stopped seeing her or loaning her money. She has not advertised in a very long time, and if she is telling me the truth, I am one of very few clients, so if I did end it with her, it would be a significant financial loss.

JD
 

haigum141

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Maybe you have more experience from SP's ignoring you, but when she has responded in a timely manner in the past I see no reason why asking why I was not getting a response wouldgenerate a hostile response.

I've run businesses, and you never ignore a client. If you don't want their business, or there are other obligations, you inform them. Politiely.

There are sometimes good reasons SP's don't want to see clients, and it has nothing to do with behaviour, or hygiene. I was enquiring if that was the case, or not.

She also seemed to indicate it was because she was busy, but decided to not answer as such, but to be obnoxious and drive away a long-term client.
Yes i understand that it's the polite thing to do but not everyone is polite. SP's are not exactly "normal" conventional type of people and largely have alot of issues they deal with personally whether they realize it or not so don't be surprised if they aren't the greatest people personally.

How you run your businesses has nothing to do with how they decide to run theirs. What if they want to run their business and only see each client one time? Who are you to decide whether that should be the case or not? The reason they do not want to see you again does not matter, the only thing that matter is that you did not get a reply, which is a reply in of itself. That's all there is to it.

I think you are confused because you are placing expectations on this particular SP to behave a certain way and you expect her to behave cordially or "politely" and give you a "timely response" when in fact, her character is not inclined to do so, so she acts in accordance with who she is which is not what you think she should be so now you are angry because the reality did not match your expectations.

But your actions actually make you the "crazier" one in this scenario, does that make sense?
 

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Not sure why she reacted the way she did, but it cost her more than my business, as I had decided to offer her (no strings attached), a substantial amount of money to help with a medical procedure she needs.

Plenty of fish, as they say.
Now that sounds like a dandy idea! Which necessary medical procedures are not covered by MSP? Ass implants? Tattoo lasering? Pussy rejuvenation?
 

Bobby1968

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Basic economics: when demand (pooners) exceeds supply (quality SPs), suppliers can afford to behave as they choose e.g. ghosting at any time, for any reason. A SP charging 300 only has to book 333 hours to gross 100k per annum - 4 or 5 dates a week. A pooner may be among dozens competing for those 4 or 5 slots.

With ubiquitous smart phones, the system is essentially a silent auction; that is, high rollers requesting multiple hours, overnights, tacking on an extra 100 at the last moment, or a sugar daddy arrangement may displace average pooners eking out single hours and half hours. Excepting high net worth individuals and exceptionally ethical / kind SPs, there is a high probability any desired future encounter will not pan out despite past success. There is no past nor long future with a SP. Just a chance you may fuck soon - or not, in the above case.
 

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Dealing with passive aggressive needy clients who dangle money like a carrot on a stick can easily bring out the temperamental moody side of a provider.

At least, that would bring out the snark in me pretty quickly.
 

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I often wonder why anyone would persist in seeking service from a provider after she showed little interest or enthusiasm.
 

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I've run businesses, and you never ignore a client.
why not? who you going to tell? you share your experiences about doing this with all your family/friends/strangers you meet?

you won't even mention her name here, so no one knows, cares

it won't affect her at all

your "business" analogy isn't applicable

word of mouth only works when you actually tell others specifics, like the business's name

she probably, like all the other women doing this couldn't possible answer all the calls, emails, see all the guys who try to get ahold of them


this isn't a normal "business"

the demand will never be the winning factor
 

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why not? who you going to tell? you share your experiences about doing this with all your family/friends/strangers you meet?

you won't even mention her name here, so no one knows, cares

it won't affect her at all

your "business" analogy isn't applicable

word of mouth only works when you actually tell others specifics, like the business's name

she probably, like all the other women doing this couldn't possible answer all the calls, emails, see all the guys who try to get ahold of them


this isn't a normal "business"

the demand will never be the winning factor
For that matter, contractors do ignore potential clients. And professionals too. e.g. When their plate is full. I know I can be slow to reply to unsolicited opportunities in my line of work when things get hectic.
 

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You tried twice in the same day and then the next day you take it to, "Why don't you want to see me?"

That's way too soon to jump to that conclusion and does nothing to improve the situation.

I had an SP that always had another appointment every time I wanted to see her. I tried about 4 or 5 times over the course of a year before I asked why she wouldn't see me anymore. She responded, "Why do you ask that? You are a good customer. bla bla bla" I gave up after that but I still wonder sometimes if it really was just bad booking luck. LOL

24 hours is nothing. Espcially when receiving as much communication as SPs do. If she was away from her phone for 20 minutes, your message might be too far back in the river to even hit her radar.
 

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Miss hunter is not being sarcastic.
You got jaded man.. fuck, move on. They do not want Kling on’s.. :doh:
A post of mine that the Mod deleted was pure sarcasm. I think you missed it.

All this over 3 missed texts over a time span of a day and a half?! Just because her ad was recently bumped it doesn’t mean she’s sitting by the phone. Maybe she was busy in sessions with other clients, or busy with something else.
Some ladies have their ads set to auto-bump. The ads get reposted even when they’re not working.
 

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I do see other SPs and if I ever found another SP that I liked as much as her and that did not ghost me accept when she wanted something, I would probably switch allegiances. It is one of the reasons I am considering giving a SD/SB site a chance.
It's just a shell game. The only difference between the straight up escorts off Leo and SBs is that the SBs are better actors and generally cost more.

Here are some equations for you:

SW -> SP -> SB
L: 1-4 -> L: 5+ -> L: 6-9
$ -> $$ -> $$$$$
 

Bobby1968

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A cam girl I know once described GFE as “a form of extreme method acting” - there is truth there. I think many SDs and SBs have nascent findom tendencies. Give me a $ / SW, a jug of Carlo Rossi and a motel room any night of the week.
 

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Now that sounds like a dandy idea! Which necessary medical procedures are not covered by MSP? Ass implants? Tattoo lasering? Pussy rejuvenation?
Seriously? There are all kinds of medical procedures that are considered elective, and not covered, as well as almost all dental work.
And I never dangle money. I never mentioned any intent to provide cash for anything but her advertised services.

Can't believe anyone would think that her response, or anyone's in a service industry would be normal, or acceptable, especially for a long-term client.
 

Bobby1968

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This is not a normal industry. Technically, it’s a black market prohibited by the state. (Yes, my libertarian streak showing.) My ass implants were costly, but I’ve never looked back.
 
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