ya know, Im not the greatest looking dude in the world, short, kinda gimpy, overweight, yet I've never (cross my fingers) had a bad session yet. Attitude attitude attitude. A little respect goes a long ways.
better service to well-toned/muscular guys?
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bottom line guys, it doesn't matter your age. fuck some of you youngsters come across as so cocky. guess what, they see people better than you...... as long as you have the money, see reputable sp's, you're going to get the best bang for your buck
if you are mature and respectful in demeanor then your maturity age wise (as long as you are legal) doesn't come into play with most SP's.
I've met fellows in their mid-twenties all the way up to their mid sixties who are the epitome of a perfect gentleman. The older ones grew up in a time when chivalry and etiquette were a natural part of the process when it came to interactions with women so they don't see it as any different when they visit an SP, the younger ones have the common sense to know that regardless of what a lady is doing for (or to) you, you treat her well and make her feel respected you will get very favourable results.
Yes, I guess it's right. I haven't been pooning long enough but I received excellent service every time.
I missed all these posts about how being muscular doesn't really affect the level of service you get and went to the gym. Actually, I went to Yoga class. I thought Yoga wouldn't be that hard. But Bikram Yoga is the shit. I found out that my body is not flexible enough to fully do seemingly simple postures. I am now going to continue Yoga classes and probably also do some resistance training at a gym two times a week.
I may not see a difference in level of service, but I am sure I'd be able to perform better and hence enjoy more. I am not a big fan of cowgirl position, and other positions requires lot of energy.
I missed all these posts about how being muscular doesn't really affect the level of service you get and went to the gym. Actually, I went to Yoga class. I thought Yoga wouldn't be that hard. But Bikram Yoga is the shit. I found out that my body is not flexible enough to fully do seemingly simple postures. I am now going to continue Yoga classes and probably also do some resistance training at a gym two times a week.
I may not see a difference in level of service, but I am sure I'd be able to perform better and hence enjoy more. I am not a big fan of cowgirl position, and other positions requires lot of energy.
the fact the young guys are still asking about their looks and maturity, the body and this, the age and that shows you still don't get it. And since you can't get the simplicity of that it means you ain't getting the whole concept. Wait till you mature some more and it will become obvious. If you want those kind of reactions keep screwing 18 yr old girls........
So what?
Also us older bucks tend to have a bit more discretionary income for such interests and can enjoy longer visits and throw more gifts and things
around.
We also may tend to not be as physically demanding as younger guys either, or go for changing positions 20 times in a session....
I dunno...sounded pretty good to me. But then again I'm a balding, middle-aged etc. etc.A lot of generalizations in that statement SNL, that's not like you
Also us older bucks tend to have a bit more discretionary income for such interests and can enjoy longer visits and throw more gifts and things
around.
We also may tend to not be as physically demanding as younger guys either, or go for changing positions 20 times in a session....
Maybe some Sps realize they there client is actaully out of there legue so they treat them slightly worse because they are jelous of the clients looks.
The same Sp would rather deal with a fat old guy cuz he is the one out of the Sps legue which makes him easier to please.
No, its just not what the old guy wanted to hear.If this were true, you wouldn't have asked that question.
Hey wess, let me give it to you from a mans perspective....
You young, dumb, full of cum bums are NO match for us old, bold, don't have to be told, heart of gold gentlemen. Don't worry you'll understand if you grow up.
You know Nina, I think you are pretty swift and I agree with most of your posts including this one for the most part. I think it would be interesting to meet you someday.
The problem is that apart from the treatment you receive because nobody wants to be disrespected, is that we are paying you.
For example: This is a true story, I needed a haircut and was new to the area so I went to a local establishment. They were'nt busy at all so that was great. As I walked in the 2 girls looked at me and the one who was supposed to see me sighed, slumped and tilted her head and looked at her co-worker and said can you do this one?? I was fucking stunned, but I didn't hesitate, I sort of chuckled, shook my head and left....can't remember if I gave them the finger or not....Do you think I returned?
This stuff goes both ways and my point is that of course you want to be treated well and respected, but WE are paying to be treated well and respected....
hahaha, i can out fuck you old bolds any day.Hey wess, let me give it to you from a mans perspective....
You young, dumb, full of cum bums are NO match for us old, bold, don't have to be told, heart of gold gentlemen. Don't worry you'll understand if you grow up.
But seriously there is some guys in there 20s that are wealthier and more mature then guys in there 40s. Thats all.
Hmmm, I don't know ladies, have you talked to your union rep about this? Maybe the Hooker Code of Ethics Handbook needs to be updated?
deslicher, you are paying for sex and her time, I don't think there is any obligation to treat you well or respect you, it's the ones who do that set themselves apart.
I'm sure most guys never think of something like this but imagine a married woman, cheating on her loyal husband, spending the household income, neglecting her husbands needs so she can selfishly indulge her own pleasures. Add to that daily e-mails and phone calls, demands that you satisfy her every desire and fantasy and then criticizes your wanting more money than she thinks you're worth. Judging by the lack of respect that's shown to women all ready I doubt most of us would be willing to treat her well and tell her how great she is.
It's no wonder we pay for sex, most women would never put up with bums like us. Sorry if that offends some guys and you just don't see yourself like that. Tell you what, tell your wife or girlfriend about it and see what she has to say, you'd be surprised how practical women are.
The ladies that do this work deserve a hell of a lot more credit than we give them. They certainly don't deserve to be dehumanized or condescended because of our attempts to demand entitlements. I'd be happy just with the fact they are willing to fuck us, all the other stuff is a bonus and only serves to prove they are worth every penny we pay them.
Holy Crap, you're talking about yourself right?!? Cause you ain't talkin about me. I'm single so you could have saved yourself the trouble.
Oh and okay so I'm paying for her "time" well I would like that "time" to be pleasant is all I'm saying. I'm sure there are assholes out there who will be rude or disrespectful, I'm just not one of them, but I am very assertive and clear on how I want to be treated.
So why would I want to pay for an experience that is unpleasant?? I'm just pointing out that respect is a 2 way street. Fuck man do ya think I make a habit of spending 300$ to be treated badly??.....as much as I find Mistress T absolutely hot, I probably wouldn't see her unless she offered a more gf fs type of service. To each there own, but I actually think more men need to grow nuts and stand up for themselves while being respectful and kind at the same time.....it is possible you know.
Oh and okay so I'm paying for her "time" well I would like that "time" to be pleasant is all I'm saying. I'm sure there are assholes out there who will be rude or disrespectful, I'm just not one of them, but I am very assertive and clear on how I want to be treated.
So why would I want to pay for an experience that is unpleasant?? I'm just pointing out that respect is a 2 way street. Fuck man do ya think I make a habit of spending 300$ to be treated badly??.....as much as I find Mistress T absolutely hot, I probably wouldn't see her unless she offered a more gf fs type of service. To each there own, but I actually think more men need to grow nuts and stand up for themselves while being respectful and kind at the same time.....it is possible you know.
Hmmm, I don't know ladies, have you talked to your union rep about this? Maybe the Hooker Code of Ethics Handbook needs to be updated?
deslicher, you are paying for sex and her time, I don't think there is any obligation to treat you well or respect you, it's the ones who do that set themselves apart.
I'm sure most guys never think of something like this but imagine a married woman, cheating on her loyal husband, spending the household income, neglecting her husbands needs so she can selfishly indulge her own pleasures. Add to that daily e-mails and phone calls, demands that you satisfy her every desire and fantasy and then criticizes your wanting more money than she thinks you're worth. Judging by the lack of respect that's shown to women all ready I doubt most of us would be willing to treat her well and tell her how great she is.
It's no wonder we pay for sex, most women would never put up with bums like us. Sorry if that offends some guys and you just don't see yourself like that. Tell you what, tell your wife or girlfriend about it and see what she has to say, you'd be surprised how practical women are.
The ladies that do this work deserve a hell of a lot more credit than we give them. They certainly don't deserve to be dehumanized or condescended because of our attempts to demand entitlements. I'd be happy just with the fact they are willing to fuck us, all the other stuff is a bonus and only serves to prove they are worth every penny we pay them.
You are a guy seeking a female sp, right??
In short, if a guy shows up and the sp doesn't go ooohh and aaahhh how handsome, I guess it is possible that the good-looking guy might feel slightly miffed. Chances are, though, that she has encountered dozens of guys just like him who think they are entitled due to their looks for better prices or more "stuff" simply as a thank you for showing up. If you are young and good-looking and you encounter something like this from an sp, blame the young goodlooking guys who came before you. Because they were jackasses, you will have to work a little harder to show that you aren't one too.
And if you are a young goodlooking guy without manners, stick to the young goodlooking sps with no manners. You can take turns checking yourselves out in the mirrors, and probably neither one will notice how the other one treats them.
I had one client, an older gentlemen turning 50 seeing me for his mid-life birthday present, with whom I had a great talk about this very topic. He had great stamina but didn't last too long, was a wonderful lover who focussed equally on both of our pleasure, and was ready to go again pretty damn quick. I of course had to comment on this...
He told me that when he was in his early 20's he was full of zest, wanted to please, had a lot of energy, good health, was a great lover, etc. Then in his late 20's and early 30's he was a bad lover, little libido, difficult to stay hard, etc. And then in his 40's it all came roaring back to him.
I told him that one of the reasons I found the transition to being an SP easy was because as I was getting older and dating guys in their late 20's and early 30's, I was starting to notice the same trend! I would be all excited and turned on and then would be disappointed in the bedroom. I missed the young guys but felt weird trying to date someone 5-8 years younger and was equally not interested in dating someone 15 years older.
So I thought hey, why not?! But the funny thing is, something that was unexpected is that this work has taught me how to enjoy items other than sex. And I mean, really enjoy them. I was too impatient before to consider a night a great success if the guy used his hands on me, and it was great, but then the sex wasn't as good. So part of the sex not being great was the pressure that I put on my late 20's / early 30's partners. Now, I am totally satisfied with those hands, or even just a massage. I've learned patience in the bedroom and I've also learned to enjoy a lot of different types of experiences.
This was a bit of an aside, I apologize, but it's still related because these are the reasons everyone receives the same service and it's related to the few posts above...With every client it is a different experience and as long as you are not expecting every encounter to mimic the last they can all reach the same level of enjoyment.
He told me that when he was in his early 20's he was full of zest, wanted to please, had a lot of energy, good health, was a great lover, etc. Then in his late 20's and early 30's he was a bad lover, little libido, difficult to stay hard, etc. And then in his 40's it all came roaring back to him.
I told him that one of the reasons I found the transition to being an SP easy was because as I was getting older and dating guys in their late 20's and early 30's, I was starting to notice the same trend! I would be all excited and turned on and then would be disappointed in the bedroom. I missed the young guys but felt weird trying to date someone 5-8 years younger and was equally not interested in dating someone 15 years older.
So I thought hey, why not?! But the funny thing is, something that was unexpected is that this work has taught me how to enjoy items other than sex. And I mean, really enjoy them. I was too impatient before to consider a night a great success if the guy used his hands on me, and it was great, but then the sex wasn't as good. So part of the sex not being great was the pressure that I put on my late 20's / early 30's partners. Now, I am totally satisfied with those hands, or even just a massage. I've learned patience in the bedroom and I've also learned to enjoy a lot of different types of experiences.
This was a bit of an aside, I apologize, but it's still related because these are the reasons everyone receives the same service and it's related to the few posts above...With every client it is a different experience and as long as you are not expecting every encounter to mimic the last they can all reach the same level of enjoyment.
