Perused a recent thread where a client compares escorts to cabs. Necessary, not unappreciated but wouldn't want one parked in his driveway. Aw man, that is sad!
So boys and girls, what image comes to mind about the service you offer/anticipate?
The unique and exciting element of purchased sexual company might not be as much about
prime feminine flesh primped and putting-out as the media likes to suggest.
A considerably more unique and exciting aspect of purchased sex happens when
a male client enjoys the rare treat of being in an environment where (just about)
any woman would agree to fuck him. Only a tiny percentage of the male population thinks highly enough of themselves to have ever believed that about
real-life social scenes.
For this reason, the on-street trade and places like the bar at the Mustang Ranch offer an environment that independent, indoor SP's cannot manufacture. This is also a central element to the appeal of PERB, as we are in an arena where women are (perceived to be) represented individually in a group setting where the male mind is free to pick and choose his next "date".
Most women are taught early how easy it is to seduce a man and yet the working girl media spends more time advertising tape measure details than doing much of anything to seduce a man's mind.
Craigslist is a perfect, modern example of this: In most ads there is a photo or four, and brief data relating to measurements and contact info. The dumbest lines (the headline, or come-on ad in the main "Erotic Services" section of CL) in the world represent the front door to these women whose living depends on drawing men through that front door.
Then they don't lift a finger to negotiate with a man's mind once he's inside.
If your picture isn't either downright stunning or clearly indicative of your sultry, almost slutty nature, then guys are going to keep looking elsewhere.
*** consider the evolution of an evening when a man is going out to cruise the strip fully intent on selecting a working girl for sex later.
If you could attach some measure of his mental intrigue and NON-sexual excitement about the evening, it would begin with a somewhat low reading, before gaining considerable excitement once he observed prime candidates on their corners. Whether approaching by car or on foot, the height of this intensity seems to occur right at the point where an agreement (stated verbally or not) is made for her to accompany him off to wherever they will do the deed.
She gets in the car, and there is a mildly-nervous familiarity with the eventual routine to follow, but I sense the height to be as the deal/agreement is being made. Beyond that there is a generally followed procedure, for sure, but there is a much different intensity with sexual climax than there is with the excitement which brought it on.
Perhaps most working girls could equate what I'm trying to explain with their being picked-up at a bar
in real life for what shall evolve to be an oft-practiced routine (of a guy trying to negotiate his way into her pants, for free... perhaps with a visit to a bachelor pad, and nervous small-talk along the way). Whether or not that woman wants to have (free) sex with that guy on that night will certainly dictate the end result, but something happens in the area of human intensity while the negotiation is ongoing that leads up to her accepting an invitation first to his car and then back to his place.
but this is what comes to mind when i wanna play:
