I thought about that too. Then I thought with infidelity rates over 50% do most people also use condoms with their S.O.? At what point in a relationship do you stop using condoms? What is the risk rate if you don't use condoms? Has the problem become greater in Canada with the influx of immigrants coming from countries where condoms are rarely if ever used?To “thetruth “ I hope you forgot to say you wore a condom?
Otherwise what were you thinking? Not only for your self but for the young lady!
Yup, you just may become a daddy, leave out the sugar
& why would you even post that on here.
Average length of sugar baby relationship?
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Risk rate questions are best answered at your local STI testing clinic.
But when it comes to relationships, that’s a hard question to answer. Life experience has taught me...Some people are incapable (or unwilling) of being honest even when in open relationships. Liar fetishists, perhaps? It boggles my mind.
And some of these guys will even run around town sticking their bare dicks into anything that moves while professing monogamy.
^^I’m not holding any current grudges against any men. Thankfully all the stupid fuckery is in the distant past. Live and learn.
They're curating an image, and whether you'd be willing to tolerate the truth of something other than that image is irrelevant to their desire to have you see them the way they want to be seen.
I don't have a lot of experience with SA, only on my 2nd SB. I prefer to have a relationship with 1 SB at a time (obviously for cost purposes) provided that we get along and things are smooth and easy. I imagine that an average time of a relationship would vary from 1 month to 2. I been out of the dating scene for years and unsure how to behave. I like my current SB but I find it that i always have to make the effort in this relationship. I don't know what's normal in this arrangement, I thought that talking between meets is normal ( maybe every 3 days or so) and meets are arranged in accordance to both parties schedule. She is very young and doesn't have much experience in relationship and this is her first arrangement. I'm patient but I hate to be the one constantly taking the initiative. I am debating if it's time to move on. I just hate going through the process of getting a new SB through SA, it gives me a headache even thinking about it. What you guys think?
What I find strange is that SPs like Miss Hunter and Clementine are cutting themselves short in these comments. The SBs being discussed have little to no experience, don’t have the level of conversation skills, knowing how each man wants to be treated, seduction and sexual skills but they are arguing they should get paid the same. Like any job you start at the bottom and you work your way up. This isn’t about the value of the person because you don’t put a price on that it’s the value of the skills they bring to the table. I’ve tried delving into this area and most of the women on those sites don’t have a clue about sugaring. Some men don’t have a problem paying less for less experience. He saves a few bucks and she gets some experience and then she can negotiate better rates. Pretty standard stuff in any occupation.
Well said JD.I should start by saying that I have never used/belonged to a sugar daddy site. Mostly because my financial situation does not allow for what I understand are higher rates than the 30 min rates I usually pay for SPs I find on this site.
Having said that, I don't believe you can compare what ladies charge per hour on a SP site like LL to "evening" rate a SB might charge. The reason being is that SBs, I strongly suspect, for the mot part do not see themselves as a SP. They join a SB/SD site because they enjoy sex, are sexually liberated, and think why not have an older boyfriend with money that can buy them gifts and take them on trips, etc. Clem mentioned earlier in this thread that she and her friends started into this industry as SBs. From my conversations with some young ladies in the company of other of their friends, it appears that being a SB has MUCH less stigma attached than being an SP. Therefore where SPs see this industry as purely a business (with the side benefit of lots of fantastic sex - I can only speak for my own experiences lol ) SBs see themselves more like having a rich (relative to their financial situation) boyfriend. And therefore spending 4 hours with their rich boyfriend that throws them $300 to $500 is a very good deal compared to doing the same with a poor boyfriend that spends $50 on dinner, if they are lucky, throws them no $$$ and still gets 4 hours of their time with sex thrown in.
Over time, of course, the majority of SBs come to realize that in fact it is a business and some eventually evolve to becoming a full blowSP. With that evolution comes the realization that "time is money" and they move to an hourly rate from an "evening" rate.
Just my perception of the difference between SPs and SBs and therefore the difference between hourly rate and evening rate
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Common sense and rational thought, brought into a discussion filled with unnecessary anger, and accusations. I have seen some SBs, no two arrangements were the same. The last couple started off as trips, where I covered the costs such as flights, accommodation, meals, and extras we did, for example parasailing, fishing, tours. There was no actual money exchanging hands. They after the trip, asked to see me again on an ongoing basis. These young ladies also gain a lot more than just getting money, or a free vacation. They get to hang out with cool men who share the wisdom of their years, experiences, and are not immature punks like the boys their age...I've been told this by every one of them i have seen. Many 19-27 year old girls, don't want to date boys their age, and deal with their BS and immaturity. Not to mention that those boys likely can't afford to take them on an amazing vacation, if they can pry themselves away from their video games long enough to even listen to the girl, and hear how she would like to go on a vacation. I turn 42 in a couple of days, and I listen to them, and see them as more than just someone who serves me food and drinks while I sit on the couch playing some stupid video game. I'm also not scared of public displays of affection, so we go for walks holding hands, or hold hands across the table at a restaurant, or she can sit on my lap in the hotel jacuzzi. The last one told me she couldn't do that with any boy she dated, and she was treated like a maid/server. He didn't care what she thought or wanted. He would never take her on a trip even within BC, much less to an exotic tropical location. I also taught her many things about life and people, and when she asked if we could go parasailing or fishing I made arrangements to do them. When she would ask if we could go for a walk, we did just that. On the walk when she took my hand, i didn't pull it away like she had the plague. When she leaned in and kissed me, I kissed her back...i didn't get angry at her for interfering with the video game. When she joined me in the shower, when done having sex, I gently washed her from head to toe. Many of these young ladies crave a man in their life, not some young punk who doesn't listen or care about anyone but themselves.
That’s why I miss the CL days of adult gigs. Can’t tell you how many decent women I met on there years ago for $2-300, no clock watching, no rushing off to see some other dude, just normal women looking for a little extra scratch to pay for something without any feeling of taking advantage of anyone. If anything, I find most SP’s are the ones taking advantage of us by charging us what doctors and lawyers make after a decade of schooling, just for the privilege of being graced with their presence. Nuts.
I’m curious about SA but I’m just leery of the paper trail and anonymity of it all. I mean do guys have to post their photos too?
I’m curious about SA but I’m just leery of the paper trail and anonymity of it all. I mean do guys have to post their photos too?
I have participated in Seeking Arrangement on and off for a quite a number of years and it is my prerogative to negotiate a price that I am comfortable with and that the girl is happy with as well. If it is below "market" value that's between her and me and no one is being taken advantage of as both parties are happy with the arrangement.
Saying that I have been burned more than a few times with girls bailing after one meet and me paying them for more or just being ghosted by girls after awhile even though I have helped them out.
Saying that I have been burned more than a few times with girls bailing after one meet and me paying them for more or just being ghosted by girls after awhile even though I have helped them out.
There are a few gems out there but you have to sift through Sugar Flakes who pull no shows and flat out scammers. It could be cleaned up if there was a forum to review SB’s.
I’ve seen one SB once a week since July and will continue seeing her.
I’ve seen a couple three times and a couple of one night stands. A couple of them are worthy of a repeat but have since become Sugar Flakes.
I’ve seen one SB once a week since July and will continue seeing her.
I’ve seen a couple three times and a couple of one night stands. A couple of them are worthy of a repeat but have since become Sugar Flakes.
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