The confidenciality nature of seeing an SP.
Is that to say...it's about more than just the money?
Is that to say...it's about more than just the money?
That's what I find refreshing and curious about Dom's.
They are obviously getting a lot out of a session as well.
Of course terms must be met and there's an understanding of enterprise.
But I'm not as worried making sure she is enjoying herself, she's gonna make damn sure she is pleased, I like that.
I think that in this process you are REALLY starting to find yourself, HB. The way you write has changed so much over the past while and I thonk it's awes[me the way you express your thoughts and feelings. I see a lot of change coming for you and you're brave enough to embrace it. I both admire as well as envy that.I wasn’t trying to suggest its one sided at all. I’m still learning but from what I understand the Dom gets pleasure and satisfaction herself, it’s usually demanded is it not? And with the more sadistic Dom’s the pleasure they get seems obvious. I would trust that when a sub is so willing to concede vulnerability the Dom would desire to fulfill and meet his needs, to make him happy.
My intent with regular SP’s is always for an eagerness to please, it may be ego or just an affirmation of my own worth, but the satisfaction comes from a mutual enjoyment. In those types of encounters the mystery remains whether she is actually enjoying the experience. The girls who do best to persuade me of this are always my favorite.
The money is a forethought and really has no bearing for me once the session starts.
My thought is, with a Dom the desire for me to please her is required, but not as if it’s my responsibility so to speak. She will ensure her own pleasure despite my shortcomings(no pun intended). So my goal is guaranteed, and with that assurance my experience should always be fulfilling. If she not only gets pleasure from my submission but also my joy then what a bonus. You’re right, it is win win. But ultimately it is all about me, I like it when everybody’s happy.
NOTE: Katlyn, I read your other post. I appreciate your candor and willingness to continue during your situation. I hope everything works out well and you get back to what you/we love. The "Good sexy no-sex times" still sounds pretty awesome and VFM.
Thanks trackstar!
Thanks trackstar!
I am learning alot about myself. And despite my obvious curiousity to be beaten to a pleasured pulp; I find this BDSM section very liberating. People are more open and accepting, I can express myself without fear of judgement or ridicule.
But lets stop with the Dickhead stuff, I think folks are getting the wrong impression of me.
Only if you take our bantering seriously. Some things you joke about, some you don't. When a person takes a chance to open like this, the joking stops and we show sincerity. Not much else to it really.
LMAO
Which would be like Febreeze compared to his usual odorLMAO
I thought it was more Monty Python..."And now for something completely different"
But don't worry, we're not getting that friendly, I will still fart in his general direction.
Thank you trackstar, your words were gracious and touched my heart. I consider you a friend. It did take a bit to warm up to you though.Just to clear the air for some of you, obviously you see a lot of banter between Hubba, HB and I. If you take a look back, nothing we say to each other is mean or below the belt, nor do you see any of us take each others shots personally, nor get pissed off about them. We give a jab as good as we take it on the chin. Always have liked these two and have had many laughs with them.
On the other side of things, seeing HB indulge in this side of things is new. He posts sincerely about trying new experiences that leaves him open to the judgments of those that find this lifestyle to be weird or wrong, yet he still remains open and speaks his mind. For both this and his sense of humour, I hold him in high regard.
For Hubba, I would personally like to mentor him in the lifestyle. We will begin with brick in the chops and foot in the ass play!
Ugh, you're so right...next thing you know we'll be having tea and comparing head harnesses.Seems HB40 & TS have turned it into an "I luv ya man" thread.
Who would have guessed it?
I've just checked your website. Nice.Hey boys, I am learning all about fetishes and while I am not what I would consider a domme yet I have enjoyed the few fetish appointments I've had thus far. I am comfortable with some role play, foot worship, toy shows (I don't think this is really fetish but thought I'd mention it) and am open to many other things. Also I'm a squirter but it's not something I can control and I only do it about 75% of the time. I even have a strap on but it is a rather large size as it's meant for vaginal sex so maybe I will have to get another thinner one
Anyway, if you're interested in booking with me please see my website to see my photos, etc. I am new to escorting and thus am nowhere near as knowledgeable as pretty much all of the other ladies when it comes to this stuff. But if you are okay with me learning as I go, here I am
~ Katlyn Lacey ~
Perhaps this is the difference between SPs who do "dom services", and... pro-dommes.
Well... here is just one example.Could be.....
wow, what an unecessary jab
whatever value She places on her time, efforts, and skill is Her own perogative and is certainly not something that should be dictated by you or some fabled "status quo" on rates. As trackstar had previously stated perhaps you should quit your bitching and visit the Domme that you previously linked to, or perhaps you can start a lifelong journey searching for a Domme that has toonie tuesday specials or hands out coupons with the weekly paper.
