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[Katlyn]

Hey boys, I am learning all about fetishes and while I am not what I would consider a domme yet I have enjoyed the few fetish appointments I've had thus far. I am comfortable with some role play, foot worship, toy shows (I don't think this is really fetish but thought I'd mention it) and am open to many other things. Also I'm a squirter but it's not something I can control and I only do it about 75% of the time. I even have a strap on but it is a rather large size as it's meant for vaginal sex so maybe I will have to get another thinner one I am not available for urination, feces, pearl necklaces or facials however.

Anyway, if you're interested in booking with me please see my website to see my photos, etc. I am new to escorting and thus am nowhere near as knowledgeable as pretty much all of the other ladies when it comes to this stuff. But if you are okay with me learning as I go, here I am

~ Katlyn Lacey ~
http://www.companionkatlyn.com

 

[trackstar]

Something tells me you're gonna be a natural Have fun on the journey

 

[HB40]

while I am not what I would consider a domme yet

I was just wondering, how does one become a domme?
Kendra mentioned being trained by a master. Is specialized training necessary or can you just learn as you go?

 

[Katlyn]

both but being trained would be better I think

I will never be a true domme but I like to be in control so I enjoy some of the stuff

 

[DominaPandora]

I was just wondering, how does one become a domme?
Kendra mentioned being trained by a master. Is specialized training necessary or can you just learn as you go?

There are many ways in which Dommes are born. Some are trained by a Master / Mistress. Some are born by trial and fire and start as subs, experiencing and learning over many years. Some are simply natural and learn through action. The latter, few are successful unless they seek out someone with experience to guide them through the dangers / safety protocols or avoid the fetishes that can cause harm. However, the few of these that do succeed can rival even the best trained Dom, they are rare.

Welcome, Katlyn. Never doubt yourself and your possibilities, plenty of others will be happy to do that for you. laughs. If you have any questions, I'm sure many here will be happy to assist.

 

[HB40]

both but being trained would be better I think

Thanks Katlyn, I can tell how smart you are so I suspect you'll be a pro in no time. I hope we can meet one day, I'm still learning how to be a good sub.
But yeah, get a slimmer strap on please.

 

[Katlyn]

awww for a bdsm forum you all are pretty sweet

 

[trackstar]

awww for a bdsm forum you all are pretty sweet

It's all out of fear K. You see, you girls inflict pain during a session. No smart person would want to act the fool before a session. Hate to see one of the heels slip in the wrong place

 

[MissJasmine]

awww for a bdsm forum you all are pretty sweet

Welcome to the darker side Katlyn. With your looks and attitude I'm sure you will do well in the bdsm realm. When I first started I thought I had so much to learn as well, but as I gain more experience I still feel the same way.

I still try things for the first time, all the time (like today), and expanding horizons is what its all about. Best of luck!

p.s. Tip #1 is invest in several strap on sizes

 

[jackryan02]

p.s. Tip #1 is invest in several strap on sizes

Strangely enough, your post made me think of a xylophone

 

[mistressfreyja]

Hey Katlyn, and welcome!

awww for a bdsm forum you all are pretty sweet

Honey, we are friendly and nice, cuz this is a lifestyle. That means lose the pretension and internet 'reality farce' and this is all very real. How one incorporates this into daily life, means getting rid of the rigid 'rules' and making it work for yourself as an individual.

None of us wanted to have rigid rules, in the first place, if we joined this lifestyle.

Anyway, a very WARM welcome. I'm glad you've had positive experiences thus far, and I hope it continues.

Please feel free to PM me with any questions.

Be well!

xoxo Mistress Freyja.

 

[mistressfreyja]

Mmmm....

It's all out of fear K. You see, you girls inflict pain during a session. No smart person would want to act the fool before a session. Hate to see one of the heels slip in the wrong place

Heels are good.

 

[mistressfreyja]

Misconception.

It's all out of fear K. You see, you girls inflict pain during a session. No smart person would want to act the fool before a session. Hate to see one of the heels slip in the wrong place

TS: not every session includes ANY form of pain.

My foot fetish sessions involve pleasure on both ends. There is so much to do that is sensual and not involving pain at all. I base my sessions on the input that I receive from the client. Tailor-made to their interests. If you aren't into pain, for example, I'm not going to force upon you, to "be a domme."

I'm already a Domina. I'm not looking for reassurance.

I want positive experiences. If this involves me caning you, then I am MORE than happy to.

But, if you're not into pain, then let me tie up your cock and balls. Let me make you aware of your genitals, as I play with myself. You become hard...but it's a tease. You can smell, can almost taste...wish you could touch, wishing harder you could lick.

Pain is NOT necessary. And neither is Humiliation (though one of my fav things to do with the willing).

There is so much sensual play to be explored. And pain is NOT a pre-req. Common misconception.

xxx Mistress Freyja xxx

 

[jackryan02]

Let me make you aware of your genitals, as I play with myself. You become hard...but it's a tease. You can smell, can almost taste...wish you could touch, wishing harder you could lick.

This portion of your message really intrigued me. Can you explain what you mean by "aware of your genitals?"

 

[mistressfreyja]

Aware of genitals...

This portion of your message really intrigued me. Can you explain what you mean by "aware of your genitals?"

Basically, it's sensory heightening. If your cock and balls are 'tied up,' per se, then you are extremely aware of what is going on with them. Any sensory experience in that region is cognizant by you.

Same as putting on nipple clamps. It doesn't have to be painful. But it coagulates the blood there, increasing blood flow/circulation. Thereby you have more sensation.

I took my first reflexology course last night, and it was on hands. But a lot of the warm-up is simply increasing circulation to the region. Which is indicative of a more sensuous experience.

Hope this answers your question.

xoxo Mistress Freyja.

 

[jackryan02]

Basically, it's sensory heightening. If your cock and balls are 'tied up,' per se, then you are extremely aware of what is going on with them. Any sensory experience in that region is cognizant by you.

Same as putting on nipple clamps. It doesn't have to be painful. But it coagulates the blood there, increasing blood flow/circulation. Thereby you have more sensation.

I took my first reflexology course last night, and it was on hands. But a lot of the warm-up is simply increasing circulation to the region. Which is indicative of a more sensuous experience.

Hope this answers your question.

xoxo Mistress Freyja.

It does. And sometimes an answer raises more questions

 

[mistressfreyja]

Please ask.

It does. And sometimes an answer raises more questions

I'm open to answering further questions. I don't claim to know all the answers. But there is method to our 'madness.'

 

[edmontonsubbie]

I'm open to answering further questions. I don't claim to know all the answers. But there is method to our 'madness.'

asking questions...seeking clarity...not being ashamed to admit the dirty little thoughts...knowing and being confident that....everyone has had dirty thoughts.

It is wonderful to meet the one to whom you can admit the rawest thoughts of your soul. The best part of doing that with a "professional"...is that you know those thoughts will never be repeated nor used against you. It's just a monetary exchange....even if it is more.

 

[Katlyn]

really enjoying reading these so keep it going

I am just chirping in here to say that I have reduced my menu temporarily to not include fs...for at least a few weeks and so I have reduced my rates to $100-$250 depending on the service. The info is in the advertisers forum for anyone who cares

 

[mistressfreyja]

I would say...

asking questions...seeking clarity...not being ashamed to admit the dirty little thoughts...knowing and being confident that....everyone has had dirty thoughts.

It is wonderful to meet the one to whom you can admit the rawest thoughts of your soul. The best part of doing that with a "professional"...is that you know those thoughts will never be repeated nor used against you. It's just a monetary exchange....even if it is more.

It's more, even though it's a monetary exchange.