Attractive fit white male

[dchoye]

I have a question about this phrase, and I’m hoping to get the ladies' opinions as well as guys.

Many SP's ads and websites specifically ask for a potential client to tell her their ethnicity up front, and others want an introduction and “tell me a bit about yourself” I’ve always assumed that they wanted a potential client to include general things like my age, hight, weight etc… including my ethnicity, because they have personal preferences about who they see.

But I’ve also seen ladies on social media, and in a recent thread about contacting SP's, disparage the phrase “fit white male” like it's some kind of red flag for them when they see it from a potential client. What is it about the phrase that strikes a wrong chord? I know claiming to be attractive is in the eye of the beholder.

So should a guy include that kind of thing in an introductory communication or not?

I think some read “fit white male” and interpreted it as “man of entitlement” Better to describe yourself as generous, respectful, hygienic. I find those qualities score more points

 

[LADY-LYRAH]

talk about 'triggering', lol

Blessed be. 😊

 

[Harmony-bc]

I’m looking for nice, respectful gents that respect and like women, especially sex workers. Attractive fit white male doesn’t tell me you’re safe. It tells me you’re a bit vain, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing but is a bit useless as an introductory message. Of course a guy could definitely lie so I have a few other checks in place to tell if I want to give my address.

 

[MB Mod]

Okay that’s enough, this thread is done.

 

[Forum mod]

That's enough of a slide into racism to shut this down.