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[Throatman69]

Looking to have my first escort experience soon. A few questions:

1. In Metro Van what is the etiquette for tipping escorts? Should I tip? Is it expected? How much? Percent based or set dollar amount?
2. I plan to show up squeaky clean, but I understand some providers want you to shower at their incall. Does this shower count towards your time?
3. What is the proper way to make payment? Is crisp bills in the open okay? Does it have to be in an envelop? Do they ask for it at the beginning of the session or should I offer it up?

 

[LC18]

Looking to have my first escort experience soon. A few questions:

1. In Metro Van what is the etiquette for tipping escorts? Should I tip? Is it expected? How much? Percent based or set dollar amount?
2. I plan to show up squeaky clean, but I understand some providers want you to shower at their incall. Does this shower count towards your time?
3. What is the proper way to make payment? Is crisp bills in the open okay? Does it have to be in an envelop? Do they ask for it at the beginning of the session or should I offer it up?

In Metro Van what is the etiquette for tipping escorts? Should I tip? Is it expected? How much? Percent based or set dollar amount?
I will let others answer as I don’t live there, I only tour there.

I plan to show up squeaky clean, but I understand some providers want you to shower at their incall. Does this shower count towards your time?
It’s part of the time you paid for so I suggest you don’t go into deep cleaning mode. Take a good shower at home and refresh at the incall. Focus on the sensitive areas. This will have a direct influence on the service you’ll receive

What is the proper way to make payment? Is crisp bills in the open okay? Does it have to be in an envelop? Do they ask for it at the beginning of the session or should I offer it up?
An envelope just makes it less awkward but you don’t need one. Larger bills are preferred to make it easier to count. After making sure the person is who you booked and not a catfish, please proceed with payment. I don’t know about others but I hate having to remind the client to pay, it feels like he’s trying to see if I’ll forget and if he can get away without paying.

 

[Bridge]

Would an SP be offended if I asked her to leave her phone someplace else during a session?

Nothing turns my throbbing rail spike into a wet noodle faster than when a lady grabs and scrolls through her phone while servicing me.

This has become a huge problem in the conservative bible belt where I live.

Dead Sea Scrolls??

 

[Larry's Torch]

Dead Sea Scrolls??

Dead Sea Scrolling?

 

[MikeyLikey99]

I don’t know how long you’ve been doing this, but have you noticed any shift in your attitude or worldview over time that could be attributed to your job?

The reason that I ask is I’ve noticed online, and in some one-to-one communications, that some service providers appear to view the world extremely transactionally. Much more than other professionals that I deal with. I’m guessing it’s because people keep pushing boundaries and asking for more and more so there is some hypersensitivity around it. I’m probably not explaining things very well here. Hopefully you get what I mean.

by the way, I think it’s awesome that you’re doing this! Thank you so much for giving people your perspective and answers 🙏😍

 

[LC18]

I don’t know how long you’ve been doing this, but have you noticed any shift in your attitude or worldview over time that could be attributed to your job?

The reason that I ask is I’ve noticed online, and in some one-to-one communications, that some service providers appear to view the world extremely transactionally. Much more than other professionals that I deal with. I’m guessing it’s because people keep pushing boundaries and asking for more and more so there is some hypersensitivity around it. I’m probably not explaining things very well here. Hopefully you get what I mean.

by the way, I think it’s awesome that you’re doing this! Thank you so much for giving people your perspective and answers 🙏😍

I don’t know how long you’ve been doing this, but have you noticed any shift in your attitude or worldview over time that could be attributed to your job?

Thank you! Yes, I’m no longer interested in free first date. Going on a walk in a park for a first date is no longer acceptable to me. This job made me meet men that would come to me with flowers, chocolates, gifts for our first date so it’s very difficult for me to take Tinder dates seriously when they can barely offer a coffee date.

It’s not about the spending/transaction but about the effort.

Other than that, being a companion reinforced the “don’t judge a book by its cover” saying to me. There’s so many men I wouldn’t have met if I hadn’t overlooked their appearance.

 

[LC18]

Do SWs even like men?

Do SWs even like men?

That’s an interesting question. I remember a few years ago reading on Twitter that an American escort came out as a lesbian. Not bi, not pan but lesbian. She said she would still keep seeing men.

I am in a few group chats with fellow SW and I can say that yes, they love men but a lot of them are really scared by them. I cannot blame them, I have seen some very threatening, creepy, stalkerish emails.

 

[Lets Review]

Do SWs even like men?

That’s an interesting question. I remember a few years ago reading on Twitter that an American escort came out as a lesbian. Not bi, not pan but lesbian. She said she would still keep seeing men.

I am in a few group chats with fellow SW and I can say that yes, they love men but a lot of them are really scared by them. I cannot blame them, I have seen some very threatening, creepy, stalkerish emails.

My reply was in reaction to a question in another thread. Please do not use it as though I had asked the question in this thread. It may seem inconsequential to you, but this is exactly the type of thing that leads to mistaken assumptions about a person's posting history.

 

[LC18]

My reply was in reaction to a question in another thread. Please do not use it as though I had asked the question in this thread. It may seem inconsequential to you, but this is exactly the type of thing that leads to mistaken assumptions about a person's posting history.

It’s an interesting question and I am sure it will be easier for other SPs to answer it on here. I quoted it anyways so people can see the original thread. Thank you!

 

[Pornholio]

Question. If and when you ladies book a duo, i'd imagine chemistry between the two of you is off the utmost importance, or do you Just go with the flow? I imagine it can be alot of fun for everyone or quite awkward if you 2 are not sympatico.
I've heard of epic once in a lifetime experience to lame, I'll never do that again.

I've done both non industry 3 some with a exotic dancer that I was dating and another dancer (they were more into each other more and started dating each other after and broke.up with me) and a booking when I first started this hobby, with non interactive aunty Asian pair that kept swapping condoms for cbj. Terrible
Thoughts?

 

[littleasiancock]

is it okay if a client brings his own condoms? sometimes the regular ones dont fit me.

 

[westwoody]

is it okay if a client brings his own condoms? sometimes the regular ones dont fit me.

Maybe if she can examine it first, and it is in a sealed factory wrapper.
I’ve heard lots of stories about guys using condoms they have put holes in. Some guys are obsessed with doing stupid shit like that, thinking it’s a “prank”.

 

[LC18]

Question. If and when you ladies book a duo, i'd imagine chemistry between the two of you is off the utmost importance, or do you Just go with the flow? I imagine it can be alot of fun for everyone or quite awkward if you 2 are not sympatico.
I've heard of epic once in a lifetime experience to lame, I'll never do that again.

I've done both non industry 3 some with a exotic dancer that I was dating and another dancer (they were more into each other more and started dating each other after and broke.up with me) and a booking when I first started this hobby, with non interactive aunty Asian pair that kept swapping condoms for cbj. Terrible
Thoughts?

If and when you ladies book a duo, i'd imagine chemistry between the two of you is off the utmost importance, or do you Just go with the flow?
There are a few providers I will not have a duo with because we have different values or I know they do things I don’t condone. There’s no amount of money that will make me accept the duo.


I cannot comment on the second half of your post as I believe this goes against the rules of this forum.

 

[LC18]

is it okay if a client brings his own condoms? sometimes the regular ones dont fit me.

is it okay if a client brings his own condoms?
I offer a wide range at my incall in Montreal but when I travel I cannot possibly bring them all by lack of space. I would have to take a look at it before using it.

 

[strider65]

How many clients do you seek in a good week? Are there days when u wish for a different job?

 

[burninggirl]

What is the sweetest thing a client has done for you?

I recently had a client bring me a $100 gift card for a local yarn store, after finding out that I love knitting.

 

[burninggirl]

Has anyone you know in your personal life booked you? if so, did you go through with it?

I once made a new friend and then met her husband after a few hangouts. Turns out we were already acquainted....

I never told her and I'm pretty sure he didn't either.

 

[MikeyLikey99]

When you do a reference check, what sort of questions do you ask?

 

[VanCityNewb]

I like it both ways.... I love indulging fantasies, but I also really enjoy organic unscripted exploration.

One funny story is that I have a client that I have been seeing for two years. We never ever ever kissed..... Which is sad for me because I love kissing. But then one day a few months ago he asked me for a duo (I work with my best friend). When they greeted, she immediately went in for a kiss. They started making out and I was shocked to find out that this entire time he also loved kissing but had been too shy to initiate (and back when we first met I was a new and not-so-confident escort), so it never happened.

Now I get to very happily kiss him when I see him, but I can't believe it took us two years of regular visits to figure it out.

That is pretty funny, lol

 

[TallDark&Handsome]

I tried dating for a few months but he was so unsecure that I will leave him for someone else that I just ended the relationship. Too much stress!
I will not quit for a boyfriend or a fiancé. I may quit for my husband if he really have ALL the criteria.

did you allow him to sleep with other woman while you two were dating?
What criteria would that husband need to have?