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it’s quite an insightful thread to read.
Thanks for posting.
In April I took my daughter to the west Edmonton mall for their birthday, and while I was there someome pickpocketed my 2 Swarovski crystal bracelets. I posted about it on my twitter, and around a month afterwards I had a client come in who saw the bracelets in a photo of mine, and bought a replacement of one of the stolen bracelets. It was such a thoughtful & generous gesture.
Yes, I have had 3 people who had crushes on me in my personal life book appointments with me. Yes I went through with it, and each time they told me who they were prior to booking.
I have never counted how many people I have slept with in my personal life. Definitely no where close to as many in my professional life as an escort.
I have not had any celebrities book with me, but I have had well known people in the entertainment industry I would say not celebrities have though.
No. I would say I have clients I truly care about, and some where we just seem to have a great connection, some where I have felt quite attracted to them, but not where I have “the feels”.
No I have not had a boyfriend since escorting.
No I would not quit escorting if I found someone to date seriously. I have certain financial goals I want to reach the next few years, and educational goals as well. There is no way I would be able to reach them if I quit this line of work. I would not ask someone to quit their job for me, so I would hope someone would not want me to quit my job. I quit stripping for my ex husband and it landed me in debt from his gambling addiction & no way to pay off my student loan debt until I began escorting… where I’m now debt free.
Biggest deal breaker would be their behaviour. If someone makes me uncomfortable, or hurts me in any way, I won’t see them again. If a client does anything non consensual to me they absolutely will not see me again. I have only had one client who had such bad hygiene I would not see them again.
I’m out to people close to me and whom I trust. My closest friends know, as well as my sister. But because I do other work part time I keep separate from my SW I am not out publicly.
Thoughtful gifts always are appreciated. I have mentioned thinks I like on my twitter where I have had clients take note of them and surprise me with gifts.
Every month I have to invest a few thousand dollars into my ads, incall condo, supplies, outfits, makeup, nails, & skin care. I have also invested $30,000 so far into surgeries and procedures last winter to improve my appearance, including my tummy tuck, lipo, and various skin procedures.
I was out of work for a few months after a work injury that had me bed ridden but worksafe bc would not compensate me for. My ex husband was a deadbeat dad for the most part for years and prior to doing this he hadn’t paid child support for a whole year, I had student loan debt and debt my ex husband put me into as he’s a gambling addict (I took out loans for him, had the bills in my name he stopped paying for etc). My credit cards were maxed out, I had no money in the bank and didn’t know how I was going to support myself and my 2 kids as a single parent. So I got into this thinking it would me temporary to get myself out of debt, but I really enjoy being a SWer for many reasons and have stayed in it. This job not only has changed my life, it’s saved my life.
My assumption is that not every person who walks through the door is going to be your cup of tea.
How do you prepare yourself mentally to give everyone the best possible experience?
And a related question: what percentage of time do you have a session where you think, “this is a great job.” And what conditions lend itself to that?
Thanks for setting up this post and the great answers - one of the most enjoyable threads for sure.
How do you prepare yourself mentally to give everyone the best possible experience?
And a related question: what percentage of time do you have a session where you think, “this is a great job.” And what conditions lend itself to that?
Thanks for setting up this post and the great answers - one of the most enjoyable threads for sure.
Honestly myself as a person I’m the type of person where I’m attracted to who people are more so than what they look like, status, their job etc. Truly I mostly want my clients to walk in my door and be respectful & to have good hygiene. On my end I have put a lot of time and money into my incall condo with it having a “spa” feel, cozy and romantic where I have an electric fireplace, candles, mood lighting, sexy music and have wax melts to smell good and more. I offer beverages as well. I make sure I smile when they come in, offer a beverage and ask how their day was etc. I truly want my clients to feel welcome & relaxed when they come in. Giving time between clients also allows me to be my best version of me I can be.
As far as enjoying my job, most definitely most of the time I think this, maybe 80-90% of my day. I have a crazy high sex drive that this line of work helps out with, and most of my clients are pleasant. I have a lot of clients I truly enjoy their company. There’s been a lot of benefits for myself being in this line of work, personally, that allows me to spend more time with my family, close friends, to travel and now start part time college studies to top off why I enjoy being in SW.
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How do you prepare yourself mentally to give everyone the best possible experience?
I’m privileged enough that if I don’t feel 100% I can cancel an appointment and it won’t affect my finances. I always tell the truth and give the person the option to see me or reschedule.
I don’t do anything special. If there’s a client that’s requesting too much of my energy, I just don’t see them again.
And a related question: what percentage of time do you have a session where you think, “this is a great job.” And what conditions lend itself to that?
90% of the time, I’m on a date with someone who’s happy to see me. They might have brought wine or something to eat, sometimes even a gift even though we don’t know each other. Then I can have interesting conversations and end with sex. What’s not to like about that?
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I love this sort of ... (sharing of your experience) and it must be quite the unique encounter when that occurs.
As with all encounters, an avenue of rather raw self expression is facilitated... and automatically to it is added the new shared mutual trust.
It would be such a unique world if we could more often than not pay for sexual encounters with people that we had long crushed on in real life.
I'm really glad that you went through with them ... AND I am mostly glad that they admitted in advance who they were. (the alternative assures a 100% awkward beginning, at the very least)
When a reputable provider prefers to not have a menu, and states such discussions are a turn off or not appreciated-is the message just straight GFE? I try to search for matches that seem to be open minded even though the straight gfe experience is something that would normally be preferable. Still, variety being the spice of life-sometimes there may be a desire to try something somewhat outside the norm. How does a client broach this subject with a SP as described above? Is it simply a YMMV situation between each sp and client or are most sp's actually fine with having these discussions in person or via other, respectful, contact methods?
What is the best compliment someone has given you that you remember or will never forget?
I don’t have to see anyone a second time if I don’t want to, so if we’re not vibing right off the bat… I remind myself of that. Sometimes nerves are bad or there just isn’t a connection. I try to focus on what’s working.
You’re here for a good time, not a long time. I’ll always hold up my end of the deal. Provided your hygiene is on point and you don’t do anything stupid, we’re here to get naked and have fun 💗🤪
I, like you, also want to enjoy myself.
Looking/feeling my best, being moisturized (lol) and having a clean space helps me provide the best possible experience… and I genuinely enjoy fucking strangers, so that probably has to help!!! 🤣
"Long short of it all is if there was a MasterClass on how to fuck so good that you'll uncover Classified State Secrets, here is Ms Mack your instructor for the next 8 weeks"
^ I had that on my ads for awhile… 😆
I love being complimented on my laugh. 🥹❤
I actually had no idea these people had a crush on me. None of them ever approached me to try and chat/flirt with me or asked me out. I wonder if some men out there may actually feel more comfortable approaching a woman they find attractive who is a provider?
Yes it was much appreciated they told me who they were prior. It made me feel much more comfortable. It would have been awkward if they hadn’t. The transparency was appreciated.
The best compliments were from my clients I saw prior to getting cosmetic surgeries for my stomach and my weight loss journey, who saw me afterwards and told me I was beautiful before and that I’m beautiful now. It really meant a lot to me.
From a thread that I’ve created called “Booking an indy: Tips, tricks, dos and don'ts”
Can I know what's on your menu?
This question has probably made you lose your chance with a provider. While it's fair to ask what one might offer, there are certainly ways to ask. You could for instance, share what you like or need and ask the provider if that's something they offer.
"Hello so&so,
My name is Mr. X and I would like to know if you're available on [date] for a [duration] session. I would like an [incall/outcall] session. Let me know what information you would need to complete the booking. I am really into deep French kissing and kinkier things like COF. Are those things you offer?
Thank you,
X"
What is the best compliment someone has given you that you remember or will never forget?
“You’re a genuinely good person Lena.”
“You look exactly like the day I met you” he said 3 years after we met
So many things. Its hard to think of just one but most recently a new client weaved notes in between the little guys in the envelope, each note was very heartfelt. I am a very sentimental person so that really meant a lot.
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Over the past month how many of your clients are regulars and how many are new?
Majority was new clients and non repeat, I am based in Montreal and it was summer. There was a lot of tourists.
And, is there an ideal mix of new and regular clients that works well for you?
I love meeting new people but I miss seeing familiar faces. When things in their life changes and they can’t come see me anymore, I actually miss them. (My favourite gentlemen)
Would an SP be offended if I asked her to leave her phone someplace else during a session?
Nothing turns my throbbing rail spike into a wet noodle faster than when a lady grabs and scrolls through her phone while servicing me.
This has become a huge problem in the conservative bible belt where I live.
Nothing turns my throbbing rail spike into a wet noodle faster than when a lady grabs and scrolls through her phone while servicing me.
This has become a huge problem in the conservative bible belt where I live.
Would an SP be offended if I asked her to leave her phone someplace else during a session?
It’s not rude. I expect the same from clients when they come to my incall. Leave your phone where I can see it (to make sure it’s not filming us) and put it on silence.
I keep mine on the countertop, on silence but I don’t turn it off because I’m a mom and it needs to be on in case of emergency. I also use it for Spotify.
You shouldn’t be paying to have someone be on instagram in your face.
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