Anyone have insight why so many Asian women have seemingly instant chemistry with white men? But the reverse is never or hardly seen White women and Asian men? I get the height thing and good sex, that's easy to figure out. I rarely see them fail. IMO the odds of marriage when when those 2 date are 70-75% from the 1st date. Just try to figure out the between the ears thing. When I see a Asian gal I always think her other is a white guy or black.
Asian women and white men chemistry??
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A lot of Asian women think marrying white is an automatic move up the social ladder, or simply envy white women's position, and many are clueless to this and just think their attraction is what it is.
These are the same ones who think they're unique in their thoughts among other Asian women and nobody can possibly understand them except the white guy who will date them. When they find one she instantly feels elevated to white position. The implication is that being Asian is inferior., in other words she has an inferiority complex.
These are the same ones who think they're unique in their thoughts among other Asian women and nobody can possibly understand them except the white guy who will date them. When they find one she instantly feels elevated to white position. The implication is that being Asian is inferior., in other words she has an inferiority complex.
hhmmmm I have heard an number of theories on this topic.
1) Confidence
By nature white guys tend to be more confident than their Asian counterparts. Majority of white guys are taught at a young age to act tough and be a man. Don't fear rejection and be aggressive. They're taught to take what they want.
Asian guys are sheltered, they are taught that they should focus on their studies and do well in school so they will get a good job and so on. So they don't go out, stay in or do a lot of tutoring. They mostly interact with their nerdy counterparts or spend their free time gaming and interacting with people online. This cause them to be a bit more socially awkward around females, especially pretty ones so they tend to put them on a pedestal
Media
Nowaday we are so bombarded by the media with white dominant males that a lot of women just find white guys very attractive. A lot of Asian women prefer them because of their white skin, pretty blue eyes and big exomorphic, build. Asians are never portrayed as tough, sexy male leads. Even majority of Asian men who are considered sexy in Asian countries try to be white as possible. They use a lot of skin whitteners and try to look pale, dyed hair and wear colored contacts.
Common Interests
A lot to do with dating is to do with common interest. It doesn't matter what your background is you have to like what the girl is into. If she's not into what you're into it doesn't matter. I do find a lot of Asian girls are more accommodating to liking what the guy likes, especially what White guys like. White girls like whatever they like, as an Asian guy you have to adapt and be more open to doing what they want.
Of course there are a lot of exception for these rules. There are Asian guys who are very confident and there are white guys who are very shy. But majority of all guys fall within these rules.
I know I sound harsh to the Asians. Being Asian myself, I've tried to date white girls before and came close a few times. But in my early years I wasn't the party type and a lot of white girls I've met loved to dance and party.
But those are my theories.
Also, I found from talking to a lot of international students, when they come to Canada to study English, that when they come here and want to date a Canadian guy they aren't thinking of people who are from Vancouver and speak fluent English. They're think of white guys. You could be Asian, born and raised in Vancouver and not be considered Canadian in their eyes.
1) Confidence
By nature white guys tend to be more confident than their Asian counterparts. Majority of white guys are taught at a young age to act tough and be a man. Don't fear rejection and be aggressive. They're taught to take what they want.
Asian guys are sheltered, they are taught that they should focus on their studies and do well in school so they will get a good job and so on. So they don't go out, stay in or do a lot of tutoring. They mostly interact with their nerdy counterparts or spend their free time gaming and interacting with people online. This cause them to be a bit more socially awkward around females, especially pretty ones so they tend to put them on a pedestal
Media
Nowaday we are so bombarded by the media with white dominant males that a lot of women just find white guys very attractive. A lot of Asian women prefer them because of their white skin, pretty blue eyes and big exomorphic, build. Asians are never portrayed as tough, sexy male leads. Even majority of Asian men who are considered sexy in Asian countries try to be white as possible. They use a lot of skin whitteners and try to look pale, dyed hair and wear colored contacts.
Common Interests
A lot to do with dating is to do with common interest. It doesn't matter what your background is you have to like what the girl is into. If she's not into what you're into it doesn't matter. I do find a lot of Asian girls are more accommodating to liking what the guy likes, especially what White guys like. White girls like whatever they like, as an Asian guy you have to adapt and be more open to doing what they want.
Of course there are a lot of exception for these rules. There are Asian guys who are very confident and there are white guys who are very shy. But majority of all guys fall within these rules.
I know I sound harsh to the Asians. Being Asian myself, I've tried to date white girls before and came close a few times. But in my early years I wasn't the party type and a lot of white girls I've met loved to dance and party.
But those are my theories.
Also, I found from talking to a lot of international students, when they come to Canada to study English, that when they come here and want to date a Canadian guy they aren't thinking of people who are from Vancouver and speak fluent English. They're think of white guys. You could be Asian, born and raised in Vancouver and not be considered Canadian in their eyes.
Three couples I am friends with are Asian and Caucasian. They have been together for a while now and have good marriages. I enjoy their company a lot. All are very nice people. They have a good thing going IMHO
In most cases it is far more simple than the above.
Most Asian men in Asia will not perform oral.
Most are selfish, poor lovers and Asian women are getting less tolerant regarding this.
Most Asian men in Asia will not perform oral.
Most are selfish, poor lovers and Asian women are getting less tolerant regarding this.
I'm asian ( 5'8" w/ a slim/lean build)....All but one girl (chinese) I have ever dated has been white. Never had a problem. I used to buy into the whole "inferior asian male thing" when I was younger until one day I just said "fuck it". I just got fed up with the perceptions and decided to break the mold. If I really want her, I go in with the mindset (note that I don't call it attitude) that "Im gonna fuck you". You just talk to a woman, any woman, and look her in the eyes. Your non-verbal cues will be noticed.
Women aren't attracted to Asians because of the hype and when you break the stereotype, it's a refreshing change from what she has been conditioned to expect. Just keep breaking down the stereotypes my friend. Asian men are probably one of the best kept dating secrets (I have personally heard this from quite a few ladies). White and black guys won't admit this because for ages they've been on top of the dating food chain. Well, they've become complacent and I'm gonna take "their" women and give them the middle finger. Women won't admit this because of the stigmas that the public will view them as "just friends" because "OMG the asian dude probably can't get a date to save his life". A little well timed PDA will help break this perception. I do it to my girl quite often and people notice...and I notice the change in how they look at us when we're out.
There's a growing percentage of AM/WF couples. It's a slowly evolving phenomena but it's happening.
http://www.asianmanwhitewoman.com/
The above link shows up 9th when you google "asian male white female relationships". All the other links point to why white women aren't attracted to asian men. WTF?! This is the kind of bullshit we Asian guys have to deal with. The constant negative reinforcement of stereotypes. Sure stereotypes exist for a reason, but that doesn't mean you have to accept the status quo. It's kinda like how a black guy can't walk into a store without being followed by security. It exists, but it's bullshit.
All you asian brothers need to shake things up. Honda761, if white women are already looking at you, that's a first step. Take the time to lick your wounds but come out of your corner and kick some ass.
Women aren't attracted to Asians because of the hype and when you break the stereotype, it's a refreshing change from what she has been conditioned to expect. Just keep breaking down the stereotypes my friend. Asian men are probably one of the best kept dating secrets (I have personally heard this from quite a few ladies). White and black guys won't admit this because for ages they've been on top of the dating food chain. Well, they've become complacent and I'm gonna take "their" women and give them the middle finger. Women won't admit this because of the stigmas that the public will view them as "just friends" because "OMG the asian dude probably can't get a date to save his life". A little well timed PDA will help break this perception. I do it to my girl quite often and people notice...and I notice the change in how they look at us when we're out.
There's a growing percentage of AM/WF couples. It's a slowly evolving phenomena but it's happening.
http://www.asianmanwhitewoman.com/
The above link shows up 9th when you google "asian male white female relationships". All the other links point to why white women aren't attracted to asian men. WTF?! This is the kind of bullshit we Asian guys have to deal with. The constant negative reinforcement of stereotypes. Sure stereotypes exist for a reason, but that doesn't mean you have to accept the status quo. It's kinda like how a black guy can't walk into a store without being followed by security. It exists, but it's bullshit.
All you asian brothers need to shake things up. Honda761, if white women are already looking at you, that's a first step. Take the time to lick your wounds but come out of your corner and kick some ass.
Speaking as a white male, You can't take our women , because we don't own them in the first place. You're more than welcome to date whoever you think is attractive . Some people like blonde hair, some dark . Pale skin, darker skin . People like what they like. It's all good dude . You don't have to give me the middle finger cause I'm not bothered by you dating white women . And if anyone is , ignore them. They're not worth your time. I've dated a few Asian women. Chinese, Japanese, Filipino descent . I don't have a subservient geisha fetish . I just like dark hair , dark eyes , smooth skin . Dating, marriage, life , love : it isn't a competition between Asians and Caucasians . We are all Canadians ! Or at least trying to make a go of it here .
Yup...agreed. Really, race is no matter in dating...chicks are chicks everywhere, man.
I gotta be honest.. I am a white chick who LOVES asian men. I don't think a lot of white women have realized the sexyness that Asian men have... I recently discovered an Asian porn star named Keni Styles http://www.xvideos.com/profiles/keni-styles and yeah... I was very impressed!
It's so common here due to the huge asian population. I've seen black men with asia woman, brown men with asian women. I prefer my white women with their blonde hair and emerald eyes. But walking down robson and seeing those hot young tight internationals makes me want to order some bbq or sushi. It would take more than one single woman to tame this stallion!
No offense honda but that was total beta when you changed your phone number after the girl wouldn't call ya. Ya gotta man up if you want to get some free puss.
No offense honda but that was total beta when you changed your phone number after the girl wouldn't call ya. Ya gotta man up if you want to get some free puss.
Do you know how hard it is to hit on a bank teller when people are behind you or close to you or getting into line. And passing a note to a teller is risky biz, they might think its a hold up! Give me credit for that
6 years ago may I met a Asian lady by a text to wrong number. I was about a year into a bad divorce to a WF me WM and was reluctant to date Asian or anyone. Well I caved and we dated for months and now very happily married. All she wants is for me to love her for who she is and be with me and enjoy family. I have never had a closer friend and learned about cultures on the way. and I am well fed to! lol
no offence to any whites but this is where I belong.
no offence to any whites but this is where I belong.
