Are We Being Manipulated? Are you in this club?

[newatit]

good points Dickson, and maybe it is difficult to see who is manipulative here, you or the SP's.

 

[Dickson]

good points Dickson, and maybe it is difficult to see who is manipulative here, you or the SP's.

BINGO newatit you nailed it. Who is manipulating who?

 

[luvsdaty]

luvsdaty, I think you have the right approach. Everytime I get into the friendship situation it blows up in my face. I have had those "expensive tastes" ladies and it blows me away how much they can spend and still not be happy. These discussions really help me to put things in perspective. I seem to only have friends who want me to buy them things so I am done with friends.

However after reading some of the posted I feel like shit as I am as bad as the SP/GF that take advantage of me. I met a young SP who I seem to connect with and I implusively suggested that maybe she come to Europe with me. She got excited and was thinking about it until her Mom told her that she is crazy. I now realize how crazy it was for me to even suggest it. To put it in perspective, I did, do it a few years back with a European SP who spent two weeks with me in North America. It ended it a mess but it was a good time at first. On my recent flight back I realize how an old guy like me can not get involved with a 26 year old. It is just purely wrong.

So I am just as bad as the SP. One SP I spent 7 months with just called me pure EVIL and now hates me for exposing her to another world. Taking her shopping and buyer her fancy dresses, shoes, hand bags, fancy restaurants, taking her to the theater, night clubs, Galas, first class flights, limo rides, suites in 5 star hotels, taking her LA and NYC. She hates me for exposing her to that world. I take advantage of them as much as they take advantage of me. Messing with thier emotions. I am as bad as them.

Keeping it like you luvsdaty is the right thing to do. It is becoming clear to me. Either that or just get out of the hobby like I have with real GFs and friends. However it does get lonely.

I feel for you, i guess i'm a lucky fellow.I never get lonely,i have an awesome family & we all get along The few friends that i do have, i wouldn't hesitate for a second in giving them the shirt off my back. As i've gotten older i've found it so much more liberating, i don't let my little head do the thinking for me anymore & i do this hobby in moderation now;.I've saved so much cash since i've taken this approach.There's just to much drama & baggage if you go down the path of trying to 'save' someone that usually doesn't want to be saved in the 1st place
So now i just enjoy my encounters with these beautiful creatures that work this trade & appreciate it for what it is.Great sex! usually
So keep your dicks hard guys, & just avoid the drama

 

[PlayfulAlex]

...So now i just enjoy my encounters with these beautiful creatures that work this trade & appreciate it for what it is.Great sex! usually...So keep your dicks hard guys, & just avoid the drama

Exactly! It's such a shame when drama f*cks everything up! If you both knew what time it was, grow the f*ck up, and quit messing around with people's emotions! It is just what it is! If any lady gets it twisted, and if any fella loses sight of the truth, you only have yourselves to blame!

Appreciate each other, for what it is! And enjoy!

 

[GATSBY]

Don't worry....I GUARANTEE you aren't the only one ound:

what he said haha..