Are 3 out of 4 of us really assholes?

[SFMIKE]

I am unable to fully understand why some of these ladies open up to me. Perhaps it is because I am white and few years older than them. (BTW, they are all Asian) Just this morning I was teasing the lady in question about I have a son who is several years older than her. But, my age does not bother her in the least and I believe it may provide a level of comfort and security that makes her feel I am less threatening to her.

Or, as is the case with her and some others who have told me a few tales, it might be becasue I am the loyal type. By that I mean when I find someone I enjoy and sense she also enjoys being in my presence I tend to repeat a lot with her. It is not that unusual for me to see the same lady 3, 4 or, in one instance, 5 times during the course of the several days I am in this city.

I guess this type of behavior on my part sends them the message that I enjoy my time with them and will continue to see them again and again, if this is possible. But, one of the criteria I usually apply in deciding to repeat with someone is that I am able to communicate in English with them. I can recall only one lady I repeated with many times without the benefit of communication. The times she and I shared together did not need any form of communication. We shared another different type of communication.

 

[SFMIKE]

personal to 50 Mile Radius

If you are at the Canuck game tonight I will take you up on your offer of the free beer since I am not a Giants fan.

I do not leave until tomorrow, then it is onto baseball. It has been a long winter

 

[50 Mile Radius]

However, I must take great exception to one "abusive" thing that you wrote. You implied that I might be a Giants fan, possibly by my handle. For you, I have one suggestion: look across the Bay. Monday-Wednesday the Yankees are in town and I shall be there. The Giants are for those who wish to be seen at the game, the A's fans are the true fans. So, looks like I will still collect that beer, eh?

I stand corrected, and now.....the PITCHERS of BEERS are on me!!!!!We can HATE the giants together.....

BTW 50, I'm a Giants fan so does that mean the beers are off!

No, Beers are still onfor you, but I'll lace yours with STEROIDS....

 

[lars_from_mars]

3/4 sounds believeable, because I visited an indie in Surrey recently who complained that most PERB guys are very pushy and demanding.

I suppose there are dumbasses out there who figure that paying for a girl's services somehow entitles them to mistreat an SP. That's pretty weak.

 

[dick slap]

3/4 sounds believeable, because I visited an indie in Surrey recently who complained that most PERB guys are very pushy and demanding.

I suppose there are dumbasses out there who figure that paying for a girl's services somehow entitles them to mistreat an SP. That's pretty weak.

Sometimes assertive and confident can be perceived as pushy and demanding. However if a steroetype "PERB GUY" can be identified in the pooning world so be it. I wonder if an ID card from PERB could be made up by one of the creative poster's?

 

[sexyndnwomam]

The clients I have met so far have been great I say in regards to the assholes, both us ladies and you guys should go with the gut instinct!

 

[dick slap]

rrr...cat fight comin'

 

[dick slap]

Let me start on that


Miauuuuuuu

do u see my motto in da bottom? Peace

No fair - you've got to use your claws not your....

 

[Randy Whorewald]

I KNOW WHAT YOU WANT...........

 

[sexyndnwomam]

Darlin'

Are you talking with experience at least ?

Yep, I also meant to say that if it dont feel right, dont do it Its all good, no cat fight here

 

[Quarter Mile'r]

No, Beers are still onfor you, but I'll lace yours with STEROIDS....

Hey 50, I like the idea of the beers and hope one
day we can sit and enjoy a couple, but the Giants I was referring to are
not the steroid baseball type Giants from down South.

God forbid I ever get turned into a baseball fan!

The Giants I support are on this side of the border and wear ice skates!
Thaaaaaaat's the Giants I was referring too.

Looks like they're gonna knock off PG cougars soon.


..........QM'r

 

[SFMIKE]

The main reason I decided to name no names when I started this thread was because I did not want to either help or harm the facilities in question.

My sole purpose was to bring the issue out in the open and get a feel for what other members had to say on the subject. I have been a bit surprised by some of the comments, but almost everything written has contributed to the discussion. Most of the time these threads tend to run off in two of three directions at a time.

I am a bit surprised that any ladies have contributed, but I thank all of you. But, the way I see it the ladies on this board are almost exclusively indepenents and I am sure most of them have turned down prospective customers based only on a feeling they get on the telephone when talking with said customer. In this way you have been able to weed out the potential problems before they get through the door. Hence, most of your experiences have been positive, that is, if you do take the time to screen out these guys.

That being said, the two incidents I have described both occurred at micros, and I can assure you there is absolutely no screening there. There is so much competition that most, if not all of them, will take anybody who phones, as long as language is not a problem. (The one exception I can think of is there are some which cater to Asian or Chinese only--I cannot speak to this issue.) The mamasan or papasan will let anybody through the door as long as they are paying the room fee. What happens to the girls, at least in most cases, is only a problem for the girl. I am sure some shall write that they know of places where this is not the case, and I do not deny that. I am only able to speak of the experiences I have had. There are still many places I have not been to, but I have found my comfort zones in 3 places and tend to now only go to these places.

However, if I lived here I have no doubt I would consider expanding my horizons and finding even better places than the ones I now feel most comfortable with.

 

[BC_Boy]

I treat SPs the same way I treat any other girl. I believe I'm overall nice to them, I try to get to know them.

Sometimes, I might be an ass by making some jokes and poking fun, but I do it with innocent intentions; although I may come off as an asshole if she doesn't get my attempt at humour.

 

[SPinVic]

Let me first and formost say that in no way are my comments to minimize her, or any one elses exeriences.

I know in life we all encounter, wheither man or women, people who try and use and abuse us. This human nature is not restricted to the escort industry. I have to say that the general public has abused me way more than the gentlemen that some to see me as an escort. I have been an escort part time for almost 5 years and the percentage of uncontrollable situations I have been in, is 0.01%.

Other than physical abuse, the rest is about your mind set. People can only abuse your mind if you let them. This is a hard mental job, but so are many others. I have seen many women come and go in this industry, but so have I in the "normal job I hold...not so different. If it is not for you, then it isn't.

I get tired of people who feel sorry for all us escorts. We are all not unhappy and many of us have made very calculated, intellegent choices, and in all reality, we all choose the path in which we take.

I have loved all the women I have worked with in many different ways and have seen many women who should not be there. I can hope that they find the path they they were meant to take and to find their happiness.

Thank you for letting me share...best wishes to all and lots of awesome sex, cus that is what our bodies for

hugs and kisses

SPinVic

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

3 out of 4 of us aren't really assholes, we just act that way.

 

[good2bbad]

you get what you give

The clients I have met so far have been great I say in regards to the assholes, both us ladies and you guys should go with the gut instinct!

I'm new to this board but I truly believe you reap what you sow. In my travels to AMP's, MP's and now SP's I have found that the nicer I treat the girls, the nicer they treat me. Some things that were originally not on the menu are suddenly available. I try to treat them all with the respect they deserve. I would think being a SP would be a tough profession and I respect the people who have chosen to be a part of it. I have never gone a micro so I cannot speak with any experience. Someone like the jerk removing his condom should be put in jail.

 

[Sleepy]

I would have thought it was higher than 3 out of 4. More like 19 out of 20... kind of like how the pollsters say it.

 

[SFMIKE]

Thanks for all the good feedback

Initially when I wrote this I went back to the hotel and started to have second thoughts about bringing up the topic. But, you guys, and gals also, have reaffirmed my faith in human beings. Instead of slamming me for even discussing the topic so many of you responded with some of the most intelligent (non political, of course) comments I have ever seen here.

Perhaps fuzzy knuckles summed it up best:

"3 out of 4 of us aren't really assholes, we just act that way."

For me it is back home today to face the start of the new baseball season, not that there is anything wrong with that.

But, I shall return. Aleady I am trying to think of a good reason to return to this great city. Any suggerstions would be appreciated.

 

[Lauren]

MP's...

It saddens me sometimes to read that girls stay with clients who are rude or make them feel uncomfortable in any way. I work out of an MP and I don't have to stay with anyone that I don't want to stay with. I realize that one location's clientelle may differ drastically from another, but in my experience, men usually come in to have a nice time. A rude or abusive client just isn't worth the money... I wish that more girls would realize this. Chances are, if you turn away the jerk, someone nice will stop by within the next 15 minutes. You don't have to put up with bullshit and if you are working in an environment where you are forced to see these clients, then you should consider going elsewhere... there are much better places to work. I have a great clientelle... they are pleasant, kind and respectful, but it has taken some effort on my part to build up the kind of clientelle that I'm comfortable with seeing. If you allow people to treat you like dirt, they will always treat you like dirt. It's a very powerful statement when you turn someone away because they can't behave in a civilized manner... it shows them that you have some self-respect and that even if they are paying, you are not going to allow them to put you down. This might come across as though assholes are coming in all the time and that really isn't the case. I rarely have to turn someone away or end a session early.... but on the rare occasion that a client comes in with the motive to belittle, abuse or insult, I make it clear that it is unacceptable and that if they aren't here for an enjoyable time, they can go elsewhere and I can do without their business. I won't allow one nasty client to result in 3 clients' decision not to repeat because he has had the power to alter my attitude for the day. In the end, it does not benefit you on an emotional or a business level.

 

[SFMIKE]

This thread has served its purpose

Two similar threads have been started and it can only be a good thing now that the topic is being openly discussed.

So, if it leads to some of us treating all of these ladies with the respect they deserve the results will be in our favor.

It does not hurt to be nice.