Anyone ever date/marry a SP or former SP?

[CJ Tylers]

So if someone wants to adopt me then yes. Have some closet space. My baggage is widespread and has been a problem in my past.

I have a full walk in closet....

To date me....lets see. You'd have to deal with ME (bonkers in every way....I think in all GOOD ways...), one very cranky but very willing ho dog, one very horny and happy chihuahua who may or may not hump the shiznit out of your leg and then all my BAGGAGE........I think it would be a hero.

Damn... can't have dogs in the appartment

And as for poulty thowing...um...I do alot of cooking myself No need to worry about screwing up mashed potatoes! heh

 

[dinobot]

lavalife? adult friendfinder? Sorry to burst your bubble but they would have charged you ... a lot of girls use 'dating' sites as advertisement.

This is very interesting because I used to chat with a few current sps from some dating site. It was really amazing that I found out that they where working girls. I can count at least bout like 20 to 30 chicks that are sps that have profiles on dating sites. One chick I found out was an sp when I googled her phone number . I was shocked lol. But its all good though at least I'm sure to score.








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[HeMadeMeDoIt]

Isnt there a rap song about that? "You can't turn a HO into a housewife" or words to that effect. Trying would be an excercise in futility. She will always be thinking that you're out pooning and youll always think she's out whoring.

 

[Miss*Bijou]

Isnt there a rap song about that? "You can't turn a HO into a housewife" or words to that effect.

I think I know which one you're talking about...
My version sounds more like: "I'd rather be a HO than a housewife!"
(I actually used it as my MSN tag line for a bit.. lol)

Trying would be an excercise in futility.

If you're looking for a virginal wife..then yes, yes it would be futile.
But I don't want to hear any bitching when you find out she doesn't give blowjobs, ok?! lol

If you're secure and confident enough to handle the fact that your partner has had a sexual past similar to yours and that she may just want to experiment some more with you when the action starts getting a little stale....then you never know, a sexual woman that's honest about it might not be that bad after all.

She will always be thinking that you're out pooning and youll always think she's out whoring.

Sounds like a lot of my friends (non sp) relationships
It's called immaturity and insecurity...it's toxic and it's everywhere!


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In all honesty though, I can understand not wanting to be in a relationship with someone who is currently working as an sp.

But not wanting to date someone who's been an escort in the past just shows insecurity and is just a lame double standard. The good news is that I would never want to date someone like that anyway...so we don't have to worry about that one!

I've got plenty of friends I can introduce you to, they've never been sp's & I'll just let you find all the hidden baggage on your own..and I promise to try to get them home when they get drunk at the bar and are ready to leave with some random guy.

No, really.. But your mama will love her!


Me

 

[tripster]

Has anyone on here ever dated or even married a current or former SP? Just wondering how that worked out?

If you never have done this, would you?

There's one SP I've spent
time with 'off-work' (I don't have to mention names, but she's been frequently written about here to rather rave reviews) .
I'm also a student at SFU (like her) so I see her around there. I first met her at Tom's and we hit it off together right away.
Then I started meeting her on campus and we started going out from time to time. During those episodes we eneded up doing it together (for free),
either at
my place or in my car (her favourite ). It's a nice experience when we're not under the clock. And she is more relaxed
and enjoys it more.

In my situation I knew from the start that she's a SP so I didn't expect any long-term committment from her.
We have an 'unspoken' agreement that when we're together on 'off-work' time it's for free, but I still visit her at the
micro from time to time and pay as a usual
customer. This way we don't have any awkward feelings about when it's work or for pleasure; we just separate
the two. I wouldn't be surprised if she is doing the same with other customers she's met, or if she has a boyfriend even,
but when we're together it's just us two and a real GFE (not just a faked one). I think she likes this 'non-committal' type
of relationship.

So overall I'd say it's been a great experience to hook up with her, even with this 'handicap' of an occupation she has.
It took some time for me to get fully used to it, since I really like her. But I realize that she will never belong to any one
guy so I can't complain (in fact, I'm damn lucky ).

 

[rollerboy]

You girls are complicated.

 

[tianna]

wow this thread is great stuff.. it goes and goes

so.. after reading all of this for the last little bit.. I decided to actually let the cat out of the bag.. with someone whom I have been chatting with for some time now... I met him on a dating site( Im on lots of those things too) but not for work reasons..lol.. anyhow the next time we get into a long conversation.. I'm going to tell him and see what his reaction is... this will be the first...as no one knows... so I hope that it goes well... or as well as can be expected

 

[tianna]

don't think he does

and I do have photos up on the internet.. so he has seen me.. just not the website.. well that I know of

 

[TotallyTouchin]

Tianna!

This could get exciting girl!

You'll have to update us on what happens......maybe he's a stripper or something behind the scenes and then the two of you could do like pornos or something and you can be a duo! Just imagine!

I'm a ho housewife I have to admit. I clean, I do dishes, I wash and dry clothes and then....when the dogs/kids are walked (they're dogs but to me they are kids...), and the grocery shopping is done, I get hoed up from the floor up and head off for a fun filled night of crazy bad bad things......(but they feel good so I'm allowed).

So yeah...DATE that big tittie hot mama of yours......bang the hell out of her and then let her go about her dishwashing stuff....then bang the hell out of her again and let her do the laundry with extra bounce (no pun intended)...preferably whilst naked but whatever...and then BANG the hell out of her again and call it a day.....and let her cook that meal.

I know. Its a beautiful fairy tale but dreams really do come true!

 

[tianna]

god U a so funny

and it could be exciting so I'll have to keep u posted lol

 

[CJ Tylers]

Dash it all... there go my chances! Good luck Tianna, I'm sure the boy will keep his senses about him and not do anything foolish.

 

[tianna]

lol he should

however Im just testing the waters.. lol im not even all that into him at the moment... have not know him for too long.. and we met on the internet... so I'm sure we know how lots of those relationships go.... not far beyond msn friends but time will tell..

 

[Smother]

however Im just testing the waters.. lol im not even all that into him at the moment... have not know him for too long.. and we met on the internet... so I'm sure we know how lots of those relationships go.... not far beyond msn friends but time will tell..

Tianna....don't look at the glass half empty. I know people who have met on the internet and some of them are still together and seem happy.
Stay positive about it. If there's something you too like of each other then go with it. you never know.

Nowadays it seems like nothing is certain...not that it ever was but you know what i mean. People that meet through freinds or whatver don't seem to last either. So...I don't think it matter except on the 2 individuals. if you like each other and get along and some things in common...go for it and see what happens.
In your case though......the tough thing might be you being an Escort. That might be alittle tough for him. But who knows.

cheers...

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

I think I know which one you're talking about...
My version sounds more like: "I'd rather be a HO than a housewife!"
(I actually used it as my MSN tag line for a bit.. lol)

At least a ho is honest and you know what you're getting to upfront, as opposed to marrying someone and finding out it was costing you $400/nut

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If you're looking for a virginal wife..then yes, yes it would be futile.
But I don't want to hear any bitching when you find out she doesn't give blowjobs, ok?! lol

I thought virgins gave great head since its all they did and for the record BJ's aren't only available through your local vagina-mart.

If you're secure and confident enough to handle the fact that your partner has had a sexual past similar to yours and that she may just want to experiment some more with you when the action starts getting a little stale....then you never know, a sexual woman that's honest about it might not be that bad after all.

Its not a security or confidence issue, its a practicality one. Relationships are hard enough to make work when there aren't complications or obstacles attached let alone when you start adding things like one of them having kids, or a pet the other doesn't like, and or a pooning/whoring habit. Is it a double standard? ABSAFUCKINGLOTULY! Lets face it how many of us pooners go discuss their extra curricular activities with a civilian chick they meet and are seriously interested in? I personally don't.

In all honesty though, I can understand not wanting to be in a relationship with someone who is currently working as an sp.

I can never understand how anyone could do it. Maybe its because my mamma never taught me to share well

Having said all that who knows maybe the girl of my dreams will turn out to be a retired or willing to retire for me and i'll go goo goo ga ga over her and throw reason out of the window.

 

[CJ Tylers]

Well Tianna, if he doesn't work out you can always call on me

*dammit, this place needs bigger "smile" smilies...I need teeth..BIG teeth*

HeMadeMeDoIt...well isn't that just the problem when it comes to matters of the heart... reason usually gets left behind in the dust, eh?

 

[TotallyTouchin]

I love the term....

"as stable as a cat on crack" courtesy of the Reno guy (sorry I forgot your name....I'm unstable like that)

......WHEW! I'm an animal lover but I'd like to see that damn cat on crack!

I think I'm more like a hamster on weed now and again who sometimes may do a line here and there but mostly just drinks on the weekends and runs on my hammy wheel but can be convinced to do a line by the other hamsters if the mood strikes.

That is my stability level. The soft-core user hamster.

Who's hot.

Who bangs the other hamsters.

Wait maybe I'm more like a substance abusing rabbit in terms of stability. Don't they get alot of action? Yup. Thats it.

I'm BUGS BUNNY who dabbles in substances and THAT is my stability level. But I do laundry. And I vacuum. ANY TAKERS???????

Geez. No wonder I can't get a date.

 

[CJ Tylers]

Tiff, that substance abuse bit is a big drawback ya know... even if it isn't a monetary or addiciton issue, some people can't abide drug use in a partner.

 

[Miss*Bijou]

I thought virgins gave great head since its all they did

Touché! Good point.. I guess this is something I wouldn't know about! LOL

Having said all that who knows maybe the girl of my dreams will turn out to be a retired or willing to retire for me and i'll go goo goo ga ga over her and throw reason out of the window.

So true... We can all say whatever we want to say now but we can never really know until we actually meet someone that might makes us do the exact opposite.

 

[TotallyTouchin]

Yeah I know.....

the substance abuse part is a problem.....but then again so is not being able to take sarcarsm....hmmmm. Thanks CJ.

 

[Maury Beniowski]

Anyone foolish enough to admit to this is asking for it on Perb... Even admitting to living with one usually gets put down as pimping or living off the avails. Some have found it irresistible to announce it, but I'm sure they eventually wish they hadn't...