Any tips for newbies?

[Toa$ter]

I am a long time lurker and recently started my pooning career in late March of this year. I've repeated with 2 different SPs thus far, with more ladies on the radar. I've not written any reviews yet as they've both been reviewed before and I don't think I have much else to add other than that I had a great time with each of them!
Just wondering if it's normal to feel intimidated about contacting certain SPs? I see ads and photos and almost feel that I am out of their league as they are very attractive based on what I am seeing. I am an average looking guy, trying to look after myself but am not without a few flaws. It may be my inexperience, but maybe makes me a bit more self conscious although it won't stop me!
Any recommendations for young, chill Caucasian ladies as they seem to be where I want to focus and the reviews are bound to start rolling in as time and money permit.

Thanks perbites!

 

[Peyton Anders]

I am a long time lurker and recently started my pooning career in late March of this year. I've repeated with 2 different SPs thus far, with more ladies on the radar. I've not written any reviews yet as they've both been reviewed before and I don't think I have much else to add other than that I had a great time with each of them!
Just wondering if it's normal to feel intimidated about contacting certain SPs? I see ads and photos and almost feel that I am out of their league as they are very attractive based on what I am seeing. I am an average looking guy, trying to look after myself but am not without a few flaws. It may be my inexperience, but maybe makes me a bit more self conscious although it won't stop me!
Any recommendations for young, chill Caucasian ladies as they seem to be where I want to focus and the reviews are bound to start rolling in as time and money permit.

Thanks perbites!

I can only speak for myself but I would assume its likely the same for most ladies. In this industry it is more important to me that you are kind and respectful. As long as you treat the ladies with respect by being polite and gentlemanly I'm sure you will have no issues booking with whatever woman you choose. I learned that while having a good looking client might seem like a perk it's always (and I mean always) better when said client treats you with respect rather than being able to model for GQ or something.

 

[Toa$ter]

Hi Peyton,
Thanks for your input, it means a lot! I don't get to Victoria often, even though I am just across the water in Vancouver. Something tells me that we could probably have a lot of fun together?! Just some food for thought! Talk soon!

 

[Toa$ter]

Hi Peyton,
Thanks for your input, it means a lot! I don't get to Victoria often, even though I am just across the water in Vancouver. Something tells me that we could probably have a lot of fun together?! Just some food for thought! Talk soon!

 

[girth-brooks]

Here you go:

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/entry.php?202-Newbie-Tips-For-Having-A-Great-Experience-With-A-SP

 

[Lady Companion]

I echo the lovely Peyton's sentiments.

Who you are at your core is infinitely more important than what you look like, what you do for a living, how you dress or any other inconsequential fluff.

Many of us are companions because we genuinely love to create authentic connections, make people feel great, and provide a safe place of acceptance where you can be appreciated, loved, adored for who you REALLY are!

Take advantage of it! Allow us to show you how special you really are. Step away from your own judgements of yourself and see yourself through loving eyes.

You are so much more than your 'meat suit'! It hurts to think that you could consider yourself somehow inferior and actually create self imposed limitations on your desires based on your false perception of not being up to par.

 

[Hawker17]

Wow thanks for the input ladies, I know exactly what toaster is feeling and I still too have mixed feelings about seeking a new sp, but I appreciate your input ladies as it is always good advice, as the old saying is treat ppl the way you want to be treated

 

[Summer-Love]

You are so much more than your 'meat suit'!

Literally all I could think about was that one time Lady GaGa wore that dress made entirely out of raw meat, haha! I can never un-see that. I guess it had more metaphorical meaning than originally presumed

Anyway, I 100% agree with all statements made above. Simply put: as long as you treat the ladies well, they will treat you well in turn.

Best of luck in all your endeavors!

 

[Toa$ter]

Wow! I just want to thank everyone for their thoughts and comments. I value that a lot! Your insight gives me more confidence about just being myself and so far it's working!

 

[good2bbad]

Toaster, it has been my experience that as long as you are respectful and polite to the ladies, you should have a great time.
Be on time, be clean and respect the lady's parameters and you should do ok.
Having said that, the young Caucasian professionals seem to be at the higher end of the pay scale. Start saving your loonies!:eyebrows:

 

[badbadboy]

Toaster, it has been my experience that as long as you are respectful and polite to the ladies, you should have a great time.
Be on time, be clean and respect the lady's parameters and you should do ok.
Having said that, the young Caucasian professionals seem to be at the higher end of the pay scale. Start saving your loonies!:eyebrows:

I couldn't have said it any better.

Enjoy your new hobby Toaster :nod:

 

[NewDiver]

Here`s some more tips for newbies:

Newbie Guide to Client Etiquette


That was great information.

Thanks from a newbie.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I echo the lovely Peyton's sentiments.

Who you are at your core is infinitely more important than what you look like, what you do for a living, how you dress or any other inconsequential fluff.

Many of us are companions because we genuinely love to create authentic connections, make people feel great, and provide a safe place of acceptance where you can be appreciated, loved, adored for who you REALLY are!

Take advantage of it! Allow us to show you how special you really are. Step away from your own judgements of yourself and see yourself through loving eyes.

You are so much more than your 'meat suit'! It hurts to think that you could consider yourself somehow inferior and actually create self imposed limitations on your desires based on your false perception of not being up to par.

Beautifully put, Lady Companion. iIt clearly illustrates your courtesan ethic' as I like to think of it!

 

[MissVioletRei]

I agree with all the statements the other ladies have said above.

Personally, I find the best part is being able to explore someone beyond their physical aspects which leads to more exciting experiences .

Enjoy your adventures!

 

[Cami Parker]

We definitely value things like gentlemanliness, kindness, respectfulness, over anything else. You could be the most handsome jerk in the world and I still wouldn't want to see him. I think part of working in this industry us that you find you really are able to find something in everyone that makes them attractive in their own unique way.

 

[Cami Parker]

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I echo the lovely Peyton's sentiments.

Who you are at your core is infinitely more important than what you look like, what you do for a living, how you dress or any other inconsequential fluff.

Many of us are companions because we genuinely love to create authentic connections, make people feel great, and provide a safe place of acceptance where you can be appreciated, loved, adored for who you REALLY are!

Take advantage of it! Allow us to show you how special you really are. Step away from your own judgements of yourself and see yourself through loving eyes.

You are so much more than your 'meat suit'! It hurts to think that you could consider yourself somehow inferior and actually create self imposed limitations on your desires based on your false perception of not being up to par.

 

[summerbreeze]

Practice.....

 

[Dickson]

Just enjoy and don't be intimidated. Each SP has something unique about them. Seek out what you like and want in you life you can not have. I find the Hobby allows me to have the things that are missing.

Remember, life is made up of moments. Enjoy your moments with the SPs.

Don't have regrets and don't read too much into the comments.

Most imporyt just enjoy the experience.